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Solve Relationship and Emotional Issues Quickly

Soulwork Canada Systemic Coaching in Canada Soulwork Canada

Coaching & Training with Martyn Carruthers

Most people try to solve emotional and relationship problems in ways that are nice, simple and wrong.
Good intentions lead to unpleasant consequences. Health, wealth and happiness are created in human systems - and systemic problems require systemic solutions.

Emotional Intelligence & Emotional Freedom

A happy partnership - intelligent children growing to independence - wise parents - supportive friends - a comfortable home - fulfilling work ... a sense of being where you should be ... what could be better?

So many people unconsciously sabotage their own lives.
Do you seek solutions for problems that you can hardly describe?
Do you feel entangled in the confusion of past trauma or other people's problems?

We assume that you want to feel well, and live with a sense of purpose. We assume that you want to participate in a meaningful, purposeful and fulfilling life. We assume that your life matters and that you can make a difference, get what you want and become the person you want to be.

Each of your choices - each word, each action and each belief can impact the world - although perhaps not in the way you intended. Many people live superficially, always feeling a sense of something greater. We share that yearning with you.

So many people seem to be sleep walking in a waking trance of advertising slogans. Does beauty, heart, sensitivity, kindness awaken you? Or do you need a deep challenge to wake up?

Systemic Coaching & Practical Training

Do you want committed happy partnership and family?
Or do you want to end unhappy relationships peacefully?
Or do you just want to know what you want?

Our professional training combines theory, demonstration, exercises and feedback. Learn about people and about success and learn how how to help people achieve success. Our demonstrations show you how to help people define and achieve their goals. Our exercises give you space to practice what you learn and our feedback offers you the information you need to improve your skills to better help people. We demonstrate and exercise everything we teach - we offer true skills trainings.

Most successful people seem to have a vision or sense of purpose. Their goals are stepping stones to their visions. They work with change rather than fight it. They are inquisitive and feel connected to life. They feel like a unique part of a creative process, in which to live is to learn ... and to accomplish.

What stops people solving their own problems?

  1. Relationship entanglements
  2. No goals or plans for desired success
  3. Inner objections, inner criticism and conflicts
  4. Emotional immaturity
  5. Inner chaos - split-off parts of self
  6. Toxic beliefs (usually bonds to unhealthy people)
  7. Missing human qualities - Identity loss
  8. Mentor damage and poor mentorship

If we coach people to do only these things, they are much more likely to achieve the results they want, and achieve those results much faster than they would without coaching. People get our coaching for results, speed, to make things easier and to do things that they know they should do, but aren't doing ... usually because of emotional blocks.

Some Applications of Systemic Solutions

We offer coaching to people who want to accelerate
their success and / or change their lives.

  1. Men who fixate on their Mothers

  2. Women who obsess about their Fathers

  3. People entangled in Affairs

  4. Mother-Daughter Problems

  5. Emotional Blackmail

  6. Emotional Maturity

  7. Chronic Emotions and Psychosomatic Disease

  8. Eating Disorders and Weight Issues

Systemic Solutions

Many people are suffering from job loss; age-ism; lack of medical treatment, mortgage problems and many other things that need to be worked through so that those people can move on. Some of those people cannot seem to solve their own problems. Here are some reasons why not ...

What stops people solving their own problems?

  1. Relationship entanglements
  2. No goals or plans for desired success
  3. Inner objections, inner criticism and conflicts
  4. Emotional immaturity
  5. Inner chaos - split-off parts of self
  6. Toxic beliefs (usually bonds to unhealthy people)
  7. Missing human qualities - Identity loss
  8. Mentor damage and poor mentorship

Transcripts: Resolving Complex Conflict ... Recovering Lost Resources ... Identity Loss

Martyn Carruthers integrated emotional and relationship coaching based on his integration of traditional healing, success coaching and systemic therapy. His work on coaching people to evaluate and solve relationship problems, inter-generational bonds and relationship habits is revolutionary. NB, Canada

More people stay together bonded by unhappy entanglements than bonded by love. Poor relationships with parents and ex-partners often cause conflict, stress and ill health. We help people move on.

Do you want telephone coaching or professional training?
Do you want to coach people to resolve relationship challenges?

Copyright © Martyn Carruthers 2007-2010 All rights reserved.


 

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Systems 1 How to evaluate relationship dynamics and recognize common entanglements
Systems 2 How to define life goals, identify blocks, resolve objections & plan for success
Systems 3 How to provide or continue goalwork using interactive metaphors and Dreamwork
Systems 4 How to dissolve the consequences of abuse and trauma, and rebuild motivation
Systems 5 How to change limiting beliefs and codependence for emotional freedom
Systems 6 How to recognize and resolve identity loss: recover lost qualities and lost skills
Systems 7 How to resolve therapist or spiritual damage and provide inspirational mentorship
Systems 8 How to coach partners to build lasting happiness and avoid partnership breakdown
Systems 9 How to coach parents to resolve family problems and to achieve family goals
Systems 10 How to coach team leaders and teams to develop while solving team problems
Systems 11 How to coach communities to survive and prosper in a changing world
Specialty Advanced workshops and specialty training tailored to fulfill your goals and needs

Copyright © Martyn Carruthers 1996-2010 All rights reserved. Soulwork Systemic Coaching was primarily developed by Martyn Carruthers. We coach and train people to define and achieve goals, to resolve emotional blocks and to improve relationships. This information is for your general knowledge only. Please consult a physician about medical conditions and before changing any medical treatment. You must have Martyn's written permission to post or publish his work.