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If you lack the courage to start ... perhaps you are already finished.
Are You Coachable? .
Prices & Costs .
Specialty Packages
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I have been reading your articles for some
time ... now, after a few sessions,
I don't know why I waited so long to contact you! I understand myself, my
partner and my family so much better ... and we are making positive changes
in our lives. |
Do you want to change some part of your life? Do you delay
seeking help until your suffering reaches a crisis? Do you wait until
your relationships, your income or even your health are at risk? Why not
find solutions before a challenge becomes a crisis?
We help people become more resourceful, make better decisions, deal with
emotional baggage and enjoy healthier relationships.
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Martyn, it all came down to trust. There are
very few people that we would trust with our marriage. You and Kosjenka earned
our trust and we never had cause to doubt you.
Without your coaching we would definitely be divorced by now. |
Have you already tried other ways ... which did not work? If you
still cannot manage your emotions, habits and relationships then this may be
where we can help you.
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I never experienced better coaching in my life. It was
life changing and I recommend Martyn's coaching to anyone who is striving to
improve quality of private and business life. Stephen Werft MA,
Management Consultant / Trainer
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We help people understand their situations,
manage their emotions, make decisions and change habits. We do not solve
problems for people - that's for parents and social workers. Nor are
we specialists in statistics - that's psychology. We don't diagnose disease
nor advocate drugs - that's medicine. We leave religions to priests and
philosophies to gurus.
We help people get what they want!
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Here are the Steps ...
1. Do you seek
coaching or therapy? Check this table.
2. Are you coachable? Answer these questions
3. Select a coach and make appointments
4. Pay for our time and experience
5. Contact us at the agreed times
6. Review what you learned
7. Follow your plan!
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Solutions for difficult relationships,
unpleasant emotions and unwanted habits
Step 1) What do you want?
Often enough, the hardest part of change is
deciding where you are now, where you want to be and how to get from here
to there. If you are ready to accept help, from whom? Many
people first ask their family and friends for help - but such advice may be
rather vague and not very useful. Then people often decide to seek a helping
professional ... but who?
This useful little table is adapted from the
book Therapist as Life Coach by Dr Patrick Williams:
| Coaching |
Therapy |
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For healthy people who want better lives |
For patients with
identifiable dysfunctions |
Deals mostly with a person’s goals and blocks
and seeks to
help people get what they want |
Deals mostly with patients' past trauma,
and seeks to heal
patients |
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Helps people learn or improve skills to build mature, satisfying
relationships and to achieve goals |
Helps patients resolve old pain and suffering |
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Co-creative equal partnership (coaches help people explore their
blocks and solve their problems) |
Doctor-patient relationship (therapists provide patients with
diagnosis and interventions) |
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Emotions are perceived as natural and normal |
Emotions are perceived
as unnatural and abnormal |
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Growth and progress are often rapid and enjoyable |
Growth and progress are often slow and painful |
| A coach helps people identify their
goals and blocks, then walks with them to success, holding people
accountable for reaching their goals. |
A therapist provides
patients with professional
expertise and guidelines to diagnose problems and provide patients
with a path to
healing. |
You can get to know us through our public talks and seminars.
You can check our values and methods in our books and articles. And we offer
Connecting Hearts and Minds - we can meet by
Skype - we can learn a little
about each another and check how well we can work together in free initial meetings.
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Do you cause
friends and family to suffer
because you have emotional problems and you won't get help? |
We do not try to change people - we help people
manage and change their emotional issues and relationship habits.
We can be your professional coaches, devil's
advocates, sounding boards, provocateurs, mentors and friends. We can help you
choose your life goals, define your plans, validate your emotions, solve problems
and clarify your relationships. We can help you get what you want.
Please seek local help if ...
* You are under 18
* You want free coaching
* You may harm yourself or others
* You cannot cope with change or stress
* You need medication or drugs to function
* You want treatment for clinical psychological disorders
* You have no good relationships or you generally avoid people
* You are generally dysfunctional or you cannot cope with daily tasks
Step 3) We cannot coach everybody.
Are you coachable?
| Are you mostly mature and
responsible? |
YES -
MAYBE -
NO |
| Are you friendly?
Do you have good friends? |
YES -
MAYBE -
NO |
| Are you reliable?
Do you finish what you start? |
YES -
MAYBE -
NO |
| Are you
honest? Do you generally avoid deception? |
YES -
MAYBE -
NO |
| Are you usually proactive
to solving life challenges? |
YES -
MAYBE -
NO |
| Have you suffered enough?
Do you want to change? |
YES -
MAYBE -
NO |
| Can you enjoy using
new ways and new behaviors? |
YES -
MAYBE -
NO |
| Are you financially
prepared to invest in your own future? |
YES -
MAYBE -
NO |
| Are you ready to explore and change
any self-sabotage? |
YES
- MAYBE - NO |
| Do you intend to improve your
health, wealth and happiness? |
YES -
MAYBE -
NO |
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* For each YES - give yourself 3
points
* For each MAYBE - only 1 point
* Count your points ...
Under
12 You are unlikely to do anything soon -
let us know us when you're ready
Over 12
You want to change soon. Online coaching should be good for you
Over 24 You could be a great coach. Read
about our
coach training |
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