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Live the Way You Want

Probably, you don't really want coaching - you want results!
Together, we can find solutions for success blocks, emotional issues & relationship problems

We coach people to make sane decisions and to build healthy relationships.
We help people solve issues from their past - and create a future that they truly want!
Do you want to benefit from our experience?

I never experienced better coaching in my life. It was life changing and I recommend Martyn's coaching to anyone who is striving to improve quality of private and business life. Stjepan Werft, MA, Management Consultant/Trainer

We coach People who want Change!

We do not solve problems for people - that's for parents and social workers. Nor do we claim to be specialists in why people have problems - that's psychologist territory. We don't advocate drugs - that's medicine. Nor do we offer religion or philosophy - that's for priests and gurus. We help people get what they want.

We know why and how we want to coach people. We open our hearts, and we listen to dreams, hopes and complaints, so that we can coach each person effectively. We don't bend people to fit our models - we bend our models to fit each unique person that we coach.

We prefer to coach people after they have gotten to know us through our public talks or web pages etc. When time permits, we offer free initial Connecting Minds and Hearts - opportunities to simply meet by Skype, to learn a little about each another and explore how well we can connect.

Here are the steps ...

  1. Do you need local help first? Consider the questions below ...

  2. Are you coachable? Check yourself with these questions.

  3. Select a coach and make an appointment by email.

  4. Pay by PayPal for our time and experience.

  5. Contact us at the agreed time.

  6. Review what you learned.

  7. Follow your plan!

(Don't even consider telephone/Skype coaching while you are driving!)

1) Seek local help or assistance first if ...

  • You want free coaching
  • You cannot cope with change or stress
  • You are suicidal or you may harm yourself
  • You need psychiatric medication or drugs to function
  • You have no good relationships or you generally avoid people
  • You are generally dysfunctional and you cannot cope with daily tasks
  • You are a member of a cult or philosophy that believes that it's good to suffer

2) Are you coachable? Can you focus on what makes sense ?

Do you intend to improve your health, wealth and happiness? YES - SOMETIMES - NO
Are you generally mature and responsible? YES - SOMETIMES - NO
Are you friendly? Do you have quality friends? YES - SOMETIMES - NO
Are you truthful? Do you generally avoid deception? YES - SOMETIMES - NO
Are you usually proactive when solving life challenges? YES - SOMETIMES - NO
Are you ready to examine and change self-sabotage? YES - SOMETIMES - NO
Can you enjoy trying new ways and new behaviors? YES - SOMETIMES - NO
Have you suffered enough? Do you want to change? YES - SOMETIMES - NO
Are you financially prepared to invest in your own future? YES - SOMETIMES - NO
Are you reliable? Do you finish what you start? YES - SOMETIMES - NO
  •  For each YES - give yourself 3 points
  •  For each SOMETIMES - only 1 point
  •  Count your points ...
0 - 10 You are unlikely to change anything soon - email us when you're ready
Over 10 You want to change soon. Skype coaching should be good for you
Over 20 You are ready to take off. Our private sessions may be perfect for you
Over 25 You could be a great coach. Consider attending our professional training

3) Select a Coach

Coaching by Telephone & Skype
Choose an expert coach ... Email us to get started

Martyn Carruthers
Emotional Incest
Expert Modeling
Family Coaching

Joy arises when we are true to our life purpose - true to the source of our love and passion - true to Soul. Those of us who fulfill our life purpose can share life goals, love and passion in relationships.
Martyn Carruthers
English

Explore the influence of your relationships on your life to a deeper level. A big part of your personality may be created to survive your early family. Once you find your true self, you are free to live a happy and creative life.
Kosjenka Muk
English/Croatian


Self-Esteem
Emotional Maturity
Partnership Problems

You can peacefully change your life when you become aware of the hidden origins of unpleasant emotions and beliefs. Your "Bingo" resources wait for you!
Marinka Spodniak
English/Croatian



Family Coaching
Coaching Troubled Children

Naturopathy & Detoxification
Hypertension

I specialize in nutrition and gentle detoxification. I am a Certified Nutrition Specialist and Traditional Naturopath.
Richard Diehl
English/German


Systemic Management

Build your passion for life and your passion for justice!
Management Coach
Stephen Werft
German/English/Croatian
Be patient and generous with yourself and others, and assume that your life and everyone in it are in service to your evolution as a human being.
Kelly Lynn Ford
English


Projection

Inner child coaching can free you from trauma and help you open your doors to emotional maturity and lasting happiness.
Magda
English/Polish


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It's not
the pain of falling that hurts us; it's the pain of not getting up.

Daniel

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Emanuel When I try too hard to sound wise then nothing comes to my mind
Edith
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Nenad
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Lili

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4) Your Investment in Yourself

  Skype / Telephone Private Sessions
Martyn Carruthers US $100 / hour US $130 / hour
Kosjenka Muk US $80 / hour US $100 / hour
Other expert coaches Email us
We phone you US $10 / hour (extra)
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5) Telephone / Skype us at the Agreed Time

Our coaching relationship will follow your preferences. A few sessions may be enough for some short range goals, or you may want longer support. For telephone/Skype sessions ... you can pay by PayPal, and we will expect your telephone or Skype calls at the agreed times. (If you use a Wi-Fi laptop or mobile phone, please ensure that you have good wireless reception before you call us.)

Reputation is what people know about you. Honor is what you know about yourself.
Integrity is living your highest values.

We don't coach problems - we coach people! We coach people to create and enjoy health, wealth, happiness and better relationships. We help people explore and define where they are now, where they want to be and how best to get from here to there. (We do not coach people to manipulate others, no matter how nice their intentions.)

We strive to be prepared, rested and alert when we meet you or answer your call; and we hope that you do the same. That is difficult if you are in a crisis, or after taking alcohol or psychoactive drugs. Be as specific as you can about where you are now, what you want (where, when and with whom) and how you want to get there. Please do not tell us private details that you may later regret.

From the start, we focus on "What can be evidence of your success?". Then we offer to support your steps to success. The timing is your choice (providing your requests fits our schedules). We generally recommend a meeting to get started and make a provisional coaching plan. Then we usually suggest that we meet once or twice each week, personally or using a telephone or Skype.

6) Review what you learned

You will gain insights during our meetings that you can apply in your life. You can also choose if you want these insights to become part of who you are - so that instead of trying to do something, that something becomes part of what you do.

For example, you may find that you perceive your partner as a child, your boss as a parent or a colleague as a sibling. You may find that some old trauma still influences your everyday behavior.

Instead of complaining, blaming or trying to change other people, you can change yourself and notice how your changes influence others. If you choose to value integrity or emotional maturity, some people will appear to change ... and others will change. Lasting happiness is hard to ignore.

7) Follow your Plan

We can help you check the benefits and consequences of a change - and of not changing - and we can help you prepare for difficult conversations and transitions. We can help you explore and change your emotional reality and stabilize your desired changes within your life.

  1. What have you discovered during our coaching sessions so far?

  2. How do you want to apply these insights into your daily, everyday life?

We can be your professional friend, devil's advocate, sounding board, provocateur and ally. We can help you focus on your life, your goals and your steps. We can help you laugh at life, and sort out your mess. When do you want to untangle your entanglements, live your values and reach your goals?

Do you want to benefit from our experience?

Copyright © Martyn Carruthers 2005-2010 All rights reserved. coachong, coachnig, couching, coching


 

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Systems 1 How to evaluate relationship dynamics and recognize common entanglements
Systems 2 How to define life goals, identify blocks, resolve objections & plan for success
Systems 3 How to provide or continue goalwork using interactive metaphors and Dreamwork
Systems 4 How to dissolve the consequences of abuse and trauma, and rebuild motivation
Systems 5 How to change limiting beliefs and codependence for emotional freedom
Systems 6 How to recognize and resolve identity loss: recover lost qualities and lost skills
Systems 7 How to resolve therapist or spiritual damage and provide inspirational mentorship
Systems 8 How to coach partners to build lasting happiness and avoid partnership breakdown
Systems 9 How to coach parents to resolve family problems and to achieve family goals
Systems 10 How to coach team leaders and teams to develop while solving team problems
Systems 11 How to coach communities to survive and prosper in a changing world
Specialty Advanced workshops and specialty training tailored to fulfill your goals and needs

Copyright © Martyn Carruthers 1996-2010 All rights reserved. Soulwork Systemic Coaching was primarily developed by Martyn Carruthers. We coach and train people to define and achieve goals, to resolve emotional blocks and to improve relationships. This information is for your general knowledge only. Please consult a physician about medical conditions and before changing any medical treatment. You must have Martyn's written permission to post or publish his work.