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Mentorship and SuperVision for Helping Professionals
Help with Difficult Clients © Martyn Carruthers & Kosjenka Muk

Online SuperVision & Mentorship


We coach and mentor helping professionals to apply systemic psychology in their work.

During our SuperVision and mentorship we can explore your thoughts, feelings, possibilities,
limitations and personal boundaries. We can focus on goal-setting, relationship ecology,
emotions and belief change, trauma resolution and dissolving mentor damage.

Our primary aim is to help you get better results.

A useful first goal can be to help people define their desires.
A useful second goal can be to exceed their expectations.

Although helping professionals offer a wide variety of services, few people know what to expect.
Most people hope that professional help will fulfill their poorly defined expectations.

Coaching, counseling and therapy are services that do not exist until somebody buys them!

You have training, skills and experience ... how well do you fulfill your clients' expectations? Do you keep your promises to them - and to yourself? We can help you apply systemic strategies appropriate for your clients. We can mentor or supervise you to fulfill the needs and goals of your clients.

Do you want to help your clients succeed? Do you want save time and effort? Here are a few tips:

Do you Attract Clients with your own Issues?

If you are an active helping professional in private practice, you probably attract people who are like you, and you probably attract clients who have similar challenges to your own. Avoid sympathizing with your clients and sharing your problems with them.

To help your clients develop, ensure that you continue to develop. Your experiences are probably more helpful than your theories. If you feel that you cannot change - what hope can you offer them?

Not only that - have you specialized in your own issues? Many helping professionals do! (This is so apparent when we ask professionals about their specialties. Our next question is sometimes, "When did that happen to you?").

Do you offer Free Sessions?

Many people like freebies, such as free introductory sessions. Keep your costs down, try various ways to find the right incentives and show off your services. Some people will abuse you and demand your time without any interest in your paid service. We can help you define the content of your free sessions and deal with some predictable problems that often arise in free sessions:

  • Are you attracting victims?
  • Do free sessions waste your time?
  • Do people perceive free sessions as a sign of a beginner?
  • Do prospective clients follow through and purchase your service?
  • Do people ask for free sessions with no intention of paying for your services?

Do you use Referral Letters?

Develop a letter for helping professionals that mentions that referring clients to you can help their business. You can offer to send them 'qualified clients' or clients with certain problems or in a defined region. You can also offer an incentive for referrals, perhaps a discount on your services or a gift.

  • Requesting referral letters
  • Agreeing to referral letters
  • Writing your referral letters

You can offer your services through these referral sources. For example, if you offer a service that other professionals can recommend to their clients, show them how they can benefit. We can coach you to create great referral sources.

Newsletters

Newsletters help keep your services in your clients' minds. A newsletter may be as simple as a sheet of paper with tips and news, or an email. Most word processing programs have built-in templates for newsletters, and you can use their clipart for illustrations. Do you want coaching in this?

Offer real news and information your clients can use, and reasons to save the newsletters and eagerly await your next one. Testimonials and letters would be great additions, and help to promote your business. Request permission from your clients before printing their names.

Marketing & Positioning Your Services

Marketing draws attention to your services. Marketing generates awareness that you are doing what you are doing. Your relationships with clients can be summarized as courtesy + dignity + common sense. Satisfied clients often become repeat clients. Some important questions are:

  1. What is their buying process?
  2. What is their experience with coaching?
  3. What are the qualities you want to be known by?
  4. What do you do to live up to your highest qualities?
  5. Who are your potential clients? What are their goals and challenges?
  6. How does your coaching solve problems, accelerate goals or add value?
  7. What differentiates you? What do you do better, faster or with higher quality?
  8. How can you sum up your position in a memorable and meaningful way, with style?

Perhaps you will market your expertise, capabilities, reliability and commitment to your clients. You are selling a promise. Focus on communicating and fulfilling your promise.

Constrain your marketing to the number of clients you can coach well. You can please your clients by focusing only on a select number of customers to sustain your business. If you try to service too many clients, the quality of your coaching will probably suffer.

Referrals & Networking

Although recommendations from people who have previously used your coaching are credible, referrals may come slowly. Why not ask for them? If a clients seem satisfied with your service, you can request him or her to refer your coaching to their friends or acquaintances.

Some of our colleagues reward people who refer clients to them. It need not be money as some people dislike paying for referrals, but a note or a small act of thoughtfulness can show people that their efforts are appreciated.

Direct mail

A good way to promote your coaching business is to use letters or brochures. We can coach you to reach out to the right people and remind existing clients of how you can help them. Mailing to previous customers is essential, whether you send them a quarterly newsletter, announce a new service or offer promotions or discounts, etc.

Website

Together with your skills and referrals, a web site can serve as a brochure and a business card that builds your credibility. To attract visitors to your website, address specific problems that your potential clients must deal with. People don’t surf the internet to find you, they surf to find solutions.

Ensure that your site is content-driven ... let your website content indicate your relevance. Use your website to reflect your beliefs, values, credibility and quality. Only then should you offer sessions, books, CDs, etc. Build credibility first!

Your website may not have the latest bells and whistles, but if you treat your visitors well, it is more likely that they will request your coaching. Provide excellent customer service every moment that you are with a potential client - in person or virtually. Your business depends on this one thing.

Trust

Only people who trust you will purchase your services. People must feel that they will get the value they expect ... and that you can and will deliver. Trust is a relationship quality based on what you say, what you write, referrals and recommendations. Your marketing will likely be ignored and forgotten unless you follow up with trustworthy interactions and a quality service.

Online Mentorship & Supervision

Plagiarism is theft. Copyright © Martyn Carruthers 2010-2012 All rights reserved.


 

 
 

 

Systemic Coaching & Coach Training

Good Questions

Good Answers

Good Training

1. Where are you now? Assess your fixations, bonds and enmeshments Systems 1
2. What do you want?  Define your life goals ... and blocks to success Systems 2
3. Do you have a plan?  Use your conscious and unconscious resources Systems 3
4. Do your emotions block you?  Dissolve abuse, trauma and mentor damage Systems 4
5. Do your beliefs limit you? Change your limiting beliefs and end dependence Systems 5
6. Do you feel empty? Resolve identity loss to recover lost qualities Systems 6
7. Is your partner happy? Build healthy partnership (or separate peacefully) Systems 7
8. Are your children happy? Parents can resolve family problems Systems 8
9. Do you want team success? Develop team leaders and top teams together Systems 9
10. Do you enjoy community? Coach community leaders and communities Systems 10
**   Do you have unusual goals? Specialty coaching & training Specialty

Plagiarism is theft. Copyright © Martyn Carruthers 1996-2012 All rights reserved. Soulwork Systemic Coaching was primarily developed by Martyn Carruthers
to help people dissolve emotional blocks, improve relationships and achieve goals. These concepts and strategies are for general knowledge only. Consult a physician about medical conditions and before changing medical treatment. Don't steal intellectual property ... ask for permission to post, publish or teach this work.