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Systemic Solutions & Bipolar Disorder
Manic-Depression & Identity Conflict © Martyn Carruthers

Online Coaching & Mentorship


Are you entangled in difficult relationships or painful emotions?
We help people untangle their lives and reclaim their freedom.

What is Bipolar Disorder?

Note: I prefer to refer people who have been diagnosed with medical conditions to medical doctors, ideally to doctors who have received our training.

Many people who complain of recurrent depression and mania are diagnosed as having bipolar disorder. The same symptoms may also be labeled manic depression, endogenous depression, cyclothemia or cyclic depression. This condition appears to be inheritable.

A medical diagnosis of bipolar disorder implies a severe, chronic mental illness characterized by episodes of elation and high activity; alternating with periods of depression and low energy. Yet many people we meet with this diagnostic label describe quite different symptoms. The frightening words bipolar disorder can be applied to a single episode of depression, a single episode of mania, to recurring depressive episodes, or to a cycle of depression and mania.

After a depression concerning my boyfriend when I was 26, a psychiatrist told me that I had bipolar disorder and that I would never work again. That stopped me in my tracks. After eight years without depression, I went back to school for a medical degree. Although I am now a medical doctor, that diagnosis still haunts me. Psychiatry is a shell game. My attempts to dispute my diagnosis were used as evidence to confirm it. California, USA

A diagnosis of bipolar disorder is an opinion that cannot be proved or disproved by medical tests, although such opinions may haunt people throughout their lives. Although symptoms of bipolar disorder are often managed with psychoactive medication, we sometimes help people resolve emotional and relationship issues that support these symptoms.

Glucose is brain-fuel and a blood glucose imbalance can result in: mood swings and depression, as well as fatigue, insomnia, irritability, dizziness, excessive thirst, night sweating, poor concentration, forgetfulness, digestive disturbances and blurred vision.

Symptoms that are sometimes labeled bipolar disorder may be associated with entangled relationships, emotional incest and identity conflict. We help people to explore and dissolve the consequences of relationship disappointments including the consequences of abuse by authorities.


How is Bipolar Disorder diagnosed?

There are no medical or laboratory tests - only opinions that cannot be confirmed or rejected.

Manic phase Depressive phase
  • feeling euphoric, elevated, or high
  • feeling agitated, irritable, restless
  • racing thoughts, talkativeness
  • sleep disorders
  • reckless activities
  • inflated self-esteem; poor judgment
  • delusions or hallucinations
  • feeling depressed, low or down
  • feeling melancholy and hopeless
  • difficulty making decisions
  • poor self-evaluation
  • low interest in daily activities
  • withdrawal from family or friends
  • suicidal thoughts, plans or attempts

A label called bipolar disorder often seems to be applied to adults, who as children coped with parental conflicts and/or parental alienation and/or emotional incest. People showing symptoms associated with chronic conflict often express two sub-personalities, and swing back and forth between them.

And there are many other explanations, for example that mood swings may be triggered by food allergies, although no specific nutrient has been proven to cause or cure bipolar.

Depression is a thought. Depressive feeling is a thought. The pain of depression cannot exist if you refuse to think it. No thought is powerful enough to think itself without your going along with it. A.B. Curtiss, Cognitive Therapist

If a diagnosis of bipolar disorder represents an extreme example of what we call complex conflict or identity conflict - then we can help people to explore ways to integrate these two sides. (The symptoms associated with bulimia may offer a similar example.)


Identity Conflict

A person showing identity conflict often makes decisions or promises when one persona (or part or side) is active, and forgets, ignores or denies those decisions and promises when another persona is active. This behavior appears to be common - perhaps one person in six.

We have met many people who appeared to have identified with two other people. Typically the role models were two adults who were in conflict with each other while the person was a child - typically parents, grandparents or other relatives.

If one parent was depressed, and the other motivated or aggressive, a child may attempt to show loyalty to both parents by sequentially expressing their depressed and motivated personalities. See chronic conflict. We help people improve their mood stability.

If one parent was frequently absent, missing or dead, a child may perceive the missing parent through the descriptions and behavior of the remaining parent. If the remaining parent disliked the other parent, the remaining parent may alienate the other parent in the mind of the child. (We also help people recognize, prevent and control the consequences of parental alienation).


Treatment of Bipolar Disorder

After diagnosing bipolar disorder, medications may be prescribed to help people manage their emotions. The most common medications prescribed for bipolar disorder are currently lithium and Thorazine (chlorpromazine). Another treatment for bipolar is electroconvulsive therapy (ECT).

Side Effects of Lithium
Increased frequency of urination or lost bladder control is more common in women than in men. Patients may experience increased thirst; mild nausea and trembling of hands.

Side Effects of Thorazine (Chlorpromazine)
Increased constipation; decreased sweating; dizziness; drowsiness; dry mouth and congestion.

Electroconvulsive Therapy (ECT) is passing enough electric current through the brain to cause a convulsion. Electroshock is generally used to treat people with symptoms of depression, mania and schizophrenia, especially people who do not respond well to, or abreact to, psychiatric medications.

Side Effects of Electroconvulsive Therapy (ECT)
Electrocution, brain damage, memory loss, increased distractibility, difficulty with multiple tasks, trouble with arithmetic and language, nausea and headaches are all associated with electroshock.


Solutions for Complex Conflict

To summarize, we sometimes help people who suffer from complex conflict to find lasting resolution of many symptoms. See my conflict transcript for insights into managing inappropriate thoughts and uncomfortable emotions.

Please consult a physician about medical conditions.

We help people improve relationships and manage unpleasant emotions.

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Plagiarism is theft. Copyright © Martyn Carruthers 2002-2012 All rights reserved


 

 
 

 

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1. Where are you now? Assess fixations, bonds and enmeshments Systems 1
2. What do you want?  Define life goals ... and blocks to success Systems 2
3. Do you have a plan?  Use conscious and unconscious resources Systems 3
4. Do your emotions limit you?  Dissolve abuse, trauma and mentor damage Systems 4
5. Do your beliefs block you? Change limiting beliefs and end dependence Systems 5
6. Do you feel empty? Resolve identity loss to recover lost qualities Systems 6
7. Is your partner happy? Build healthy partnership (or separate peacefully) Systems 7
8. Are your children happy? Parents can resolve family problems Systems 8
9. Do you want team success? Develop team leaders and top teams together Systems 9
10. Do you want community? Coach community leaders and communities Systems 10
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Plagiarism is theft. Copyright © Martyn Carruthers 1996-2011 All rights reserved. Soulwork Systemic Coaching was primarily developed by Martyn Carruthers
to help people dissolve emotional blocks, improve relationships and achieve goals. These concepts and strategies are for general knowledge only. Consult a physician about medical conditions and before changing medical treatment. Don't steal intellectual property ... ask for permission to post, publish or teach this work.