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Coaching People in Pain
© Martyn Carruthers

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We offer systemic coaching for resolving emotional blocks, changing deep limiting beliefs and improving relationship habits. Our coaching often seems to affect and reduce chronic pains, especially "psychosomatic" pains that appear to have medical causes.

Pain Control

People experiencing pain or reflex sympathetic dystrophy (RSD) may be preoccupied and unable to focus - even on methods of pain control. We offer a resourceful space for coaching people in pain to solve their challenges and achieve their goals. This can provide short-term pain relief.

Long-term Pain Relief

Pain relief has, or should have, a high priority. Unrelieved pain allows undue suffering, and the physical and psychological effect of pain can be devastating, with consequences of diminished activity, appetite and sleep, and a general weakening. Pain relief also helps decrease anxiety before and after surgery, or following some crisis, catastrophe or emergency situation.

Painkillers are drugs used to relieve pain (analgesic from Greek an- "without" and algos "pain") that act on the nervous system. They include paracetamol, also called acetaminophen), non-steroidal anti-inflammatory drugs such as salicylates (aspirin), and opiates such as opium, morphine and heroin.

Common ways to relieve pain are to use pharmaceutical or herbal medications, or self-medications such as alcohol and nicotine. Salicylate drugs such as aspirin and acetaminophen are probably the most commonly used. Opiates such as morphine and heroin are stronger (and similar to the endorphins that a human body creates). Opiates require medical prescription and supervision, but due to their psychoactive effects, people who regularly take them may not be candidates for our coaching.

Herbal Medications

Although herbal medications are generally weaker than those from a pharmacy, many people consider their "naturalness" an advantage. "Natural" identifies source, not superiority, although the placebo effect of "natural" medications may balance their lack of pharmaceutical activity.

Herbs can be beneficial ... and can be harmful. Many modern herbalists refer to ancient writings and to 16th - 17th century texts (such as Gerard and Culpeper) for therapeutic advice, instead of researching the herbs' botany, chemistry and pharmacology.

Herbal medications often used for pain control include black cohosh, cloves, mandragora, mint, wild ginger and willow (a natural aspirin).

Psychosomatic Pain

Psychosomatic symptoms can affect people at any age. They seem more likely appear during times of stress, such as divorce, examinations, overwork, military service and other life challenges. Temporary symptoms (e.g. headaches, nausea, sleepiness, blurred vision) may arise during intense conversations about life goals, partnership expectations and other important relationships.

If I assume that pain offers some benefits, then it makes sense to know those benefits. I have huge compassion for people who cannot feel pain - some diseases (such as leprosy) delete the body sense of pain, and without the protective reflexes (such as from a burnt hand or a speck in an eye) people can suffer terrible body damage.

I don't seek one "benefit" of psychosomatic symptoms - I seek ten!
If I only find six "benefits" - I dig some more
! Martyn

Drug-free Pain Control

  • Acupuncture and Acupressure: In Chinese traditions, Insertion of needles into specific points in the skin helps to direct the flow of energies that maintain harmony. Needle punctures may stimulate and release endorphins and affect sensory nerves in the skin and muscle.
     
  • Aromatherapy: uses various "essential" aromatic oils, often used in aerosols or with massage. Lavender oil is often used for pain control.
     
  • Caring: for children, people, pets and plants may distract a person from their own situation
     
  • Cold: cold water, damp cloths, ice packs etc can reduce both local inflammation and pain sensitivity
     
  • Duty: to family, team, organization, community, country etc. People who value responsibility can forget their pain so as to "do their duty".
     
  • Humor: Laughter has often been called the best medicine. Humor can distract and disrupt the subjective world. Laughing can relax tension, and lead to the release of endorphins, which reduce pain sensations.
     
  • Hypnosis: deep trance-induction followed by authoritative post-hypnotic commands
     
  • Massage: Swedish massage, Thai, shiatsu, lomilomi etc can help to relax and to distract. Local pain can be decreased by surface stimulation. Common techniques include rapid stroking, kneading and circular movements. Long, smooth, slow stokes from the head to the lower back are often utilized for relaxation. Massage is generally safe.
     
  • Metaphor: offering pain control solutions within stories.
     
  • Music: Can be used as a powerful distraction to help relieve pain and promote relaxation
     
  • Prayer: The essence of prayer is faith in a relationship with a higher power. Physical pain leads to psychological and spiritual discomfort. Spiritual comfort may be restored through prayer and faith, alleviating pain.
     
  • Reflexology: A minimal form of Shiatsu that focuses on your hands and feet, which is relaxing in the same way as massage therapy.
     
  • TENS (transcutaneous electro-nerve stimulation): Applying electricity through your skin

Long-term Pain Relief . Effective Pain Control . Migraine Headaches

Please consult a physician regarding the applicability of any opinions, suggestions or recommendations about pain, medical symptoms or medical conditions.

Our Coaching

People who have benefited from our systemic coaching have often described both short-term and long-term relief from pain. The most common description is something like, "the pain is still there but it feels much less".

Our systemic coaching can include:

  • Pain Reframing: reframe the meaning of pain
  • Pain Dissociation: moving pain outside the body
  • Dissociation: moving the sense of self outside the body
  • Pain Substitution: transforming pain into something else
  • Pain Displacement: moving pain into another part of body
  • Non-judgment: focus on pain sensations to assist self-control
  • Hypnotic-analgesia: suggested anesthesia - local pain control
  • Pain Interruption: interrupt or disrupt automatic pain responses
  • Pain Intensity: changing the intensity of pain improves self-control
  • Imaginative Transformation: changing beliefs about the source of pain
  • Time Distortion: accelerates the time in pain, or increases time between pains


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1. Where are you now in your life? Assess fixations, bonds and enmeshments Systems 1
2. What do you want?  Define life goals ... and blocks to success Systems 2
3. How can you reach your goals?  Use conscious and unconscious resources Systems 3
4. Do your emotions limit you?  Dissolve abuse, trauma and mentor damage Systems 4
5. Do your beliefs block you? Change limiting beliefs to end dependence Systems 5
6. Does inner emptiness limit you? Resolve identity loss to recover qualities and skills Systems 6
7. Do you want happy partnership? Build healthy partnership (or separate peacefully) Systems 7
8. Do you want healthy children? Coach parents to resolve family problems Systems 8
9. Do you want team success? Coach team leaders and top teams ... together Systems 9
10. Do you want community? Coach community leaders and communities Systems 10
**   Do you have unusual goals? Specialty coaching & training for unusual goals Specialty

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Plagiarism is theft. Copyright © Martyn Carruthers 1996-2011 All rights reserved. Soulwork Systemic Coaching was primarily developed by Martyn Carruthers
to help people dissolve emotional blocks, improve relationships and achieve goals. These concepts and strategies are for general knowledge only. Consult a physician about medical conditions and before changing medical treatment. Don't steal intellectual property ... ask for permission to post, publish or teach this work.