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Dependence
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Online Coaching & Client Referrals
We often refer potential clients to appropriate professionals

Online Coaching & Mentorship


Are you entangled in difficult relationships or painful emotions?
Do you suffer from your parents' drama or your partner's moods?
We can help you untangle your emotions and your relationships.

Our systemic solutions are for your cognitive mind, your emotional heart and your intuitive soul.
We can help you accelerate your personal growth and your professional development.

Do you want Private Coaching?

Do you want Client Referrals?

Do you want relationship coaching for yourself, your marriage, your family or your team? Do you want better relationships?

We can help you reach your goals and help you cope with the emotional and relationship challenges of a changing world.

We can work together online or by telephone.

If we cannot help you, we may recommend an appropriate professional.

Do you want us to refer people to you?
Can you resolve identity loss, limiting beliefs
and relationship enmeshment?

If so, email us and tell us about your experience.

If you cannot resolve relationship entanglements or if you only offer intuitive, NLP or New Age techniques, we may not refer people to you.

If you want to check your coaching skills,
try out our systemic coach exam.

Coach Mentor: Online Mentorship

We can:

  1. Help you build a life that makes sense
  2. Coach you to plan ways to achieve your chosen goals
  3. Help you define and fine tune individual, partnership and team goals
  4. Coach you to identify and resolve emotional and relationship entanglements
  5. Help you check the relationship consequences of your actions or inactions
  6. Provide structure, tools and perspective to help you accomplish what you want

Life Coaching, Relationship Coaching & Specialty Coaching

We coach individuals, partners, families and teams. Most of our individual coaching is to increase individual success and reduce individual suffering. Most of our systemic (relationship) coaching is to increase success and happiness in partnerships, families or teams. We usually embed individual coaching within relationship (systemic) coaching.

Relationship Coaching

Do you know your relationship goals? Do you know how to work cooperatively? Are you fulfilled and happy with your romantic partner? If so - great - you know a lot about making healthy, mature decisions! If not, do you want to learn how to build and enjoy healthy relationships?

We can guide you to know, appreciate and accept yourself as you are - and to develop the way that you want. We can help you discover how to truly create worthwhile relationships with other people.

If you are single and motivated, we can help you fulfill your dream of stable, healthy partnership. (Note that we do not help predators or misogynists damage immature or vulnerable women.)

Coaching & Medication

Classical coaching can help you achieve simple life goals. We offer you mentoring, values assessment, behavior modification, behavior modeling and goal-setting. We can assist you to get what you want.

A professional coach can offer you dedicated attention and perceptive feedback to help you get what you want. A non-directive, client centered approach helps you discover healthy solutions for your problems and challenges ... and we also offer our systemic coach training.

Many people use drugs as a substitute for change. Self-medication with alcohol or nicotine, or prescription anti-depressants and stimulants are easier than applying intelligence, focus and analytical skills to complex emotional and relationship situations. And drugs are much more profitable.

Solutions for Emotional Blocks and Relationship Challenges

Most human relationships show complex yet predictable patterns of interdependency. We help people resolve conflicts and entanglements, and enjoy better relationships. See our Coaching Philosophy.

Our key coaching strategies could be summarized as:

  1. Evaluate and clarify relationships
  2. Define goals and plan their achievement
  3. Dissolve entanglements and conflicts
  4. Resolve abuse and trauma to recover motivation

  5. Change relationship bonds to recover freedom
  6. Dissolve identity loss to recover lost qualities and skills
  7. Dissolve mentor damage and find quality mentorship
  8. Couple coaching for a better partnership
  9. Family coaching to solve family problems for family harmony
  10. Team coaching to resolve leadership and team problems

Specialty Coaching & Training

Our trainings are intensely practical, with enough theory and discussion for our innovative changework to be understood and effectively applied by most helping professionals. Our specialty trainings are particularly useful for helping professionals who wish to add systemic coaching to their repertoire.

Learn how to listen to complaints and how to use goalwork and relationship diagnosis to explore people's emotional reality. Learn how to quickly uncover unconscious relationship habits. Explore innovative ways to bring emotions into balance and relationships into harmony.

  1. Explore people's words and non-verbal signals as they discuss important goals.
  2. Note people's non-verbal responses and synesthesia patterns as they describe their goals.
  3. Coach people to identify and clarify their core values, and set priorities based on their values.
  4. Make integrated coaching plans that include desired behavior, beliefs, values and relationships.

Examples of our Specialty Coaching Packages

Half Year Mentorship

Six monthly mentorship sessions for ongoing development

End Self-Sabotage

We help you stop sabotaging yourself and your life

Self-Esteem Package Change how you perceive and value yourself
Verbal Self-Defense We help you communicate and respond to difficult people
Prepare for Partnership Clean up your beliefs, expectations and disappointments ...
stop following poor role models and find quality mentors
Relationship Clarity Dissolve relationship transferences and projections
to see people as they are
Emotional Maturity We help you change immature emotional reactions
Financial Maturity You can change how you perceive, value and use money.
Return to Health Post-diagnosis coaching for people recovering
 from cancer or other serious illnesses
Blocks to Spiritual Progress Identify and change emotional, relationship and ancestral blocks to your spiritual development and progress
We can create Coaching & Training Packages just for YOU
Tell us what you want ... how you want it ... and when!

Online Coaching & Mentorship

Plagiarism is theft. Copyright © Martyn Carruthers, 2003-2011 All rights reserved.


 

 
 

 

Training Centers & Programs
We offer systemic coach training to helping professionals
and to people who want healthy relationships and happy families.

Good Questions

Good Answers

Good Training

1. Where are you now in your life? Assess fixations, bonds and enmeshments Systems 1
2. What do you want?  Define life goals ... and blocks to success Systems 2
3. How can you reach your goals?  Use conscious and unconscious resources Systems 3
4. Do your emotions limit you?  Dissolve abuse, trauma and mentor damage Systems 4
5. Do your beliefs block you? Change limiting beliefs to end dependence Systems 5
6. Does inner emptiness limit you? Resolve identity loss to recover qualities and skills Systems 6
7. Do you want happy partnership? Build healthy partnership (or separate peacefully) Systems 7
8. Do you want healthy children? Coach parents to resolve family problems Systems 8
9. Do you want team success? Coach team leaders and top teams ... together Systems 9
10. Do you want community? Coach community leaders and communities Systems 10
**   Do you have unusual goals? Specialty coaching & training for unusual goals Specialty

What is Hawaiian Shamanism?

One root of our systemic magic Huna 1-6

Plagiarism is theft. Copyright © Martyn Carruthers 1996-2011 All rights reserved. Soulwork Systemic Coaching was primarily developed by Martyn Carruthers
to help people dissolve emotional blocks, improve relationships and achieve goals. These concepts and strategies are for general knowledge only. Consult a physician about medical conditions and before changing medical treatment. Don't steal intellectual property ... ask for permission to post, publish or teach this work.