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Most habits, self-sabotage and emotional issues reflect relationship disappointments. We have huge experience in resolving relationship issues ... quickly.
Have you suffered enough? Do you want relief from unpleasant emotions? Do you want better relationships and to achieve important goals?
If you want to improve your life, please contact us. We can listen to you carefully and answer your questions. (We also mentor helping professionals to work with their difficult clients.)
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Few meetings or conversations ever inspired me, touched me, moved me or changed me as much as our short time together. London, England
Do you delay seeking help until you are desperate? Do you wait until your relationship, income or health are at risk? Why not find solutions before a challenge becomes a crisis? We can help you prevent or improve many situations.
Armchair philosophers offer simple solutions for complex problems. Prayer, positive thinking, affirmations, clearings and meditations seem full of hope and promise ... if you have no emotional blocks limiting your happiness, and no toxic beliefs poisoning your prosperity.
Martyn, it all came down to trust. There are very few people that we would trust with our marriage. You and Kosjenka earned our trust and we never had cause to doubt it. Without your coaching we would be divorced now.
We help people improve their lives. We help people change unwanted habits and move on. We do not solve problems for people - that's for parents and social workers. Nor are we specialists in statistics - that's psychology. We don't diagnose disease nor advocate drugs - that's medicine. We leave religions to priests, judgments to judges and philosophies to gurus. We help people change.
I never experienced better mentorship in my life. It was life changing and I recommend Martyn's coaching to anyone who is striving to improve quality of private and business life. Stephen Werft MA, Management Consultant / Trainer
Every soul's journey needs a witness and a guide.
What you don’t know can hurt you! Often, the hardest part of changing is knowing exactly where are you now in your life, where do you want to be and how to get from here to there. Then, when you are ready to accept help, how will you find someone you can trust?
You seemed to hear what I could not say ... you helped me change some of my negative beliefs into exciting options ... you coached me to coach myself.
Do you try to force yourself into a better life by reading self-help articles and books? Self-help strategies often appear simple and easy ... if the strategies are effective and if you can follow the strategies properly. Some popular self-help strategies can damage your relationships and lead to depression.
I came to you with a real bucket of worms. You helped me deal with one worm at a time - even the long slimy twisted ones. Miami, Florida
We can help you explore your life, define your goals and choose appropriate steps. We can help you create and achieve a worthwhile future, while therapy is more for healing past events. The following table is adapted from the book Therapist as Life Coach by Dr Patrick Williams:
What separates splendid and mediocre coaches? The answer is not technique - but sense of life. Our sense-full coaching is naturally, structurally and intrinsically systemic, and we often train and mentor helping professionals to apply systemic coaching in their work.
You provided space in which I could change. I didn't have to respect your theories, follow your directions or adapt to your methods. We did it together.
Get to know us through our articles, public talks and seminars. Let's connect our hearts and minds - we can meet online at our Facebook Community or we can use Skype to better know and understand each other. Why not check how well we can work together?
You walked with me into my worst nightmares, and in them you helped me find a marvelous treasure - my own self. Sussex, UK
What you want is important. Perhaps one of us can be your professional coach, your devil's advocate, sounding board, trainer, provocateur, mentor and friend. We can help you choose goals, define plans, manage emotions, change habits, solve problems and get what you want.
Our approach to coaching and training is not available in other coaching or training programs, and we avoid coaching or training people who are unlikely to benefit from our work. We cannot help everybody ... please seek other assistance if:
* You are under 18 * You want free coaching * You cannot cope with change * You may harm yourself or others * You cannot cope with your daily tasks * You want treatment for psychiatric disorders
Are you willing to learn, responsible for your decisions and committed to your goals? Here are some questions to help you assess your maturity and motivation ...
* For each YES - give yourself 3 points * For each MAYBE - only 1 point * Count your points ...
Over 24: You seem motivated and mature. Coaching you will be a pleasure. Maybe read about our coach training programs
Over 15: You seem ready to change. Online coaching should be good for you
Under 15: Do you really want to change? Contact us when you feel ready
We also offer online couple coaching for both intimate and business partners.
You are a real person and we are good listeners. We have our preferred styles and we do not try to resolve issues in exactly the same way. Would you prefer a male coach or a female coach?
Some of our Expert Colleagues
Emotional Incest Expert Modeling Soulwork Trainer Martyn Carruthers
Joy arises when we are true to our life purpose - true to the source of our love and passion - true to Soul. People who fulfill life purpose can share life goals, love and passion in healthy relationships.
Explore the influence of your relationships on your life to a deeper level than you are normally aware. A big part of your personality may be created to survive your early family. Once you find your true self, you are free to live a happy and creative life.
Self-Esteem Emotional Maturity Soulwork Trainer Kosjenka Muk
You can peacefully change your life when you become aware of the origins of unpleasant emotions and beliefs. Your "Bingo" resources wait for you! Marinka Spodniak
Naturopathy & Detoxification Hypertension
I specialize in nutrition and gentle detoxification. I am a Certified Nutrition Specialist and Traditional Naturopath.Richard Diehl
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Management CoachStephen Werft
Projection
Inner child coaching can free you from trauma and help you open your doors to emotional maturity and lasting happiness. Magda
I work best with motivated people ... I enjoy giving my best to people who want the best. Beverly Mann
Diabetes & Health Coach
Beverleigh Piepers
I offer you 30 years marketing experience and many ways to market and promote yourself and your business with integrity. Stephen Feswick
Marketing & Promotion
I have extensive experience in international business, spiritual development and as a yoga teacher.
Leon Deith
I built a publishing business while single parenting a handicapped child. I also coach parents to succeed at work and at home.
Joanna Mądrzak
Our online coaching helps people move from where they are now to where they want to be. Do you want individual coaching, couple coaching, group coaching or mentorship? See our Coaching Philosophy.
How many sessions do you need? This depends on how realistic you are, on how many issues you want to resolve, your maturity, your relationships, your health, your benefits for staying stuck, on how hard you work and on how much you want to chat about theories and philosophies.
We honor your freedom and we do not demand contracts. Most people ask for coaching, training or support for six months to two years. Most sessions are about 50 to 60 minutes.
If you are not satisfied, tell us within 7 days and we will refund the cost of your last session *
Please do not send this as an email attachment - we do not open email attachments.
Specialty Coaching & Training Packages
End Self-Sabotage
Stop sabotaging yourself and damaging your life
Life Reorientation
Explore where you are and where you want to be
Ongoing Mentorship
Monthly mentorship sessions for your ongoing development
Do you want a few sessions to achieve simple goals, or longer support to monitor or resolve complex situations? It's your choice. For our online sessions or packages - pay in advance by PayPal or bank transfer, and we will expect your calls at the agreed times. (Skype and PayPal are free downloads.)
I found your coaching to be very spiritual, although you never used words like that. Thanks for sharing your authentic self and encouraging me to do the same. Los Angeles
We are used to time zone differences and sometimes we provide crisis coaching at odd hours. If you use a Wi-Fi device or mobile phone, ensure that you have a full battery and good wireless reception.
Expect to gain many insights that you can apply in your life. Then, instead of trying to make yourself do things, those things can become part of what you naturally do.
I just wanted to end fights with my mother-in-law ... and over time you helped most of us. I feel honored to be part of a real family rather than a group of grumpy people! Singapore
If you want other people to change, develop your integrity and emotional maturity. Your lasting happiness will be hard to ignore!
After you clarify your goals, improve your relationships and sort out your emotional baggage ... what next? We can help you prepare for difficult conversations and complex transitions. When you have reached your goals, you can set new goals or we can continue on a more casual basis. You can contact us whenever you want to deal with a new issue or clarify some situation.
Thank you for being my coach and helping me figure out what is best for me rather than trying to program me with some other agenda. Philadelphia
Your feedback is our continuing education. Please help us improve. Tell us how your life has changed ... and please give us permission to post your comments.
We can support you as mentors, devil's advocates, sounding boards, provocateurs or friends. We can help you define your goals, make decisions, change your habits and clarify your relationships.
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