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Genetic Disorders & Systemic Solutions
Intergenerational Coaching © Martyn Carruthers

Online Coaching

We offer coaching, seminars and workshops on family constellations,
learning disabilities, family secrets and relationship health.

What are Genetic Disorders?

Genetic disorders refer to physical conditions caused by mutations in a gene or a set of genes. Mutations are changes in the DNA sequence of a gene. DNA mutation can happen at any time. This risk is increased by some chemicals and by ionizing radiation. Mutations cause genes to become defective, and defective genes cause genetic disorders.

1. Chromosome Abnormalities
Segments of chromosomes are altered or missing. E.g. Down's Syndrome and Turner's Syndrome.

2. Single-Gene Disorders
The protein product of a gene is altered or missing. E.g. cystic fibrosis and sickle cell anemia.

3. Mitochondrial Disorders
Mutations in non-chromosomal DNA located in cellular mitochondria cause multiple copies of a single cell's cytoplasm to be transmitted by the mother.

4. Multifactor Disorders
Mutations in multiple genes, often from environmental causes. E.g. some heart disorders, diabetes and some cancers.

Example: Cystic Fibrosis

Cystic fibrosis is caused by a defective gene that allows organs to fill with mucus. This blocks the lungs and impedes natural infection-fighting, eventually turning the body’s immune system against its own tissue (see autoimmune). It also impairs the ability to break down foods.

A child with cystic fibrosis must inherit defective genes from both parents. About 1 in 30 people carry a single cystic fibrosis gene. The disease only occurs when both parents are carriers. The parents have a 25% risk with every pregnancy of passing two copies of the defective gene to a child.

Emotional Complications

Emotions can affect the treatment. Emotional difficulties may contribute to poor metabolic control - which can cause further problems. Our coaching can resolve many emotional factors:

  • Objections to a prescribed treatment
  • Managing moods, emotions, beliefs and stress
  • Relationships with family, friends and professionals

Relationships with families, friends and professionals

Relationships include differences and conflicts - conflicts between people are not only common but usually a sign of health, if the conflicts can be safely expressed. Conflicts and conflict management are part of all relationships.

If you have a genetic disorder, metabolic imbalances can manifest as mood swings. You may in each moment act as if your current emotion is a basis for long-term decisions. You may seem normal, yet say horrible things. You may announce spontaneous ideas as facts, or you may respond to family, friends or partner as if to strangers.

We can coach and support people to deal with strong emotions associated with drugs and medications; and can improve the quality of relationships even through difficult times.

Consult your physician about any opinions about medical symptoms, medical diagnosis, medical treatment or medical conditions.

Managing Emotions, Beliefs and Stress

  1. Depression
  2. Survivor Guilt
  3. Death and Dying
  4. Stress and Trauma
  5. Relationship Diagnosis
  6. Anger, fear and sadness
  7. Fear of complications or shortened life
  8. Beliefs about cause, seriousness, treatment effectiveness

1. Anger, fear and sadness

Anger, sadness and fear are parts of life. If people express these emotions as adults ... they can move on. If people express these emotions childishly - they can create chaos within important relationships. If people feel but do not express these emotions, they may experience unpleasant body tensions which appear to damage health. We help people express emotions appropriately.

2. Relationship Diagnosis (Suffering, Loneliness & Depression)

Our systemic coaching provides a space in which we can coach people to change beliefs which prevent or sabotage change. Examples are:

  • I want nothing to change (I am entangled)
  • Nothing can change anyway (I lack motivation)
  • I cannot make a decision (I cannot resolve conflicts)
  • I sabotage myself (I limit my opportunities for happiness)
  • I feel bad if I succeed (My family or friends do not succeed)
  • I must stay in unpleasant states (I am traumatized)
  • I follow toxic role models (I am inspired to fail)

3. Beliefs about Cause, Seriousness and Treatment Effectiveness

Beliefs about genetic disorders, their seriousness and the effectiveness or prescribed treatment can assist or detract from medical treatment. We can coach people to analyze their beliefs and replace limiting or self-fulfilling beliefs.

4. Depression, Anxiety, Guilt & Shame

People with genetic disorders, and their parents, may suffer from depression. In Soulwork Coaching, much depression is perceived as a healthy response to an unhealthy environment or to chaotic relationships. Often, the underlying issue is guilt or shame. If a person feels guilt or shame, life may not make sense, which leads to depression. Most depressive guilt and shame seem to result from:

  • Abuse, betrayal or abandonment (violating trust; for example - abandoning a child)

  • Relationship transferences (mistaking one person for another; for example - perceiving a partner as a child)

5. Fear of complications or shortened life

Fear can be appropriate motivation to improve one's lifestyle to support health. Fear can also paralyze you into acting as though death is inevitable and nothing can be done. We offer emotional coaching for unpleasant emotions.

6. Stress, Anxiety & Trauma

Emotional stress can disrupt metabolic control. Psychological trauma can accompany or follow treatment, for example after surgery. The resulting emotions can disrupt a person’s relationships, eating habits, exercise and routines, and disturb treatment. Emotional needs are important components of good health management. We can coach people to deal with the emotions associated with the risk of early death or with treatment.

7. Death and Dying

Many people diagnosed with genetic disorders die prematurely. The family, helping professionals and friends may prepare a person for this possibility - or they may avoid informing the patient. Other difficult decisions include how much psychoactive drugs (usually pain-killing opiates) to administer during a person's final hours. Our systems coaching can assist and support people to prepare for and experience the fundamental relationship between life and death.

8. Survivor Guilt

People with life-threatening diseases often form close communities; bonded by suffering and strong emotions. Survivors may ask "Why should I live and not them?" Such a crisis may expose guilt and self-esteem issues; and, if ignored, may result in chronic depression. If family members or close friends die, we can help people find a renewed sense of life.

Our coaching for people with genetic disorders can include emotional, behavioral and relationship management. We support healthy behavioral changes and increased knowledge and skills.

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Plagiarism is theft. Copyright © Martyn Carruthers 2005-2011 All rights reserved.


 

 
 

 

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We offer systemic coach training to helping professionals
and to people who want healthy relationships and happy families.

Good Questions

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1. Where are you now in your life? Assess fixations, bonds and enmeshments Systems 1
2. What do you want?  Define life goals ... and blocks to success Systems 2
3. How can you reach your goals?  Use conscious and unconscious resources Systems 3
4. Do your emotions limit you?  Dissolve abuse, trauma and mentor damage Systems 4
5. Do your beliefs block you? Change limiting beliefs to end dependence Systems 5
6. Does inner emptiness limit you? Resolve identity loss to recover qualities and skills Systems 6
7. Do you want happy partnership? Build healthy partnership (or separate peacefully) Systems 7
8. Do you want healthy children? Coach parents to resolve family problems Systems 8
9. Do you want team success? Coach team leaders and top teams ... together Systems 9
10. Do you want community? Coach community leaders and communities Systems 10
**   Do you have unusual goals? Specialty coaching & training for unusual goals Specialty

What is Hawaiian Shamanism?

One root of our systemic magic Huna 1-6

Plagiarism is theft. Copyright © Martyn Carruthers 1996-2011 All rights reserved. Soulwork Systemic Coaching was primarily developed by Martyn Carruthers
to help people dissolve emotional blocks, improve relationships and achieve goals. These concepts and strategies are for general knowledge only. Consult a physician about medical conditions and before changing medical treatment. Don't steal intellectual property ... ask for permission to post, publish or teach this work.