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Solve Relationship and Emotional Issues Quickly
Intelligence & Freedom © Martyn Carruthers

Would you like to benefit from our experience?

Most people try to solve emotional and relationship problems in ways that are nice, simple and wrong.
Good intentions lead to unpleasant consequences. Health, wealth and happiness are created in human systems ... and systemic problems require systemic solutions.

Emotional Intelligence & Emotional Freedom

Happy partnership - intelligent children growing to independence - wise parents - supportive friends - a comfortable home - fulfilling work ... a sense of being where you should be ... what could be better?

Yet many people unconsciously sabotage their own happiness!

We assume that you want to feel well, and live with a sense of purpose. We assume that you want to participate in a meaningful, purposeful and fulfilling life. We assume that your life matters and that you can make a difference, get what you want and become the person you want to be.

Each of your choices - each word, each action and each belief can impact the world - although perhaps not always in the way that you intended. Many people live superficially, always feeling a sense of something greater... and yearning to change.

So many people seem to be sleep walking in a waking trance of advertising and political slogans. Does beauty, heart, sensitivity, kindness awaken you? Or do you wait for something to kick you?

Systemic Coaching & Practical Training

Do you want committed happy partnership and family?

Our professional training combines theory, demonstration, exercises and feedback. Learn about how to help people mature and how to help people achieve happiness and success. Our demonstrations show you how to help people define and achieve their goals. Our exercises give you space to practice what you learn and our feedback offers you the information you need to improve your skills to better help people. We demonstrate and exercise everything we teach - we offer true skills trainings.

Most successful people seem to have a vision or sense of purpose. Their goals are stepping stones to their visions. They work with change rather than fight it. They are inquisitive and feel connected to life. They feel like a unique part of a creative process, in which to live is to learn ... and to accomplish.

What stops people solving their own problems?

  1. Relationship entanglements
  2. No goals or plans for desired success
  3. Inner objections, inner criticism and conflicts
  4. Emotional immaturity
  5. Inner chaos - split-off parts of self
  6. Toxic beliefs (usually bonds to unhealthy people)
  7. Missing human qualities - Identity loss
  8. Mentor damage and poor mentorship

If we coach people to do only these things, they are much more likely to achieve the results they want, and achieve those results much faster than they would without coaching. People get our coaching for results, speed, to make things easier and to do things that they know they should do, but aren't doing ... usually because of emotional blocks.

Some Applications of Systemic Solutions

We offer coaching to motivated adults who want to accelerate
their success and / or change their lives.

  1. Men who fixate on their Mothers

  2. Women who obsess about their Fathers

  3. People entangled in Affairs

  4. Mother-Daughter Problems

  5. Emotional Blackmail

  6. Emotional Maturity

  7. Chronic Emotions and Psychosomatic Disease

  8. Eating Disorders and Weight Issues

Systemic Solutions

Many people are suffering from job loss; age-ism; lack of medical treatment, mortgage problems and many other things that need to be worked through so that those people can move on. Some of those people cannot seem to solve their own problems. Here are some reasons why not ...

What stops people solving their own problems?

  1. Relationship entanglements
  2. No goals or plans for desired success
  3. Inner objections, inner criticism and conflicts
  4. Emotional immaturity
  5. Inner chaos - split-off parts of self
  6. Toxic beliefs (usually bonds to unhealthy people)
  7. Missing human qualities - Identity loss
  8. Mentor damage and poor mentorship

Transcripts: Resolving Complex Conflict ... Recovering Lost Resources ... Identity Loss

Martyn Carruthers integrated emotional and relationship coaching based on his integration of traditional healing, success coaching and systemic therapy. His work on coaching people to evaluate and solve relationship problems, inter-generational bonds and relationship habits is revolutionary. Fredericton, Canada

More people stay together bonded by unhappy entanglements than bonded by love. Poor relationships with parents and ex-partners often cause conflict, stress and ill health. We help people move on.

Would you like to benefit from our experience?

Plagiarism is theft. Copyright © Martyn Carruthers 2007-2010 All rights reserved.


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Hawaii, USA: Dragonfly, PO Box 675, Honaunau, Hawaii, 96726 USA
London: YogaAnanda
46 Albert Road North, Reigate, Surrey RH2 9EL, UK
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: Centar Angel, Trnsko 13A, 10020 Zagreb, Croatia

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1. Where are you now? Assess relationship bonds and entanglements Systems 1
2. What are your life goals?  Identify your life goals ... and what blocks you Systems 2
3. How to reach your goals?  Use your conscious and unconscious resources Systems 3
4. What stops you?  Dissolve abuse and trauma to rebuild motivation Systems 4
5. What else stops you? Change your limiting beliefs to end dependence Systems 5
6. What else stops you? Resolve identity loss to recover qualities and skills Systems 6
7. What else stops you? Heal mentor damage and find quality mentorship Systems 7
8. What about your partnership? Build happy partnership (or separate peacefully) Systems 8
9. What about your children? We coach parents to resolve family problems Systems 9
10. What about your success? We coach team leaders and teams ... together Systems 10
11. What about your community? We coach community leaders and communities Systems 11
12. What about complex goals? Specialty coaching & training for unusual goals Specialty

Plagiarism is theft. Copyright © Martyn Carruthers 1996-2010 All rights reserved. Soulwork Systemic Coaching was primarily developed by Martyn Carruthers. We help people define and achieve goals, resolve emotional blocks and improve relationships. This information is for general knowledge only. Consult a physician about medical conditions and before changing any medical treatment. Don't steal ... ask Martyn for permission to post or publish his work.