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☼ Solutions for Emotional and Relationship Issues ☼

Many attempts to solve emotional and relationship problems are nice, simple and wrong.
Good intentions and kind advice often result in unpleasant consequences.
We have been resolving emotions and relationships since 1995.

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You helped me change how I see the world and how I express myself ... I have regained my younger energy and am developing the skills I need to fulfill my highest goals! Hawaii

We model happy people in healthy relationships by observation and enquiry, rather than by theories,
statistics or ego-serving delusions. We apply these models to help people resolve their blocks,
relationships and identity issues - and to attain their goals.

Maturity, Integrity & Purpose

Do you want enthusiasm and passion? Do you want to feel calm, strong and valuable? Do you want to feel attracted to healthy, mature people; able to express yourself and your values? Do you want to feel at home in your body? Do you want to end each day satisfied ... and happy?


What you want reflects who you are ... your history and your future, your partnership and your family, your emotions, your relationships and your performance. Be strong and creative in areas in which you are expert and seek coaching in areas where others are experts.
(Fractals © Martyn Carruthers, 2005)

 

Happy Partnership


Imagine your future as you deserve it to be.
Do you want to resolve emotional issues, self-sabotage or relationship problems?
We coach people to unleash their potential.
 

Emotional Maturity, Self-Esteem and Confidence

  •  love yourself and feel worthy
  •  develop your qualities and skills
  •  let go of criticism and self-criticism
  •  feel freedom from other people's judgment
  •  feel relaxed and comfortable when communicating
  •  resolve irrational unpleasant feelings in social situations


Families are complex relationship systems. If your parents did not fulfill their roles, you probably created limiting beliefs, false identities and even physical symptoms to balance your parents' behavior. If you hide parts of yourself - you can't grow up properly. Even as adults, parts of you may remain childish - strongly influencing your decisions and behavior. We can help you pull yourself together.
 

Healthy Families


Nobody lives long enough to achieve all their goals - unless they have very few goals! We can help you resolve unpleasant emotions, beliefs and habits that hold you back. We can help you gain or regain your full identity, perhaps lost or hidden long ago. We can coach you to go for the gold!
 

Financial Freedom

  •  enjoy life fully
  •  develop financial creativity
  •  resolve fears and guilt about wealth
  •  build confidence in your competencies


Are you satisfied with your work, your relationships and your life? We have helped many people achieve unusual goals. We look for patterns ... and then for changes in patterns. We can help you discover and change your patterns. We can work together to achieve your goals.
 

Coaching at Work

Are you making the world a better place ... or worse? Do you stand up, speak out and make a difference ... or do you just take space? Do you want to be, or become, as fully you as you possibly can? Your life is your birthright, use it well. We can help you.

Are you Ready to Change?

Readiness is rarely a question of willpower.
Readiness is more often a question of how much you are willing to suffer!

Have you suffered enough?

Your confidence, success and happiness require sane goals, decisions and relationships. There are no limits to the pleasures of good relationships ... nor to the suffering following poor decisions. Do you prefer to make complex relationship decisions based on chance, on emotions, on theories ... or on effective coaching?
Martyn Carruthers - Founder


Are you Coachable?

You didn't just poke around in my mind, you helped me find justice and compassion ...
you helped me live with integrity!

Every happiness and all great deeds were accomplished by people like you!

Do you want to live life fully? YES - NO
Do you want to change something? YES - NO
Can you cope with the stress of change? YES - NO
Can you function without psychoactive drugs? YES - NO
Are you financially sound - can you afford coaching? YES - NO
Are you generally functional - can you cope with daily tasks? YES - NO

If you say "NO" to any of these - we may be unable to coach you.
If you say "YES!" to all ... explore what makes sense in your life ...

Are you mostly mature and responsible? YES - MAYBE - NO
Are you friendly? Do you have many friends? YES - MAYBE - NO
Are you reliable? Do you finish what you start? YES - MAYBE - NO
Are you truthful? Do you generally avoid deception? YES - MAYBE - NO
Are you usually proactive to solving life challenges? YES - MAYBE - NO
Have you suffered enough? Do you want to change? YES - MAYBE - NO
Can you enjoy trying new ways and new behaviors? YES - MAYBE - NO
Are you financially prepared to invest in your own future? YES - MAYBE - NO
Are you ready to examine and change any self-sabotage? YES - MAYBE - NO
Do you intend to improve your health, wealth and happiness? YES - MAYBE - NO
  • For each YES - give yourself 3 points
  • For each MAYBE - only 1 point
  • Count your points ...
0 - 10 You are unlikely to change anything soon - email us when you're ready
Over 10 You want to change something. Telephone coaching may be great for you
Over 20 You want to take off. Our private sessions may be perfect for you
Over 25 You could be a great coach. Consider attending our professional training


Our coaching can guide your vision, support your excellence and empower you to build clear goals, connect to your goals and make effective plans. Do you want to resolve emotional blocks and relationship issues that sabotage your path to your success?

☼ Systemic Coaching ☼ ☼ Systemic Training ☼

Have you suffered enough? Do you want more success and enjoy better relationships? Do you want telephone counseling for success blocks, emotional problems and relationship issues?

1. Identify and challenge relationship problems
2. Define goals and plan their achievement
3. Dissolve your conflicts to find peace
4. Recover lost qualities and lost skills
5. Change relationship bonds to find freedom
6. Resolve difficult emotions to find motivation
7. Appropriate mentorship for inspiration
8. Couple coaching for better partnership
9. Family coaching and parent coaching
10. Team training and leadership coaching

Telephone Coaching

Do you enjoy helping people solve problems? Do you enjoy sharing success? Do you want to coach people to achieve success, while helping them solve emotional and relationship problems?

1. Explore and clarify your entanglements
2. Define worthwhile goals and dissolve blocks
3. Recover integrity and end self-criticism
4. Recognize and resolve identity loss
5. Improve relationships by dissolving bonds
6. Generate motivation by dissolving trauma
7. Build inspiration by ending mentor damage
8. Coach couples and partners
9. Coach whole families simultaneously
10. Coach groups, teams and team leaders

Professional Training

Joy arises when we are true to our purpose - true to the source of our love and passion - true to Soul. We can best define and fulfill our life goals and life purpose in relationships in which we can safely explore and communicate our life goals, our love and our passion.

We train people to set and achieve life goals with love and with passion,
by resolving emotional challenges and relationship blocks. Interested? Click HERE.

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Popular Soulworks & Systems Thinking

You are breaking new ground in the theory and practice of coaching.
Your systemic solutions are tremendously innovative, and therefore carry a risk
that many people can neither understand nor accept your breakthroughs. PF, New York

Seek the experienced - not the studious. Arabic Proverb

Most Popular Article : Mothers & Sons . Martyn's Favorite : Psychobiology of Soul

Recent articles : Burnout, Ending Relationships, Dating, Inner Child, Resentment, Overweight

Popular transcripts : Complex Conflict ... Lost Resources ... Identity Loss ... Demonstrations

Martyn Carruthers teaches an extra-ordinary methodology supporting emotional maturity and quality relationships. His coaching and coach training programs are a welcome change to the mind-hackers who try to fix or program people. BC, Prague

Anger Management  Self-Sufficiency  Self Sabotage  Passive Aggression  Hypertension

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Manipulation & Abuse Chaos & Coaching Survival Coaching
Family Constellations Quantum Thinking Choosing Partners
Recession Coaching Coaching Children Dating & Partnership
Therapist-Client Abuse Energy Work Accelerated Learning
Coaching Emotions Mother's Boys Marriage Coaching
Confidence & Self-Esteem Past Partners Intuition
Entanglements with Parents Miscarriage & Still-Birth Marriage Problems
Relationship Management Self Esteem & Happiness Aggressive Parenting
Difficult Parents Emotional Coaching Mentorship


I have read hundreds of books on psychotherapy and relationships. I have NEVER read information as CLEAR as in your systemic therapy articles! LR, Houston, Texas

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What People say about Soulwork Systemic Solutions
 

When I looked into Soulwork, I was qualified in several methods – and still searching for something that would challenge the deepest roots of emotional problems, instead of mostly controlling consequences. With Soulwork, I felt my search was over. Its versatility, creativity and avoiding power over clients, fit my values perfectly ... and my clients results finally fit my hopes.
Kosjenka Muk, MA, Therapist-Trainer

Systemic Solutions is an ongoing partnership that supports lasting success. It develops leaders and helps them improve. Soulwork addresses whole people, with a balance and clarity of purpose that translates into exceptional teamwork and increased productivity ... Jan Sikorski, MSc CEO

I read your articles with skepticism, but the more I read, the more I found logic and trust. Systemic Solutions are not simple. If you want a quick fix, be a customer of pharma companies ... If you want real solutions using your intelligence and self-work, you are in the right place ...
Samuel Grznár, IT professional, Slovakia

Soulwork revolutionized my work. It is ideal for helping professionals - not only for coaches, trainers, therapists and doctors, but for managers, executives and CEOs. Soulwork is for people who want to achieve more than their formal education can support ... Therapist, Warsaw, Poland

Martyn's Soulwork speaks to people in pain, people who feel a deep need for personal change, people who have lost sense or lost relationships. Success is sometimes a heavy word which may feel incompatible with emotions, relationships, love, family and friends ... Ana Pejcinova, PhD, Therapist

Systemic Solutions helped us solve performance problems by managing relationships. When I saw that performance reflected our own attitudes and deficiencies, I could focus, not on individual employees, but on changing the relationships within which we work. David Willis, MSc, HR consultant

Life coaching is useful for making simple decisions in controllable environments with clear objectives and complete information. Systemic Solutions is useful for making complex decisions in difficult environments with ambiguous objectives and limited information. Martyn Carruthers, Founder

I recommend your systemic coaching to anyone considering therapy for themselves, a family member or to anyone who questions the effectiveness of their therapy. I urge helping professionals to investigate your clear, succinct and timely resolution of emotional problems ... David Marsden, MA, Therapist

I never experienced better coaching. It was life changing and I recommend Soulwork to everyone who strives to improve quality of private and business life. Stjepan Werft, MA, Consultant-Trainer

Telephone Coaching . Couple Coaching . Team Coaching . Corporate Coaching

The Soul of Soulwork does not represent any old age, new age, religious, social or political groups, businesses, religions or cults! We are a non-prophet organization.

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Systemic Coach Training  (Calendar)
Systems 1 How to evaluate relationship dynamics and recognize common entanglements
Systems 2 How to define life goals, identify blocks, resolve objections & plan for success
Systems 3 How to provide or continue goalwork using interactive metaphors and Dreamwork
Systems 4 How to dissolve the consequences of abuse and trauma, and rebuild motivation
Systems 5 How to change limiting beliefs and codependence for emotional freedom
Systems 6 How to recognize and resolve identity loss: recover lost qualities and lost skills
Systems 7 How to resolve therapist or spiritual damage and provide inspirational mentorship
Systems 8 How to coach partners to build lasting happiness and avoid partnership breakdown
Systems 9 How to coach parents to resolve family problems and to achieve family goals
Systems 10 How to coach team leaders and teams to develop while solving team problems
Systems 11 How to coach communities to survive and prosper in a changing world
Specialty Advanced workshops and specialty training tailored to fulfill your goals and needs

Copyright © Martyn Carruthers 1996-2010 All rights reserved. Soulwork Systemic Coaching was primarily developed by Martyn Carruthers. We coach and train people to define and achieve goals, to resolve emotional blocks and to improve relationships. This information is for your general knowledge only. Please consult a physician about medical conditions and before changing any medical treatment. You must have Martyn's written permission to post or publish his work.