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Systems Coach Training 1
Relationship Diagnosis & Clarification

Coaching Complex Relationships © Martyn Carruthers (5-day training)


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People who seek our systemic coaching may be individuals - or couples, business partners, families or teams. We mostly embed individual coaching within systemic coaching. Our coach training supports people who wish to change emotional blocks and enjoy better relationships.

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Systems 1: Relationship Diagnosis & Clarification

Like all segments of our systemic coach training, Systems 1 is also a stand-alone workshop, focusing on relationship diagnosis and relationship clarification. This 5-day workshop provides coaches, helping professionals and managers with practical information, systemic theory, demonstrations and exercises to better understand human relationships and to coach people to discover some of their emotional and relationship blocks to their goals.

 

These coaching strategies are further developed during Systems 2 "Goal Diagnosis & Strategic Planning" and are used throughout our training to coach people to quickly understand their overall relationship situations and their hidden blocks to success.

 

Relationship Quality & Communication Skills

You are always relating to people ... even withdrawing into seclusion sends strong relationship signals. Although you may want to communicate with other people appropriately, other people may or may not respond to your communication in the way you intend or hope. Relationship coaching can accelerate feelings of pleasure and well-being, and stabilize them in your relationships.

 

When you communicate, you spontaneously (usually unconsciously) express non-verbal signals that accompany your verbal statements. Your nonverbal signals provide valuable information about your verbal message. Your congruence carries meaningful information about your qualities and deficiencies. Noticing and responding to nonverbal signals and congruence is part of systemic coaching.

 

Systems 1: Training Outcomes

Systems 1 Coach Training is a foundation for coaching people to resolve relationship difficulties. You can apply these skills at home, in education, therapy or business, and you can balance excellence at work with harmony at home as you learn to use systemic coaching skills to:

  1. Develop clear, mature relationships
  2. Remain flexible in times of crisis and change
  3. Develop focused action plans to fulfill well-defined goals
  4. Develop essential coaching and authentic leadership skills
  5. Improve your performance and satisfaction as you enhance your strengths

 

Systems 1: Coach Training

Each person is entangled in many relationship systems. Each relationship system has many goals, behaviors, transferences that are expressed by emotions. You can learn:

  1. What are human relationship systems?
  2. How to identify relationship dynamics
  3. How to evaluate family systems
  4. How to recognize common entanglements
  5. How to assess relationship goals
  6. How to predict relationship consequences
  7. How to clarify relationships

 

Coaching Family Systems

Each person represents many relationships systems - some may be recently formed and some may have existed for generations. Perhaps the most common human system, a family is a complex psycho-social-political entity. Even quiet families are busy places, full of interesting dynamics.

 

Systems 1 coach training includes many demonstrations and exercises investigating the relationship dynamics of participants. Participants will quickly learn to understand and apply systemic diagnosis and explore its many roles in relationship coaching.

 

Planning multiple coaching sessions

Some blocks to success cannot be resolved in one session. Some people are resourceful enough to continue dissolving blocks by themselves, once they know how to do this, while many people request further coaching sessions to achieve complex goals and to untangle relationship knots.

 

What Comes Next?

Systems 2 coach training explores how to coach people to choose complex goals, and includes how to plan their achievement into logical sequences of steps - with each step having intermediary goals. Systems 2 delves deeply into Goalwork (finding what people really want) and Objections (finding how people block their own success).

 

Systems 3 coach training explores how to coach people with stories and metaphors, and includes dream coaching - how to coach people who spontaneously enter sleepy, trance-like states. Also included is dreaming together - how to explore dreams from the inside - dreaming with people.

 

During our more advanced coach training - Systems coach training 4 to 10 - you can learn how to coach people to resolve complex emotional and relationship issues such as emotional incest, identity loss, relationship bonds and therapist damage. See the table below ...

 

Do you want to dissolve success and relationship issues, and understand what makes sense in life?
Do you want to build success and quality relationships?

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1. Where are you now? Assess fixations, bonds and enmeshments Systems 1
2. What do you want?  Define life goals ... and blocks to success Systems 2
3. Do you have a plan?  Use conscious and unconscious resources Systems 3
4. Do your emotions limit you?  Dissolve abuse, trauma and mentor damage Systems 4
5. Do your beliefs block you? Change limiting beliefs and end dependence Systems 5
6. Do you feel empty? Resolve identity loss to recover lost qualities Systems 6
7. Is your partner happy? Build healthy partnership (or separate peacefully) Systems 7
8. Are your children happy? Parents can resolve family problems Systems 8
9. Do you want team success? Develop team leaders and top teams together Systems 9
10. Do you want community? Coach community leaders and communities Systems 10
**   Do you have unusual goals? Specialty coaching & training Specialty

Plagiarism is theft. Copyright © Martyn Carruthers 1996-2011 All rights reserved. Soulwork Systemic Coaching was primarily developed by Martyn Carruthers
to help people dissolve emotional blocks, improve relationships and achieve goals. These concepts and strategies are for general knowledge only. Consult a physician about medical conditions and before changing medical treatment. Don't steal intellectual property ... ask for permission to post, publish or teach this work.