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We offer private coaching, interactive and training on
systemic coaching, entanglements, codependence and better relationships at home
and at work.
Entangled Relationships
In your desire to express and receive love, you may
become entangled. You
may lose your sense of freedom, purpose and happiness. You may suffer, perhaps a
lot. Our systemic
coaching offers many ways for you to remedy this - to
increase your happiness and to alleviate suffering; to increase fulfillment. Do you want to
help people recognize and resolve entangled relationships?
Can you recognize dependence? Dependent people
usually try to avoid responsibility, endlessly complain, blame others, tell
lies and avoid the consequences of their actions. Dependent people avoid
developing essential qualities and skills that support adult long-term happiness.
They may demand or manipulate other people to do for them what they will not
to do for themselves. See Codependence.
Some dependent people offer their bodies in trade for
goods or protection. This is well described
in Emotional Incest,
Mother's Little Prince
and Daddy's
Little Princess, and can be seen in relationships in which emotional,
physical and sexual abuse is not only tolerated but expected.
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Stress Disorders ] [
Divorce and Children
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Parent Alienation ] [ Difficult Clients
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Are you Dependent?
Dependence is normal
for children, it is expected from sick people and it is mandatory for addicts.
You are likely dependent if you define love as
actions that fulfill your needs. Then, your expressions
of love may require you to act in needy, demanding ways. If a person,
family or organization stops providing something on which you depend -
you may end this suddenly-unloving relationship. You may find another provider or
become sick. Systemic coaching can help you grow up.
Extreme dependence is often associated with sets of
symptoms, such as: Victim Identification,
Schizophrenia
, Bipolar Disorder ,
Depression and Anxiety.
Are you Emotionally Dependent?
You are emotional dependent if you believe that your personal
security or self-worth requires the ongoing presence or nurturing of
another person.
Are you intensely preoccupied with someone? Do you need to be
near that person? Do you feel a sense of loss when you can't be close? Do you
need to be a person's exclusive love and their only companion? Do you view this
person's friends or family as competition? Are you intensely JEALOUS? Are you
unable to decide or take action without that person's approval?
Are you Healthy?
Some dependent adult relationships are so
common that they may not be seen as unhealthy. Consider the relationship
messages in TV soap operas and Hollywood productions; listen carefully to the lyrics
of love songs; and watch advertising critically.
Examine the covert
relationship messages implicit within in health care, education and government
propaganda in your country. You may be bombarded by dependent role models -
created by people who want your dependence!
Although a complete resolution of dependence
takes time, your two golden keys are your responsibility and your motivation.
Our coaching provides a
complete methodology for coaching people like you to rebuild their
lives following dependent or codependent relationships.
Systemic Coaching & Dependent Relationships
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