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Systemic Coaching for Managers
Managing Difficult Employees © Martyn Carruthers

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If you are a manager, much of your work includes getting things done through employees. Most of the employee problems that you must solve will likely involve attitude or performance. But behind almost all employee problems are the families and other relationship systems. These systems include the other employees, management, customers, suppliers, families and the surrounding human culture.

Systemic Coaching for Employee Problems

As few employees want to be be perceived as difficult by their colleagues, human resources or managers, consider using our online mentorship and coaching to help solve some of your problems.

It is difficult if not impossible for people to leave their families at home when they go to work! We coach managers to resolve their own emotional, partnership and family challenges as well as employee difficulties. We find that many CEO's and senior managers re-create their own family structure in their workgroups. It is not obvious unless seen from the outside ... is it possible that you have done this?

Perceiving the type of problem can help you find appropriate and lasting solutions.

  • Environment
    Is the workplace uncomfortable or difficult?
    Do employees consider the workplace to be unsafe?
  • Skills
    If past performance was acceptable - what has changed?
    Are this person's skills more appropriate for a different task?
  • Beliefs
    Do employees believe that high performance is not achievable?
    What limiting beliefs cause insecurity or undermine performance?
  • Values
    Do the employee's values match those of the work team?
    Are employee's cultural values appropriate for the organization?
  • Identity
    Are employees emotionally immature and act responsibly?
    Do employees have difficulty controlling emotional reactions?
  • Transpersonal
    Can employees adjust to a workplace or corporate culture?
    Does an employee's faith or religion restrict certain actions?

Resolving performance problems is a key responsibility of managers and human resources staff. We help managers and HR staff diagnose, understand, evaluate and solve employee problems. It wouldn't hurt that the HR managers have studied the best online MBA programs or campus MBA programs to increase their knowledge of handling employees.

Most organizations have some difficult employees - and some difficult managers. A good manager can help problem employees develop adequate skills, transfer, find professional help, or get appropriate coaching. Difficult or inexperienced managers may require mentorship, relocation or replacement.

Upper Management . Families in Organizations

Conflict in Organizations . Management in a Bank

Employee Mental Health

Many employees bring their disappointments and unfulfilled relationships to the workplace, and may try to use their managers and co-workers to act out family issues. The higher the employee's position - the more likely that an employee's emotional or relationship issues can disrupt an organization.

Since your coaching, we have three requirements when we hire staff; they must like people, they must often smile and they must be generally happy. You helped us set up good interview strategies and you helped some of them clean up their blocks to happiness ... THAT ALONE was well worth any effort. London, UK

Employee behaviors such as irritability, chronic lateness or poor judgment may be linked to mental health. Legitimate reasons for investigating an employee's mental health may include an unpleasant, moody, rude or arrogant attitude. Severe mood swings, anxiety attacks, substance abuse, symptoms of anxiety, bipolar disorder, chronic depression, suicidal talk or lasting stress require investigation.

Some mental health guidelines:

  1. If employees claim mental health disabilities, get professional advice
  2. Many mental health problems, if treated, cause only temporary disruption
  3. Create a policy for employees who claim or show mental health problems
  4. Managers who can recognize mental health problems can help employees get needed care - and help protect a company from legal difficulties.

Aggressive & Violent Employees

If employees become aggressive or violent, there are heavy consequences for those employees, their colleagues and their managers.

A common cause of aggression is victim identification. Aggressive employee may identify with perceived victims, either at home or at work, and express anger FOR those victims. Following a lay-off, for example, some employees may express deep anger FOR employees they perceive as victims. See Downsizing with Integrity.

Most people suffering from victim identification are suspicious and seem to enjoy annoying, tormenting or attacking anybody whom they label as victimizers, including managers and Human Resources.

Few victim identified people can stop their simmering anger and suspicion. Systemic leadership and our online systemic coaching can provide resolution for employees who want to change.

Prevent Employee Problems

We coach managers to prevent and deal with employee problems. Specific points often include:

  • Provide orientation to new employees
  • Evaluate relationship habits in the hiring process
  • Describe appropriate conduct and unacceptable behavior
  • Clarify expectations with job descriptions and an employee handbook

Diagnose Employee Problems

While simple discussions may dissolve simple problems, chronic behavior or performance problems usually require more attention. Common questions to help evaluate employee problems include:

  • Poor performance
    Does the employee lack essential skills? What standards or goals are used
    to assess employee performance? What coaching or additional training is needed?
  • Work incompatibility
    Are the employee's skills and preferences compatible with their assigned tasks
    or regular duties? Is additional training or reassignment appropriate?
  • Lateness
    Absences - late arrivals, long lunches and early departures ...
    Is an employee occasionally late? Is punctuality important?
  • Disruptive or difficult employees
    What is the real problem? Has the employee "space" to express feelings and concerns?

Evaluate Employee Problems

Evaluate the seriousness of offenses and appropriate responses:

  • Do the rules specify expected employee conduct?
  • Did any investigation include the employee's history?
  • Did an investigation show that the employee acted improperly?
  • Did an investigation determine whether the employee violated the rules?
  • Was the employee informed of the rules and the consequences of breaking them?

Solving Employee Problems

Although most employees want to co-operate with their managers, supervisors and co-workers, uncooperative employees can disrupt a workplace or an organization. We suggest four basic solutions for problem employees: ignore - coach - mentor - discipline.

  1. Ignore minor first-time infractions, especially if the employee is aware that his or her manager knows of the offense. Most employees will avoid becoming frequent offenders.
  2. Coach the manager to work one-on-one with problem employees. A good manager can provide an employee with useful feedback and solutions for improving performance.
  3. Mentor senior or professional staff. As well as providing feedback on specific managerial competencies, upper management can establish an appropriate organizational culture.
  4. Discipline may include written warnings, reassignment and dismissal.

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1. Where are you now in your life? Assess fixations, bonds and enmeshments Systems 1
2. What do you want?  Define life goals ... and blocks to success Systems 2
3. How can you reach your goals?  Use conscious and unconscious resources Systems 3
4. Do your emotions limit you?  Dissolve abuse, trauma and mentor damage Systems 4
5. Do your beliefs block you? Change limiting beliefs to end dependence Systems 5
6. Does inner emptiness limit you? Resolve identity loss to recover qualities and skills Systems 6
7. Do you want happy partnership? Build healthy partnership (or separate peacefully) Systems 7
8. Do you want healthy children? Coach parents to resolve family problems Systems 8
9. Do you want team success? Coach team leaders and top teams ... together Systems 9
10. Do you want community? Coach community leaders and communities Systems 10
**   Do you have unusual goals? Specialty coaching & training for unusual goals Specialty

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Plagiarism is theft. Copyright © Martyn Carruthers 1996-2011 All rights reserved. Soulwork Systemic Coaching was primarily developed by Martyn Carruthers
to help people dissolve emotional blocks, improve relationships and achieve goals. These concepts and strategies are for general knowledge only. Consult a physician about medical conditions and before changing medical treatment. Don't steal intellectual property ... ask for permission to post, publish or teach this work.