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Help for Emotional Blocks and Relationship Problems

Let regret for time wasted motivate you to use well whatever time remains!


Are you in a relationship that could be better?
Do unpleasant emotions interfere with your work or pleasure?

Are You Coachable?  .  Prices & Costs  .  Specialty Packages

Most people delay seeking help until their suffering reaches some crisis that they can no longer tolerate. By this time, their relationships, their jobs or even their health may be at risk. It's usually safer and easier to find solutions before a problem becomes a crisis. We help motivated adults evaluate their actions, validate their emotions, deal with emotional baggage and build better relationships.

Martyn, it all came down to trust. There are very few people that we would trust with our marriage. You and Kosjenka earned our trust ... and we never had cause to doubt it. Without your sessions we would be divorced by now ... San Diego, USA

Are you happy with your marriage, your family and your work?
We help people dissolve emotional blocks - and improve how they relate with other people.

I never experienced better coaching in my life. It was life changing and I recommend Martyn's coaching to anyone who is striving to improve quality of private and business life. Stephen Werft MA, Management Consultant / Sales Trainer

We will not solve problems for you - that's for parents and social workers. Nor are we specialists in statistics - that's psychology. We don't diagnose disease nor advocate drugs - that's medicine. We leave religion to priests and philosophy to gurus. We can help you get what you want!

Here are the Steps ...

1.  Do you seek coaching or therapy?  Check this table.
2
.  Are you coachable?  Answer these questions
3.  Select a coach and make appointments
4.  Pay  for  our  time  and  experience
 5.  Contact us at the agreed times
6.  Review what you learned
7.  Follow your plan!

Are you whole or broken? Do you want coaching or therapy? The following table is adapted from Therapist as Life Coach: Transforming Your Practice by Dr. Patrick Williams, Ed.D, MCC.

Coaching Psychotherapy
For healthy people who desire better situations For patients with identifiable dysfunctions
Deals mostly with a person’s goals and blocks and seeks to help people Deals mostly with patients' past trauma, and seeks to heal people
Helps people learn or improve skills to build mature, satisfying relationships Helps patients resolve old pain and suffering
Co-creative equal partnership (coaches help people explore their blocks and solve their problems) Doctor-patient relationship (therapists provide patients with diagnosis and solutions)
Assumes emotions are natural and normal Assumes emotions are unnatural and abnormal
Growth and progress are often rapid and enjoyable Growth and progress are often slow and painful
A coach helps people identify their goals and blocks, then walks with them to success, holding people accountable for reaching their own goals. A therapist provides professional expertise and guidelines to diagnose problems and provide a path to healing.

We can get to know each other through our public talks and seminars. You can check our values and methodology in our books and articles. And we offer Connecting Hearts and Minds - you can chat with us using Skype - we can learn a little about each another and explore how well we can work together:
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1) We cannot help everybody. Please seek local help if ...

* You are under 18
* You want free coaching
* You may harm yourself or others
* You cannot  cope with change or stress
* You  need  medication  or  drugs  to  function
* You want treatment for clinical psychological disorders
* You have no good relationships or you generally avoid people
* You are  generally dysfunctional  or  you cannot cope with  daily tasks

2) We cannot coach everybody. Are you coachable?

Are you mostly mature and responsible? YES - MAYBE - NO
Are you friendly? Do you have good friends? YES - MAYBE - NO
Are you reliable? Do you finish what you start? YES - MAYBE - NO
Are you honest? Do you generally avoid deception? YES - MAYBE - NO
Are you usually proactive  to solving life challenges? YES - MAYBE - NO
Have you suffered enough?  Do you want to change? YES - MAYBE - NO
Can  you  enjoy using new ways  and  new  behaviors? YES - MAYBE - NO
Are you financially prepared to invest in your own future? YES - MAYBE - NO
Are you  ready to explore and change any  self-sabotage? YES - MAYBE - NO
Do you intend  to improve your health, wealth and happiness? YES - MAYBE - NO

* For each YES - give yourself 3 points
 
* For each MAYBE - only 1 point
 
* Count your points ...

Under 12 You are unlikely to change anything soon - email us when you're ready
Over 12 You want to change soon. Skype coaching should be good for you
Over 24 You could be a great coach. Read about our coach training

3) We cannot please everybody. Choose your Expert.

Getting the Most from our Coaching

Some of our Expert Colleagues

Martyn Carruthers
Emotional Incest
Expert Modeling
Family Coaching

Joy arises when we are true to our life purpose - true to the source of our love and passion - true to Soul. Those of us who fulfill our life purpose can share life goals, love and passion in mature relationships.
Martyn Carruthers
English

Explore the influence of your relationships on your life to a deeper level than you are normally aware. A big part of your personality may be created to survive your early family. Once you find your true self, you are free to live a happy and creative life.
Kosjenka Muk
English & Croatian


Self-Esteem
Emotional Maturity
Partnership Problems

You can peacefully change your life when you become aware of the origins of unpleasant emotions and beliefs. Your "Bingo" resources wait for you!
Marinka Spodniak
English & Croatian



Child Development
Coaching Troubled Children

Naturopathy & Detoxification
Hypertension

I specialize in nutrition and gentle detoxification. I am a Certified Nutrition Specialist and Traditional Naturopath.
Richard Diehl
English & German


Systemic Sales

Build your passion for life and your passion for justice!
Management Coach
Stephen Werft
English & Croatian
Be patient and generous with yourself and others, and assume that your life and everyone in it are in service to your evolution as a human being.
Kelly Lynn Ford
English


Projection

Inner child coaching can free you from trauma and help you open your doors to emotional maturity and lasting happiness.
Magda
English & Polish


Inner Child Coaching

Corporate Coaching

I work best with motivated people ... I enjoy giving my best to people who want the best.
Beverly Mann
English


Diabetes & Health Coach

The internet is full of confusing information about health. I help people transform vulnerability into empowerment.

Beverleigh Piepers
English & Australian

I listen precisely, look clearly and assess accurately what my clients want, need and can achieve.

Heidi B. Hottinger
English, German & French.


Coaching & Supervision

I can help you transform technology into coaching tools and offer your services globally

Modestas Vaitkus
English, Russian & Lithuanian


Computer Coaching

Marketing & Promotion

I offer you 30 years experience and many ways to market and promote your coaching business.

Stephen Feswick
English & Canadian

4) Your Investment: Prices & Payments

Choose with whom you want to work. We each have specialties ... and we all have commitments. When we have some idea of what you want, what you hope to change, and what stops you - we can suggest one or two experts with appropriate experience. Click HERE to request help.

Complete, cut, paste and email to:
Name: Partnership Status: Country:
Age: Health: Time zone:
Major goals:
Major problems:
Emotional blocks:
Relationship issues:
How do you want to meet?
Additional Information:

We cannot easily guess how many sessions you need to get the results you want. Much depends on how many issues you want to resolve, your emotional maturity, your physical age, your relationships, your general health and your benefits for staying 'stuck'.

Note that online coaching is in its infancy and that we cannot resolve some problems. We strive for - but cannot guarantee -  confidentiality over the internet.

We will keep our prices low until we have too much work ...
  Skype / Telephone Packages Private Sessions
Martyn Carruthers US $120 / hour US $495 / 5 hours US $140 / hour
Kosjenka Muk US $100 / hour US $495 / 6 hours US $120 / hour
Other Experts US $100 / hour for Skype or telephone sessions
If we phone you

     US $10 / hour (extra) in USA - other countries, please ask

If we come to you Private rate plus expenses - 10 hour minimum
Payments

     Most people pay by PayPal or Western Union

If you cancel within 24 hours: 50%
If we miss an appointment without notice ... your next session is free.
We offer discounts to residents of Central and Eastern Europe,
and to residents of Third World countries, depending on available time.

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5) Specialty Coaching Packages

Prepaid Specialty Packages: from US $495

You can pay $100 for the first hour to check us out ... and the balance for the next hours.

Half Year Mentorship

Six monthly mentorship sessions for good value

End Self-Sabotage

We help you stop sabotaging yourself and your life.

Self-Esteem Package Change how you perceive and value yourself.
Verbal Self-Defense We help you communicate and respond to difficult people.
Prepare for Partnership Clean up your beliefs, expectations and disappointments ...
stop following poor role models and find quality mentors.
Relationship Clarity Dissolve relationship transferences and projections
to see people as they are.
Emotional Maturity We help you change immature emotional reactions.
Financial Maturity You can change how you perceive, value and use money.
Blocks to Spiritual Progress Change emotional, relationship and ancestral blocks
to your spiritual development.
Design your own Coaching Package
Just tell us what you want ... when ... and how!
Payments Pay by PayPal, Western Union or bank transfer
If we phone you US $10 / hour (extra) in USA - other countries, please ask
If you cancel an appointment within 24 hours: 50% fee penalty
If we cancel or miss your appointment without notice ... your next session is free.

6) Contact us at the Agreed Time

Perhaps you want a few sessions for simple goals, or longer support to help resolve complex situations. Some people want a weekly or monthly reality check! It's your choice. For telephone or Skype sessions and coaching packages - pay in advance by PayPal or Western Union, and we will expect your calls at the agreed times. (Skype and PayPal are free downloads ... click on the links.)

If you lack the courage to start, you have already finished.

We teach internationally and we're used to time zone differences. If you use a Wi-Fi laptop or mobile phone, please ensure that you have a full battery and good wireless reception before you call us. Check your speakers / headset and microphone. And please - don't call us while you are driving!

7) Review what you learned

Expect to gain many insights that you can apply in your life. You may want these insights to become part of who you are - so that instead of trying to do something, that something becomes part of what you naturally do. We enjoy helping most people. You pay us for our time and experience.

Martyn, you are too generous with the material on your website. You should sell your research - not give it away. Americans don't value anything free. Rochester, New York

Instead of trying to change other people, you can change yourself and observe how your changes influence others. If you choose to develop integrity and emotional maturity, some people will appear to change ... and others will change. Lasting happiness is hard to ignore.

8) Follow your Plan

We help people explore the benefits and consequences of changing ... and of not changing. We help motivated adults prepare for difficult conversations or awkward transitions. We can help you explore and redefine your emotional reality as you change your emotions and improve your relationships.

Some people use words like psychological to explain or excuse their behavior.
But 'psychological' doesn't explain or excuse anything!

As far as I know, we have only one life, and this is not a dress rehearsal.
Why not be comfortable in your own skin, and make your life as happy as possible?

We can be your professional coaches, devil's advocates, sounding boards, provocateurs, mentors and friends. We can help you focus on your life, define and validate your goals, solve problems and clarify your relationships. We can help you get what you want from life.

Getting the Most from Life

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Plagiarism is theft. Copyright © Martyn Carruthers 2005-2010 All rights reserved. coachong, coachnig, couching, coching


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Training

1. Where are you now? Assess relationship bonds and entanglements Systems 1
2. What are your life goals?  Identify your life goals ... and what blocks you Systems 2
3. How to reach your goals?  Use your conscious and unconscious resources Systems 3
4. What stops you?  Dissolve abuse and trauma to rebuild motivation Systems 4
5. What else stops you? Change your limiting beliefs to end dependence Systems 5
6. What else stops you? Resolve identity loss to recover qualities and skills Systems 6
7. What else stops you? Heal mentor damage and find quality mentorship Systems 7
8. What about your partnership? Build happy partnership (or separate peacefully) Systems 8
9. What about your children? We coach parents to resolve family problems Systems 9
10. What about your success? We coach team leaders and teams ... together Systems 10
11. What about your community? We coach community leaders and communities Systems 11
12. What about complex goals? Specialty coaching & training for unusual goals Specialty

Plagiarism is theft. Copyright © Martyn Carruthers 1996-2010 All rights reserved. Soulwork Systemic Coaching was primarily developed by Martyn Carruthers. We help people define and achieve goals, resolve emotional blocks and improve relationships. This information is for general knowledge only. Consult a physician about medical conditions and before changing any medical treatment. Don't steal ... ask Martyn for permission to post or publish his work.