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Systems Coach Training 1: Relationship Diagnosis & Clarification

Coaching Complex Relationships © Martyn Carruthers (5-day training)

A systemic coaching client may be an individual - or a relationship system such as a partnership, family or team. Individual coaching can be embedded within systemic coaching. Systemic coach training offers you support to coach people to achieve life goals and relationship success.

Systems 1: Relationship Diagnosis & Clarification

All segments of our systemic coach training are also stand-alone workshops. Systems 1 includes training in relationship diagnosis and relationship clarification. This 5-day workshop provides coaches, helping professionals and managers with practical information, systemic theory, demonstrations and exercises to better understand human relationship dynamics and to coach people to clarify their relationships.

Relationship Quality & Communication Skills

You are always relating to people. Even withdrawing into seclusion communicates strong relationship signals. Although you may want to communicate with other people appropriately, other people may or may not respond to your communication in the way you intend or hope. Relationship coaching can accelerate feelings of pleasure and well-being, and stabilize them in your relationships.

When you communicate, you spontaneously (usually unconsciously) express non-verbal signals that accompany your verbal statements. Your nonverbal signals provide valuable information about your verbal message. Your congruence carries meaningful information about your qualities and deficiencies. Noticing and responding to nonverbal signals and congruence is part of systemic coaching.

Systems 1: Training Outcomes

Systems 1 Coach Training is a foundation for coaching people to resolve relationship difficulties. You can apply these skills at home, in education, therapy or business, and you can balance excellence at work with harmony at home as you learn to use systemic coaching skills to:

  1. Develop clear relationships
  2. Remain flexible in times of crisis and change
  3. Develop focused action plans to fulfill well-defined goals
  4. Develop essential coaching and authentic leadership skills
  5. Improve your performance and satisfaction as you enhance your strengths

Systems 1: Coach Training

Each person is a representative of many human relationship systems. Each relationship system has many goals, behaviors, transferences and give rise to emotions. You can learn:

  1. What are human relationship systems?
  2. How to identify relationship dynamics
  3. How to evaluate family systems
  4. How to recognize common family entanglements
  5. How to assess relationship goals
  6. How to predict relationship consequences
  7. How to clarify relationships

Coaching Family Systems

Each person represents many relationships systems - some may be recently formed and some may have existed for generations. Perhaps the most common human system, a family is a complex psycho-social-political entity. Even quiet families are busy places, full of interesting dynamics.

Systems 1 coach training includes many demonstrations and exercises investigating the relationship dynamics of participants. Participants will quickly learn to use systemic diagnosis and explore its many roles in relationship coaching.

Planning multiple coaching sessions

Some blocks to success cannot be resolved in one session. Some people are resourceful enough to continue dissolving blocks by themselves, once they know how to do this, while many people request more coaching sessions to achieve complex goals and to untangle relationship knots.

What Comes Next?

Systems 2 coach training includes how to coach people to choose complex goals, and how to plan their achievement into logical sequences of steps - with each step having intermediary goals. Systems 2 delves deeply into Goalwork (finding what people really want) and Objections (finding how people block their own success).

Systems 3 coach training explores how to coach people with stories and metaphors, and dream coaching - how to coach people who spontaneously enter sleepy, trance-like states. This includes dreaming together - how to explore dreams from the inside - dreaming with people.

Our more advanced systemic coach training courses - Systems 4-10 - show you how to coach people to resolve complex emotional and relationship issues such as emotional incest, identity loss and therapist damage. See the table below ...

Do you want to coach people to dissolve success and relationship issues, and understand what makes sense in life? Do you want to help people build success and quality relationships?
Or do you want telephone coaching?

Copyright © 2004-2010 Martyn Carruthers All rights reserved



 

 

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Systemic Coach Training

Systems 1 How to evaluate relationships and recognize common entanglements
Systems 2 How to define life goals, and identify blocks, objections & conflicts
Systems 3 How to continue goalwork using interactive metaphors and Dreamwork
Systems 4 How to dissolve the consequences of abuse and trauma and rebuild motivation
Systems 5 How to change limiting beliefs and codependence for emotional freedom
Systems 6 How to recognize and resolve identity loss: recover lost qualities and lost skills
Systems 7 How to heal therapist or spiritual damage and provide inspirational mentorship
Systems 8 How to coach partners to build lasting happiness (and to separate peacefully)
Systems 9 How to coach parents to resolve family problems
Systems 10 How to coach team leaders and teams ... together
Systems 11 How to coach community leaders and communities
Specialty Advanced workshops and specialty training tailored to your goals

Copyright © Martyn Carruthers 1996-2010 All rights reserved. Soulwork Systemic Coaching was primarily developed by Martyn Carruthers. We coach and train people to define and achieve goals, to resolve emotional blocks and to improve relationships. This information is for your general knowledge only. Please consult a physician about medical conditions and before changing any medical treatment. You must get Martyn's written permission to post or publish his work.