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 Focus on Conflict © Martyn Carruthers

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Conflicts are Inevitable

Conflicts are a predictable fact of life in every type of human interaction. Conflict management is, or should be, a core leadership competency. Arrogance or ignorance of conflicting issues may encourage disputes that can disrupt, damage and sometimes destroy teams or organizations. Confrontations and harassment lower performance and decrease productivity.

Conflict management involves analysis, diagnosis, intervention, resolution and prevention. These can be applied by executives, managers and supervisors in everyday organizational situations, consistently with a defined corporate culture, to ensure productivity and performance.


Categories of Human Conflict

People are both social and territorial, and will seek appropriate ways to increase advantage over other people. Expect people to be sociable to the limits of their perceived benefits. Expect people to become combative if they may lose control over things that they identify with.

      Things: land, resources, equipment, tools, machines, locations, decor
 Behaviors: habits, body movements, activities, communication styles
 Beliefs: definitions, predictions, assessments
 Values: preferences, evaluations, comparisons, hierarchies
 Identity: personalities, identifications, leaders, transferences
 Trans-personal: families, relationships, traditions, gods, communities, cultures

A systemic conflict management program can analyze these dimensions to find the real sources of conflict in a human system. The sources of conflict are rarely as obvious as the manifestations of conflict - the manifestations include fights, disputes, harassment and union conflicts.

Conflict Management

Conflict implies both motivation and desire for change. Unresolved conflicts cause chaos, whether inner conflict or between individuals or groups. Worse, if hidden or repressed, conflicts will likely become stronger and more damaging.
 
 Assessment: Interviews with stakeholders and selected third parties
 Analysis: Conflict Analysis Surveys; Finding origins
 Prognosis: Consequences of action; Consequences of inaction
 Intervention: Models of conflict; Problem solving; Appropriate behavior
 Resolution: Quick fixes; Arbitration; Mediation; Upper management involvement
      Prevention: Change strategies; Teamwork; Partnering; Joint agreements;
Internal consulting; Consensus building

Long-term conflict resolution focuses the motivation and harnesses the desire for change. Effective management can create integration opportunities that enlist both sides of a conflict. A third goal can be created to combine the values or qualities of both sides of a conflict ... within organizational objectives.

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Whether you need a neutral external consultant or you want to create a conflict management program, or you want to solve a current crisis, explore the benefits of Systemic Solutions...

  • REDUCE your stress when dealing with difficult employees
  • INCREASE employee participation and performance
  • ADVANCE your organizational objectives
  • DEVELOP your potential and that of your staff
  • BOOST your income and the incomes of your performers
  • ENJOY your work in cost-effective, profitable productivity

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Telephone and Internet Coaching & Team Training

We develop and apply systemic coaching to provide effective coaching by telephone and Skype, training and mentorship programs. We coach and train people to resolve physical, emotional, mental and relationship challenges.

If you are interested in adding coaching to your skills, we offer training programs with many levels of application. While designed for professionals in health, education and psychology; we welcome friendly people who wish to learn systemic coaching.


Effective Leaders Dissolve Conflict Quickly

Systemic diagnosis identifies the structure of relationship problems and goal diagnosis provides clear goals. Focus on shared values and support people who want to excel. Remember your objectives, and balance relationships.

Quality telephone coaching helps people gain clarity, dissolve complex emotional and relationship issues. We coach people to solve success and relationship problems and fulfill their goals.

Do you want to dissolve success blocks and relationship issues?
Do you want to end conflicts and boost productivity?

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Plagiarism is theft. Copyright © Martyn Carruthers 1996-2011 All rights reserved


 

 
 

 

Training Centers & Programs
We offer systemic coach training to helping professionals
and to people who want healthy relationships and happy families.

Good Questions

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1. Where are you now in your life? Assess fixations, bonds and enmeshments Systems 1
2. What do you want?  Define life goals ... and blocks to success Systems 2
3. How can you reach your goals?  Use conscious and unconscious resources Systems 3
4. Do your emotions limit you?  Dissolve abuse, trauma and mentor damage Systems 4
5. Do your beliefs block you? Change limiting beliefs to end dependence Systems 5
6. Does inner emptiness limit you? Resolve identity loss to recover qualities and skills Systems 6
7. Do you want happy partnership? Build healthy partnership (or separate peacefully) Systems 7
8. Do you want healthy children? Coach parents to resolve family problems Systems 8
9. Do you want team success? Coach team leaders and top teams ... together Systems 9
10. Do you want community? Coach community leaders and communities Systems 10
**   Do you have unusual goals? Specialty coaching & training for unusual goals Specialty

What is Hawaiian Shamanism?

One root of our systemic magic Huna 1-6

Plagiarism is theft. Copyright © Martyn Carruthers 1996-2011 All rights reserved. Soulwork Systemic Coaching was primarily developed by Martyn Carruthers
to help people dissolve emotional blocks, improve relationships and achieve goals. These concepts and strategies are for general knowledge only. Consult a physician about medical conditions and before changing medical treatment. Don't steal intellectual property ... ask for permission to post, publish or teach this work.