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Are you entangled in difficult relationships or painful emotions?
Do you suffer from your parents' drama or your partner's moods?
Our systemic solutions are for your
cognitive mind, your emotional heart and your intuitive soul.
Do you want to accelerate your personal and professional development?
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Do you want Private Coaching? |
Do you want Client Referrals? |
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Do you want relationship coaching for yourself, your
marriage, your family or your team? Do you want better relationships?
We can help you reach your goals and help you cope
with the emotional and relationship challenges of a changing world.
We can work together online or by telephone.
If we cannot help you, we may recommend an appropriate
professional.
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Do you want us to
refer people to you?
Can you resolve
identity loss,
limiting beliefs
and relationship enmeshment?
If so, email us and tell us about your experience.
If you cannot resolve relationship fixations
or if you only offer intuitive,
NLP
or New Age techniques,
we are unlikely to refer people to you.
If you want to check your coaching skills,
try out our
systemic coach exam. |
Coach
Mentor: Online Mentorship
We can:
- Coach you to plan ways to achieve your own goals
- Help you define and fine tune individual,
partnership and family goals
- Coach you to identify and resolve emotional and
relationship fixations
- Help you check the relationship consequences
of your actions or inactions
- Provide structure, tools and perspective to
help you accomplish what you want
Life Coaching, Relationship Coaching & Specialty Coaching
We coach motivated individuals, partners,
families and teams. Most of our individual coaching is to increase individual
success and reduce individual suffering. Most of our systemic (relationship)
coaching is to increase success and happiness in partnerships, families
or teams. We embed individual coaching within our relationship
(systemic) coaching.
Reality Check
Most of our clients (including helping
professionals) are ready to pay for coaching. They want to change something -
their relationships, health, finances or their emotions. Some people ask for
free
coaching - although we do a lot of cut-rate coaching in poorer countries,
we do not pamper self-proclaimed victims.
Fear of loss is often stronger than
a desire to gain!
We notice, uncomfortable as it may
sound, that the first step for many people is that they suffer enough
to seek solutions. We often ask, "Have you suffered enough to change?"
Other people may want to stretch themselves and simply need encouragement and
support.
Many people do not want
to change. We tell potential clients that they have to work to change,
and we check their motivation. We do not enjoy listening to justifications, complaints and blame.
If you are trained and experienced as a
business coach, and you know some of the language and culture of organizations,
we may refer clients to you.
Relationship Coaching
You can learn how
to be a great coach, but did you learn how to to launch your coaching business?
Building a business requires other skills than coaching excellence!
Do you know your business and relationship goals?
Do you know how to work cooperatively? Are you fulfilled and happy with your romantic
partner? If so - great - you know a lot about making healthy, mature decisions!
If not, do you want to learn how to build and enjoy healthy relationships?
We can guide you to know, appreciate and accept
yourself as you are - and to develop the way that you want. We can help you
discover how to truly create worthwhile relationships with other people.
If you are single and motivated, we can help you
fulfill your dream of stable, healthy partnership. (Note that we do not help nor
assist
predators or misogynists on how to hurt or damage people.)
Coaching & Medication
Classical coaching can help people achieve simple life goals. We
offer mentoring, values assessment, behavior modification, behavior
modeling and goal-setting. We help motivated adults get what they want.
We offer dedicated
attention and perceptive feedback. Our
non-directive, client centered approach helps people discover healthy
solutions for their problems and challenges ... and we also offer
our systemic coach training to helping professionals.
Many people use drugs as a substitute
for change. Self-medication with alcohol or nicotine, or prescription
anti-depressants and stimulants are easier than applying intelligence,
focus and analytical skills to complex emotional and relationship situations.
And drugs are much more profitable.
Solutions for Emotional Blocks and Relationship Challenges
Most human relationships show complex
yet predictable patterns of interdependency. We help people resolve
conflicts and entanglements, and enjoy better relationships. See our
Coaching Philosophy.
Our key coaching strategies can be summarized as:
- Dissolve
fixations and
conflicts
- Evaluate and clarify
relationships
- Define goals
and plan their achievement
- Change
relationship bonds to recover freedom
Resolve abuse
and trauma to recover motivation - Dissolve
identity loss to recover lost qualities and skills
- Dissolve
mentor damage and find
quality mentorship
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Couple coaching
for a better and healthier partnerships
- Family
coaching to solve family problems for family harmony
- Team coaching
to resolve leadership and team problems
Our trainings are intensely practical, with
enough theory and discussion for our innovative changework to be understood
and effectively applied by most helping professionals. Our
specialty trainings
are particularly useful for helping professionals
who wish to add systemic coaching to their repertoire.
Learn how to listen to complaints and how to
use goalwork and relationship diagnosis to explore people's emotional reality.
Learn how to quickly uncover unconscious relationship habits. Find innovative
ways to bring emotions into balance and relationships into harmony.
- Explore people's words and non-verbal signals as
they discuss important goals
- Note people's non-verbal responses and
synesthesia
patterns as they describe their goals
- Coach people to identify and clarify their core values,
and set
priorities based on their values
- Make integrated coaching plans that include
desired behavior, beliefs, values and relationships
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Examples of our Specialty Coaching Packages |
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Half Year Mentorship |
Six monthly sessions
for ongoing development |
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End Self-Sabotage |
We help you stop sabotaging
yourself and your life |
| Self-Esteem Package |
Change how you
perceive and value yourself |
| Verbal
Self-Defense |
Communicate
with and
respond to difficult people |
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Prepare for Partnership |
Clean up your beliefs, expectations and disappointments
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leave poor role models and find quality mentors |
| Relationship Clarity |
Dissolve relationship transferences and projections
and see people as they are |
| Emotional Maturity |
We help you change immature emotional
reactions |
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Financial Maturity |
You can change how you perceive, value and use money |
| Blocks
to Spiritual Progress |
Identify and change emotional, relationship
and ancestral blocks
to
your spiritual development |
We can create Coaching & Training Packages just for YOU
Tell us what you want ... how
you want it ... and when! |
Online Coaching & Mentorship
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