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Emotional Maturity & Relationship Ecology
Healthy Relationships © Martyn Carruthers 1999-2011

Online Coaching & Mentorship


Coaching, mentorship and interactive workshops on emotional maturity,
solving relationship problems and resolving family chaos.

Emotional Coaching & Relationship Ecology

There are no limits to the happiness of healthy relationships
nor to the suffering of unhealthy relationships.

Although most people want to improve their relationships, to resolve conflicts and discuss difficult issues peacefully, deficiencies in relationship skills can make any relationship difficult. Our coaching and training follows years of research and experience.

Relationship skills reflect your maturity. If you stop developing - at any age - then your relationship skills remain stuck at that age. In a crisis, you may act like a child. We help you change whatever delayed your development - and catch up on any wasted time. Our specialties are:

Put ELATION into your RelationSHIPS

We can help you improve most relationships - from friendship to dating to marriage; from making friends to creating community, from groups to focused communities.

We encourage your health and your passion. Learn how to change singles to Soulmates - groups to top teams - and lonely families to dynamic community members. We help partners, friends, teams, parents and communities solve problems.

Emotional Maturity . Meaning of Life . Referrals

Good Intentions are Not Enough!

But good intentions are a good start! We help people resolve relationship problems, and prepare for future challenges.

  1. Define relationship goals
  2. Resolve existing crises
  3. Clarify past and present relationships
  4. Dissolve inner conflicts
  5. Adjust relationship beliefs
  6. Resolve relationship trauma
  7. Find appropriate mentors
  8. Focus on life purpose or mission

The absence of integrity leads to suffering, loneliness and depression. We help people end suffering and take steps towards the long-term happiness of healthy relationships.

Effective, mature communication skills can greatly contribute to your success.

Friendship Skills

Your friends range from casual acquaintances to intimate partners. Good friends are life blessings - but enjoying good friends is not luck. Quality friendship requires skill.

We can help you develop and improve your friendship skills and solve problems with friends, which are pre-requisites for effective teamwork, happy partnership and parenthood.

Many adults were never taught how to be friendly ... and they can be very lonely, often surrounding themselves with other lonely people. Some important friendship skills are:

  • Offering help
  • Sharing emotions
  • Joining conversations
  • Showing "I'm interested in you"
  • Giving and receiving complaints
  • Giving and receiving compliments

Partnership Skills

Good Couple Coaching can save you years of trial-and-error and suffering. Relationship coaching simultaneously helps you and your partner to build or improve double vision. We coach couples to evaluate partnership, to resolve relationship problems, and to prepare for future challenges.

We help couples resolve issues of abandonment, betrayal, crisis and trauma; and to:

  • share emotions & values
  • build a joyous relationship
  • dissolve toxic relationship habits
  • resolve guilt and the consequences of affairs
  • clean up past partnerships and previous romances
  • separate peacefully and with dignity, if all hope has faded

A partner can be your greatest good - but maintaining a happy partnership is not luck. Healthy partnership requires healthy relationship skills. Our couple coaching includes Premarital Coaching to prepare for lasting partnership and Separation Coaching to peacefully disconnect and rebuild separate lives apart. We help couples:

  1. Define relationship goals
  2. Dissolve relationship conflicts
  3. Prepare for unknown challenges
  4. Individual changework as required
  5. Compare values, goals and needs
  6. Clarify past and present relationships

Family Skills for Happy Families

Families are intimate teams! Families feed and shelter the young and the old, and provide morals and values that shape individual lives. Family coaching is integrated throughout our systemic coaching.

Systemic family coaching helps families to resolve emotional and behavioral challenges. Our family coaching simultaneously coaches family members to resolve challenges in ways that increase family harmony and resourcefulness.

Family members can receive integrity coaching to present their needs and fears. Each member can be coached to "try" other member's perspectives. Each member can be coached to examine family conflict as a mutual problem - and find mutual solutions. Our Family Coaching helps all family members.

Raising children to independent adulthood demands years of loving patience and strength. Many parents are not prepared for parenthood - our Parent Coaching offers support parents who need help or additional resources.

Team Skills for Team Spirit

Our team coaching can helps you work together to achieve goals that you cannot achieve alone. We coach team members support and protect each other! We coach team leaders to manage team emotions, identify and organize relationship resources, and get appropriate feedback and information.

Our team coaching can simultaneously coach all team members to dissolve blocks and work together effectively. Team coaching includes coaching the formation of new teams, maintaining and enhancing existing teams and training team leaders. We also assist team members to separate without stress.

Team leadership skills build on team skills - we coach leaders to lead before and during interactions with team members with an increasing scale of challenges and complexity.

Our team coaching includes:

  1. Define team objectives
  2. Select new team members
  3. Select and coach team leaders
  4. Define task content and priorities
  5. Define team leader's role and tasks
  6. Dissolve hidden agendas and other objections

Online Coaching & Mentorship

Plagiarism is theft. Copyright © Martyn Carruthers 2002-2011 All rights reserved


 

 
 

 

Training Centers & Programs
We offer systemic coach training to helping professionals
and to people who want healthy relationships and happy families.

Good Questions

Good Answers

Good Training

1. Where are you now in your life? Assess fixations, bonds and enmeshments Systems 1
2. What do you want?  Define life goals ... and blocks to success Systems 2
3. How can you reach your goals?  Use conscious and unconscious resources Systems 3
4. Do your emotions limit you?  Dissolve abuse, trauma and mentor damage Systems 4
5. Do your beliefs block you? Change limiting beliefs to end dependence Systems 5
6. Does inner emptiness limit you? Resolve identity loss to recover qualities and skills Systems 6
7. Do you want happy partnership? Build healthy partnership (or separate peacefully) Systems 7
8. Do you want healthy children? Coach parents to resolve family problems Systems 8
9. Do you want team success? Coach team leaders and top teams ... together Systems 9
10. Do you want community? Coach community leaders and communities Systems 10
**   Do you have unusual goals? Specialty coaching & training for unusual goals Specialty

What is Hawaiian Shamanism?

One root of our systemic magic Huna 1-6

Plagiarism is theft. Copyright © Martyn Carruthers 1996-2011 All rights reserved. Soulwork Systemic Coaching was primarily developed by Martyn Carruthers
to help people dissolve emotional blocks, improve relationships and achieve goals. These concepts and strategies are for general knowledge only. Consult a physician about medical conditions and before changing medical treatment. Don't steal intellectual property ... ask for permission to post, publish or teach this work.