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Your relationship skills, your coaching and
mentoring, can last longer than your words or success. You can be
remembered for your integrity, trust, and honest communication throughout your
relationships.
From the Source of All
From potential to dynamic
LIGHT creates duality
Between the first created
Between equals for opposites
LOVE creates trinity
Three in one and one in three
Direction guides unfolding love
INTENTION creates multiplicity
Nature - the one in many
Evolution explores potential
PURPOSE creates life
Between earthly childhood
And cosmic adolescence ...
SOUL creates Mentors
“Kumulipo Fragment” © Martyn Carruthers, 2002
Any combination
of words may be used to justify freedom or bondage. You can use the same words to build
prison walls or bridges to lasting happiness. Today's truth quickly becomes
tomorrow's foolishness and my words are forever subject to your meanings. I will
choose words carefully, with a hope that you will choose meanings that
benefit you.
If you have been damaged by mentors, or by inappropriate or
toxic mentorship, you are unlikely to benefit from future mentorship until you
dissolve or heal your damage. We can help you.
You can choose to embody integrity. You can open your awareness; resolve
your blocks and fulfill your life.
You can build a bridge across the void. You can remember who you are, and wake up.
You can embody Soul and assist the paths of others. The paths are many,
the goal is One.
You cannot give, nor take, integrity as a gift, nor force it as a
command. Yet each person choosing integrity can find it, and can mentor
others. Here are some qualities of Soul Mentorship,
and tips on how you can develop these qualities.
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You, Your Cosmos and Integrity
You live in an infinite universe without center nor edge. You live in
an infinite experience of life, before thoughts, without center nor edge.
"Levels"
or "depth" of life experience are useful illusions that may reflect your
progress in mastering life challenges. An ultimate challenge
is to live with integrity.
Most people experience moments of integrity.
Maintaining or stabilizing integrity
is challenging - unresolved issues will keep most people in
duality. Living with integrity may be life's highest challenge - and the most
fulfilling path we may ever walk. Mentoring motivated people to live with
integrity is one fulfillment of happiness.
You can fixate on your own path and insist that there is no other, or
you can recognize that the paths to Soul are infinite. Integrity is
forever available to those people who choose it.
As you experience Soul, you step into a source of wordless
wisdom. Soul is beyond words, or perhaps before them. Soul can be described in
abstract paradoxes: as an ever-new primordial state; as forever stable and
forever changing; as the purpose of life and the life of purpose.
Soulwork can help you live with
integrity. When you live in integrity, neither accepting nor rejecting, you can
ruthlessly love your actions - and your consequences. You can assess whether your
actions express your love appropriately.
You can appreciate all actions as expressions of love,
regardless of consequence. You can ruthlessly love the people around you
- and the games that you and they may play. If you judge the actions of
others, you may fall into duality.
Experience Integrity
If you stabilize Soul experience, you become a Soulworker. You can
truly Soul Work. You can mentor people to live with integrity and coach people
to heal their own lives ... and help heal the lives of others.
As a Soulworker, you transcend training and philosophy.
You find refuge in integrity, in Soul. Beyond confused or selfish feelings,
you can waken, and experience a world - your life, your world, your home.
Your world is troubled. You can Soulwork.
When you merge with Soul, you can transcend sympathy and find
compassion. You may see love in all people - and all actions. You can see that
all human beings want to love and be loved and that they are desperately trying
to realize their love. You may see that they
can merge with Soul themselves, and in merging, you are never alone.
You can mentor those people who suffer in darkness. From an
infinite number of paths, you can mentor those people who long to fulfill life on
their own paths. You can bridge heaven and earth - integrating your highest ideals into
your human reality.
You can mentor with patience and gentleness, or with
arrogance and dogma. You are free to choose, and each person is free to
respond to you. As you mentor others, you may be interested in their health and
welfare, or uncaring. You can detach and isolate yourself, or you can
build deep and trusting relationships. Good mentoring
helps you learn how to better mentor others.
A dark side of mentorship is
mentor damage. Dysfunctional mentors may use
their authority to treat others like children, or use people as a testing
ground for their ideas. Toxic mentors need to influence others - often trying
to find meaning in otherwise meaningless lives. After mentor damage, people
become unable to discern who
is good for them - and who not - and avoid any form of mentorship.
Mentoring
involves mutual influence - each protégé teaches a mentor how to become a better
mentor. Mentors need feedback to develop their mentorship.
Quality mentorship helps people
transcend selfishness. People can learn humility and patience by making
decisions, accepting feedback, sometimes suffering, and learning, as we did,
about life. Wise mentors help people develop in their own time, and
offer support and encouragement.
Soul of Soulwork
Soulwork is accessible, simple and profound. In Soulwork, beyond concepts
and doubts, you can explore integrity and offer it to others. Our world needs people with discipline and strength, people who
live their "sense of life". We seek people who want to develop and mentor
others, and we seek for people who search for mentorship. We seek people to walk
beside us, whatever their race, religion or philosophy. We seek ways to express
love - and one way to express love is to accept love from others.
When you merge with Soul, you merge with those who have merged before,
human or other. You can access their wisdom and find endless visions -
including visions beyond humanity. You can complete your childhood and prepare for
maturity. You can prepare to graduate from your kindergarten and take
your place in the world. See Soul of Soulwork
Today's enlightened descriptions may be tomorrow's foolishness, and
today's crazy ideas may be tomorrow's Rainbow Bridge. Yet with
your words and with your actions, beyond philosophy and dogma, you
can manifest your integrity by helping heal this troubled planet.
Martyn Carruthers 2002
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Coaching passes on skills while mentoring passes on
wisdom. A mentor is person with whom you can discuss your relationships
and life obstacles. Mentoring develops
leadership, communication skills, builds relationships across diverse
backgrounds and enhances coaching and teaching skills.
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