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Relationship & Separation Coaching for a New Start
By Jan Sikorski

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Martyn offers quality relationship seminars and his inspirational and entertaining style gets good reviews wherever he goes. Religious organizations, corporations, military, schools, parenting groups and mental health organizations frequently sponsor these transformational seminars.


Soulwork, Couple Coaching, Separation & Divorce

Martyn Carruthers, creator of Soulwork Systemic Solutions, and Kosjenka Muk, international trainer, have helped many unhappy couples work through their differences and either fall in love again or separate peacefully as friends.

Martyn and Kosjenka claim that poor role models, unrealistic expectations and unfinished "family stuff" ends many otherwise wonderful partnerships. They offer couples a powerful antidote to these destructive energies through practical, systemic solutions for partnership problems.

As one partner is usually more motivated than the other to improve a partnership, Martyn's Couple Coaching is designed to be effective even if only one spouse wants to save a marriage.

Martyn and Kosjenka teach inspirational and educational seminars internationally. They have been frequent guests on television talk shows and radio interviews in many countries.

But perhaps their best credentials for relationship coaching are their students and graduates - people from many walks of life who can now provide effective relationship coaching.

Evaluate Your Partnership . Couple Coaching Flowchart and Testimonial


Evaluating Your Partnership

You may decide to end your marriage without first seeking professional coaching. Your decisions about divorce are probably the most important decisions you will make. Yet very few people with marital problems get couple coaching.

Professional advice, marriage therapy or mediation does not guarantee things will improve. Many people have said that marriage therapy only made things worse. Although most marriage therapists are well-meaning, they are not always competent in recognizing and dissolving systemic disturbances.

A graduate Soulwork coach has received specific training in couple coaching, which requires very different skills to individual coaching or individual therapy. A Soulwork coach can help you both identify and communicate your feelings to each other, and assist you to discuss, plan and achieve relationship goals.

Enjoying Partnership


Your New Start

When you request New Start coaching or training we have one goal - to help you create better relationships. No relationship problem is too big or too small (and often the small problems turn out to be the most toxic).

We offer short term, goal-oriented coaching based on Martyn's systemic coaching. We seek practical resolutions for your relationship problems. We don't assign blame or analyze things to death.

For that reason, New Start Coaching generally takes considerably less time than older, conventional methods. Most couples each attend a two-hour session apart, and then three to six sessions together.

However, every situation varies and some people require more time to find the answers they need. The therapists at our center are skilled at helping people improve their marriages even if only one partner participates! This is an important difference between New Start coaching and more traditional approaches. We're convinced that we can be helpful even if your spouse is halfway out the door. It's never too late.

Your coach will begin by helping you set clear and concrete goals so you both know where you're headed. Then, he or she will help you identify what you need to do differently to achieve the goals you've set. We are certain that people have many untapped strengths and inner resources that get forgotten when times get tough.

We help you remember your strengths and put them to use. Plus, we have plenty of good ideas of our own to add to your toolkit. When you complete New Start coaching, you'll have a plan and you'll feel more prepared to do what it takes to turn things around. And we can support you both through your confusion into clarity.

Whether you choose New Start coaching for help in solving your relationship problems or not, you should read some of the articles on this website about Couple Coaching. Start your recovery now. Saving your partnership may be the most important goal you will ever achieve.

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Plagiarism is theft. Copyright © Jan Sikorski 2009-2011 All rights reserved.


 

 
 

 

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We offer systemic coach training to helping professionals
and to people who want healthy relationships and happy families.

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1. Where are you now in your life? Assess fixations, bonds and enmeshments Systems 1
2. What do you want?  Define life goals ... and blocks to success Systems 2
3. How can you reach your goals?  Use conscious and unconscious resources Systems 3
4. Do your emotions limit you?  Dissolve abuse, trauma and mentor damage Systems 4
5. Do your beliefs block you? Change limiting beliefs to end dependence Systems 5
6. Does inner emptiness limit you? Resolve identity loss to recover qualities and skills Systems 6
7. Do you want happy partnership? Build healthy partnership (or separate peacefully) Systems 7
8. Do you want healthy children? Coach parents to resolve family problems Systems 8
9. Do you want team success? Coach team leaders and top teams ... together Systems 9
10. Do you want community? Coach community leaders and communities Systems 10
**   Do you have unusual goals? Specialty coaching & training for unusual goals Specialty

What is Hawaiian Shamanism?

One root of our systemic magic Huna 1-6

Plagiarism is theft. Copyright © Martyn Carruthers 1996-2011 All rights reserved. Soulwork Systemic Coaching was primarily developed by Martyn Carruthers
to help people dissolve emotional blocks, improve relationships and achieve goals. These concepts and strategies are for general knowledge only. Consult a physician about medical conditions and before changing medical treatment. Don't steal intellectual property ... ask for permission to post, publish or teach this work.