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Lifestyle Design
Supportive Emotions for Smart Decisions © Martyn Carruthers

Online Coaching for Lifestyle Design


Do you already know what lifestyle you want?
We can help you create it.

Lifestyle Coaching & Design

Are you waiting for suffering to motivate you?
Are you waiting for someone to tell you what to do?

Stop wasting time! We can help you get the breakthroughs that you want - and the happiness that you deserve.

Our work is especially appropriate if you already tried coaching, counseling or therapy - which didn't work.

Emotional Coaching and Lifestyle Design

Success in any field requires supportive relationships and role models, and control of symptoms, conflicts, beliefs and emotions. Each step of our emotional coaching builds on your last success to prepare for your next goal. The sequence is as important as the goals. Ineffective coaching or intuitive therapy can waste your precious time on unimportant or irrelevant issues!

Do you wait for permission to live your own life ... or have you suffered enough?

How to Overhaul Your Lifestyle

Do you know what you want? Do you know where you are now?
We help you break it down into do-able steps!

  1. Current Crisis - assess and relieve stress
  2. Systemic Diagnosis - assess relationship situations
  3. Relationship Clarification - untangle complex relationships
  4. Guilt Management - enhance your sense-of-life and regain motivation
  5. Goal Diagnosis - predict blocks to your goals and your resources
  6. Goal Coaching - define your goals and plan their fulfillment
  7. Conflict Resolution - find life direction, resolve conflicts and make better decisions
  8. Identity Changework - resolve identity loss and redefine your relationships
  9. Belief Changework - dissolve limiting beliefs while protecting your relationships
  10. Trauma Resolution - dissolve unresolved trauma and regain lost resources
  11. Expert Modeling - use expert strategies and duplicate expert performance
  12. Mentorship - disconnect toxic mentors, dissolve mentor damage and find inspiration

Our Lifestyle Coaching

If you had complete freedom, how would you live your life?
Where would you live? What would you do there? With whom?

Do you know what you really want? We can help you enjoy emotional freedom and healthy relationships as you live your life in your way. We can help you clean up your past and your present - as a basis for creating your wonderful future.

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psychology, treatment, process, method, systemic psychotherapy, 
family psychotherapy, systemic solutions, conflict, addictions, family tree, 
alcholism, drug addiction, systemic methods, mental illness, mental disease,
emotional incest

Crisis & Maturity

We can help you solve your current situation. Adults who wait for other people to solve their problems or to resolve their crisis may be stuck in immature dependency. We can help you solve your issues! Dealing with a current crisis is a strong first step towards emotional maturity.

Entanglements & Clarity

Do you want to improve your peace and clarity? We can help you enjoy better relationships with your parents, partner, ex-partners and children, instead of confusion (e.g. reacting to a partner as if to a parent, or to a client as if to a partner, with many unpleasant consequences.) Resolving relationship entanglements can accelerate success in all parts of life. See also emotional incest.

Conflicts & Integrity

 

We can help you set meaningful goals and dissolve goal conflicts. We help people find the hidden benefits of their conflicts and to resolve them. Resolve chronic conflict to better focus on fine-tuning, planning and fulfilling your life goals.

The end of conflict is an experience of integrity that often seems to transcend space and time. We can coach you to stabilize this experience as a stable life-resource, while defining your life direction (or mission or purpose). See Soul of Soulwork.

Beliefs & Choice

We can help you change any limiting beliefs as you increase your freedom and choice. As you resolve toxic bonds, you can feel increasingly free and peaceful; and your subsequent coaching becomes increasingly concrete and goal-oriented. See relationship skills and relationship bonds.

Your Precious Motivation

Do you feel somehow blocked to motivation and success. You can end the emotional consequences that follow crisis, abuse and post-traumatic stress - we can help you can transform unpleasant emotions into motivation to live a fulfilling life. See Trauma and PTSD.

Your Invaluable Inspiration

We can help you evaluate your past and current role models and dissolve any mentor damage. You can mentor people to find inspirational mentors. With focus, integrity, supportive beliefs, motivation and inspirational mentorship - you can fulfill their life goals - and your life purpose!

We can help you explore your personal values and inner power for all areas of your life.

  1. Change your limiting beliefs and move forward
  2. Develop and create a strategy to create your success
  3. Choose wisely between realistic and idealistic options
  4. Take full responsibility for your life and for your personal goals
  5. Gain clarity and focus on your goals, passions and purpose for your life
  6. Gain support, tools, resources and insights that will help you design and create your life

We can be your biggest cheerleaders and an essential part of your support team

We accept and encourage, provoke and challenge as you define and create your lifestyle.
Do you want to dissolve emotional blocks and enjoy quality relationships?

Online Lifestyle Coaching & Mentorship

Plagiarism is theft. Copyright © Martyn Carruthers 2008-2012 All rights reserved.


 

 
 

 

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1. Where are you now? Assess fixations, bonds and enmeshments Systems 1
2. What do you want?  Define life goals ... and blocks to success Systems 2
3. Do you have a plan?  Use conscious and unconscious resources Systems 3
4. Do your emotions limit you?  Dissolve abuse, trauma and mentor damage Systems 4
5. Do your beliefs block you? Change limiting beliefs and end dependence Systems 5
6. Do you feel empty? Resolve identity loss to recover lost qualities Systems 6
7. Is your partner happy? Build healthy partnership (or separate peacefully) Systems 7
8. Are your children happy? Parents can resolve family problems Systems 8
9. Do you want team success? Develop team leaders and top teams together Systems 9
10. Do you want community? Coach community leaders and communities Systems 10
**   Do you have unusual goals? Specialty coaching & training Specialty

Plagiarism is theft. Copyright © Martyn Carruthers 1996-2012 All rights reserved. Soulwork Systemic Coaching was primarily developed by Martyn Carruthers
to help people dissolve emotional blocks, improve relationships and achieve goals. These concepts and strategies are for general knowledge only. Consult a physician about medical conditions and before changing medical treatment. Don't steal intellectual property ... ask for permission to post, publish or teach this work.