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Solutions for Emotional and Relationship Issues
Develop your Emotional Maturity © Martyn Carruthers

Much guidance for emotional and relationship problems is nice, simple and wrong.
Good intentions and kind advice often result in unpleasant consequences.
We coach people to make sane decisions.

If we coach problems - we succeed or we fail. If we coach people - we always succeed!

We coach People who want Change!

We do not solve problems for people - that's for parents and social workers. Nor are we specialists in why people have problems - that's psychologist territory. We don't advocate drugs - that's medicine. We leave religion and philosophy for priests and gurus. We coach people to get what they want!

I never experienced better coaching in my life. It was life changing and I recommend Martyn's coaching to anyone who is striving to improve quality of private and business life. Stephen Werft, MA, Management Consultant/Trainer

We suggest that you get to know us a little, perhaps through our public talks, seminars or web pages. When time permits, we offer Connecting Hearts and Minds - chat with us by Skype, to learn a little about each another and to explore how well we can connect. (Please understand that we are quite busy and that we may not be in your time zone).

We like Skype

Here are the steps ...

Do you need local help first? Consider the questions below ...
Are you coachable? Check yourself with these questions
Select a coach and make an appointment by email
Pay by PayPal for our time and experience
Contact us at the agreed time
Review what you learned
Follow your plan!

1) Seek local help if ...

You want free coaching
You cannot cope with change or stress
You are suicidal or you may harm yourself
You need psychiatric medication or drugs to function
You have no good relationships or you generally avoid people
You are generally dysfunctional and you cannot cope with daily tasks
You are a member of a cult or philosophy that believes that it's good to suffer

2) Are you coachable? Can you consider what makes sense ?

Are you mostly mature and responsible?	YES - MAYBE - NO
Are you friendly? Do you have many friends?	YES - MAYBE - NO
Are you reliable? Do you finish what you start?	YES - MAYBE - NO
Are you truthful? Do you generally avoid deception?	YES - MAYBE - NO
Are you usually proactive to solving life challenges?	YES - MAYBE - NO
Have you suffered enough? Do you want to change?	YES - MAYBE - NO
Can you enjoy trying new ways and new behaviors?	YES - MAYBE - NO
Are you financially prepared to invest in your own future?	YES - MAYBE - NO
Are you ready to examine and change any self-sabotage?	YES - MAYBE - NO
Do you intend to improve your health, wealth and happiness?	YES - MAYBE - NO

For each YES - give yourself 3 points

For each SOMETIMES - only 1 point

Count your points ...

0 - 15	You are unlikely to change anything soon - email us when you're ready
Over 15	You want to change soon. Skype coaching should be good for you
Over 25	You could be a great coach. Read about our professional training

3) Select a Coach

Coaching by Telephone & Skype Choose an expert coach ... Email us to get started
Emotional Incest Expert Modeling Family Coaching	Joy arises when we are true to our life purpose - true to the source of our love and passion - true to Soul. Those of us who fulfill our life purpose can share life goals, love and passion in relationships. Martyn Carruthers English	Explore the influence of your relationships on your life to a deeper level. A big part of your personality may be created to survive your early family. Once you find your true self, you are free to live a happy and creative life. Kosjenka Muk English/Croatian	Self-Esteem Emotional Maturity Partnership Problems
You can peacefully change your life when you become aware of the origins of unpleasant emotions and beliefs. Your "Bingo" resources wait for you! Marinka Spodniak English/Croatian	Family Coaching Coaching Troubled Children	Naturopathy & Detoxification Hypertension	I specialize in nutrition and gentle detoxification. I am a Certified Nutrition Specialist and Traditional Naturopath. Richard Diehl English/German
Systemic Management	Build your passion for life and your passion for justice! Management Coach Stephen Werft German/English/Croatian	Be patient and generous with yourself and others, and assume that your life and everyone in it are in service to your evolution as a human being. Kelly Lynn Ford English	Projection
Inner child coaching can free you from trauma and help you open your doors to emotional maturity and lasting happiness. Magda English/Polish	Inner Child Coaching	Image Business Coaching	It's not the pain of falling that hurts us; it's the pain of not getting up. Daniel

4) Your Investment in Yourself

	Skype / Telephone	Private Sessions
Martyn Carruthers	US $100 / hour	US $130 / hour
Kosjenka Muk	US $100 / hour	US $130 / hour
Other expert coaches	Email us
We phone you	US $10 / hour (extra)
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5) Contact us at the Agreed Time

Our coaching will follow your preferences. A few sessions may be great for some short range goals, or you may want longer support for more complex situations. For telephone/Skype sessions we prefer that you pay by PayPal, and we will expect your telephone or Skype calls at the agreed times.

(If you use a Wi-Fi laptop or mobile phone, please ensure that you have full battery and good wireless reception before you call us.) We're teach internationally, and we're used to time zone differences.

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6) Review what you learned

You will gain many insights during our meetings that you can apply in your life. You may want these insights to become part of who you are - so that instead of trying to do something, that something becomes part of what you do.

Instead of complaining, blaming or trying to change people, you can change yourself and notice how your changes influence others. If you choose to value integrity or emotional maturity, some people will appear to change ... and others will change. Lasting happiness is hard to ignore.

7) Follow your Plan

We can help you check the benefits and consequences of changing and of not changing - and we can help you prepare for any difficult conversations or awkward transitions. We can help you explore and change your emotional reality and build better relationships.

We can be your professional friends, devil's advocates, sounding boards, provocateurs, mentors and coaches. We can help you focus on your life, define your goals and take your steps. We can help you laugh at life, and sort out any mess.

When do you want to untangle your entanglements, live your values and reach your goals?

Is it time to benefit from our experience?

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☼ Would you like to benefit from our experience? ☼ America: Dragonfly, PO Box 675, Honaunau, Hawaii, 96726 USA Europe: Centar Angel, Trnsko 13A, 10020 Zagreb, Croatia Email us at
Workshop	Systemic Coach Training
Systems 1	How to evaluate relationships and recognize common entanglements
Systems 2	How to define life goals, and identify blocks, objections & conflicts
Systems 3	How to continue goalwork using interactive metaphors and Dreamwork
Systems 4	How to dissolve the consequences of abuse and trauma and rebuild motivation
Systems 5	How to change limiting beliefs and codependence for emotional freedom
Systems 6	How to recognize and resolve identity loss: recover lost qualities and lost skills
Systems 7	How to heal therapist or spiritual damage and provide inspirational mentorship
Systems 8	How to coach partners to build lasting happiness (and to separate peacefully)
Systems 9	How to coach parents to resolve family problems
Systems 10	How to coach team leaders and teams ... together
Systems 11	How to coach community leaders and communities
Specialty	Advanced workshops and specialty training tailored to your goals

Copyright © Martyn Carruthers 1996-2010 All rights reserved. Soulwork Systemic Coaching was primarily developed by Martyn Carruthers. We coach and train people to define and achieve goals, to resolve emotional blocks and to improve relationships. This information is for your general knowledge only. Please consult a physician about medical conditions and before changing any medical treatment. You must get Martyn's written permission to post or publish his work.

Solutions for Emotional and Relationship Issues Develop your Emotional Maturity © Martyn Carruthers