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Systems Coach Training 1
Relationship Diagnosis & Clarification

Coaching Complex Relationships © Martyn Carruthers (5-day training)

A systemic coaching client may be an individual - or a relationship system such as a partnership, family or team. Individual coaching can be embedded within systemic coaching. Our systemic coach training offers you support to coach people to achieve life goals and relationship success.

 

Systems 1: Relationship Diagnosis & Clarification

All segments of our systemic coach training are also stand-alone workshops. Systems 1 includes training in relationship diagnosis and relationship clarification. This 5-day workshop provides coaches, helping professionals and managers with practical information, systemic theory, demonstrations and exercises to better understand human relationships and to coach people to clarify their relationships.

 

Relationship Quality & Communication Skills

You are always relating to people. Even withdrawing into seclusion communicates strong relationship signals. Although you may want to communicate with other people appropriately, other people may or may not respond to your communication in the way you intend or hope. Relationship coaching can accelerate feelings of pleasure and well-being, and stabilize them in your relationships.

 

When you communicate, you spontaneously (usually unconsciously) express non-verbal signals that accompany your verbal statements. Your nonverbal signals provide valuable information about your verbal message. Your congruence carries meaningful information about your qualities and deficiencies. Noticing and responding to nonverbal signals and congruence is part of systemic coaching.

 

Systems 1: Training Outcomes

Systems 1 Coach Training is a foundation for coaching people to resolve relationship difficulties. You can apply these skills at home, in education, therapy or business, and you can balance excellence at work with harmony at home as you learn to use systemic coaching skills to:

  1. Develop clear, mature relationships
  2. Remain flexible in times of crisis and change
  3. Develop focused action plans to fulfill well-defined goals
  4. Develop essential coaching and authentic leadership skills
  5. Improve your performance and satisfaction as you enhance your strengths

 

Systems 1: Coach Training

Each person is entangled in many relationship systems. Each relationship system has many goals, behaviors, transferences that are expressed by emotions. You can learn:

  1. What are human relationship systems?
  2. How to identify relationship dynamics
  3. How to evaluate family systems
  4. How to recognize common entanglements
  5. How to assess relationship goals
  6. How to predict relationship consequences
  7. How to clarify relationships

 

Coaching Family Systems

Each person represents many relationships systems - some may be recently formed and some may have existed for generations. Perhaps the most common human system, a family is a complex psycho-social-political entity. Even quiet families are busy places, full of interesting dynamics.

 

Systems 1 coach training includes many demonstrations and exercises investigating the relationship dynamics of participants. Participants will quickly learn to understand and apply systemic diagnosis and explore its many roles in relationship coaching.

 

Planning multiple coaching sessions

Some blocks to success cannot be resolved in one session. Some people are resourceful enough to continue dissolving blocks by themselves, once they know how to do this, while many people request further coaching sessions to achieve complex goals and to untangle relationship knots.

 

What Comes Next?

Systems 2 coach training explores how to coach people to choose complex goals, and includes how to plan their achievement into logical sequences of steps - with each step having intermediary goals. Systems 2 delves deeply into Goalwork (finding what people really want) and Objections (finding how people block their own success).

 

Systems 3 coach training explores how to coach people with stories and metaphors, and includes dream coaching - how to coach people who spontaneously enter sleepy, trance-like states. Also included is dreaming together - how to explore dreams from the inside - dreaming with people.

 

Our more advanced systemic coach training courses - Systems coach training 4-10 - show you how to coach people to resolve complex emotional and relationship issues such as emotional incest, identity loss and therapist damage. See the table below ...

 

Do you want to coach people to dissolve success and relationship issues, and understand what makes sense in life? Do you want to help people build success and quality relationships?

Click HERE to make an appointment!

Plagiarism is theft. Copyright © 2004-2010 Martyn Carruthers All rights reserved


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Hawaii, USA: Dragonfly, PO Box 675, Honaunau, Hawaii, 96726 USA
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1. Where are you now? Assess relationship bonds and entanglements Systems 1
2. What are your life goals?  Identify your life goals ... and what blocks you Systems 2
3. How to reach your goals?  Use your conscious and unconscious resources Systems 3
4. What stops you?  Dissolve abuse and trauma to rebuild motivation Systems 4
5. What else stops you? Change your limiting beliefs to end dependence Systems 5
6. What else stops you? Resolve identity loss to recover qualities and skills Systems 6
7. What else stops you? Heal mentor damage and find quality mentorship Systems 7
8. What about your partnership? Build happy partnership (or separate peacefully) Systems 8
9. What about your children? We coach parents to resolve family problems Systems 9
10. What about your success? We coach team leaders and teams ... together Systems 10
11. What about your community? We coach community leaders and communities Systems 11
12. What about complex goals? Specialty coaching & training for unusual goals Specialty

Plagiarism is theft. Copyright © Martyn Carruthers 1996-2010 All rights reserved. Soulwork Systemic Coaching was primarily developed by Martyn Carruthers. We help people define and achieve goals, resolve emotional blocks and improve relationships. This information is for general knowledge only. Consult a physician about medical conditions and before changing any medical treatment. Don't steal ... ask Martyn for permission to post or publish his work.