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Solutions for Allergies

Martyn Carruthers

We present interactive seminars and workshops on systemic family coaching, allergies & psychosomatic disease, family secrets and relationship intelligence. Are you interested?

Control Allergies without Drugs

The implications of resolving allergies without drugs may be of special interest to helping professionals, and to members of allergy counseling and support groups. We provide demonstrations and training.

Your immune system is a miracle of self-preservation. It destroys invading organisms. Sometimes, however, your immune system may attack harmless substances. You are said to have an allergy when your body is especially sensitive to an otherwise harmless substance (called an allergen).

If your body over-reacts – your immune system responds to a normally harmless substance as if it were an invading organism - perhaps producing symptoms of hay fever. And sometimes your immune system may be sensitive to some of your own tissues - see autoimmune disease.

For example, hay fever is usually caused by an allergy to one or more pollens. Many people with asthma are allergic to micro-organisms in dust, fur or feathers. Allergies produce a wide range of effects. Some people experience skin reactions from drugs, cosmetics or household cleaners.

Some people suffer stomach upsets due to food allergens such as nuts or shellfish. Some people suffer mental imbalance due to allergens in common foods such as milk or wheat. A severe allergic reaction may cause anaphylactic shock, which can be fatal.

Almost anything may be an allergen and cause allergic reactions. You may spontaneously cease to be allergic to some allergen. During hypnosis, you could be requested to imagine that an allergen is on your skin – and then you may produce an "allergic” reaction – to your thoughts. Your skin may redden and blister and your breathing may become strained.

Reprogramming your Immune System

Some people suffering from multiple-personality disorder are allergic to a certain allergen in one personality – and immune to that allergen in another. It seems that an immune system can rapidly reprogram itself. Sometimes an immune system response can change dramatically in minutes!

If you have an autoimmune disease, you become allergic to your own body. An immune response is mobilized, not against `foreign' matter, such as invading bacteria, but against your body itself. Diseases considered to have an auto-immune origin include myasthenia, rheumatoid arthritis and lupus.

Some cancers may be examples of auto-immune disease. A healthy immune system destroys cancer cells before the cancer is large enough to be clinically recognized. If a poor diet or stress impairs your immune system, auto-immune disease becomes more likely.

During our coaching, we emphasize finding the benefits of problems. The benefits of allergies can be placed into groups. Allergies seem to represent conflicts – a manifestation of an emotional “war” that you may carry within you. Some allergies help people deal with the consequences of emotional incest or identity loss, such as an inability to defend oneself.

Testimonial

After 20 years of hay fever hell, during ragweed flowering season in 2004, I attended Martyn's coaching. Now, few weeks later, although the pollen count is still high, I am without medication and without symptoms, not even occasional sneezing, outdoors or indoors - even when I spend the day in country full of flowering ragweed. Thank you Martyn. Nenad Maljkovic, Croatia

Some allergies help people get attention. Some allergies resolve the problems of abuse or trauma by allowing repressed emotions to be communicated physically, and some allergies allow a person to “follow” an unhealthy role model. (Some so-called genetic allergies may be a result of modeling. For example, a child who is allergic to the same allergen as a parent may be entangled with that parent.

Coaching & Allergies

Assume that your allergy once had some benefits. List these benefits. Write them down! List as many benefits as possible - including tiny benefits. Imagine what other benefits that your allergy could have.

As you become aware of the benefits of an allergy, you will probably feel more in-control. For example, does an allergy help you to express emotions? Does an allergy help you to set boundaries?

Soulwork Coaching helps people heal themselves! A Soulwork Coach can observe non-verbal body language, and help you recognize and dissolve incongruence and conflicts. Soulwork can help you learn from your emotions, and evaluate your life. (See Human Consciousness and Decision Making.)

Only explore your allergy if it feels safe for you to do so. Please stop, and seek professional help if you experience strong or unpleasant emotions when considering it.

Emotional Incest & Toxic Relationship Bonds

Complex conflict often reflect emotional bonds. Limiting identity beliefs (e.g. “I am bad” or “I don’t deserve anything” may replace the true identity as a basis for life. Relationship bonds allow a child to bond to important but difficult people (often a parent). We coach people to replace such bonds.

[ Emotional Incest ] [ Relationship Bonds ]

Benefits of Conflict

Conflict has benefits. People with complex conflict can often multi-track many projects, which is an asset for managers. A person with identity conflict may be bored with only one or two tasks or projects, and may provoke other people into conflict, to satisfy an inner need to express conflict.

How do you feel right now? Please continue this only if it feels right for you. Perhaps seek professional coaching if you experience strong emotions as you consider these issues.

After reconciliation, a personality part may be willing to replace the allergic reaction with something friendlier. Please be careful when testing an allergy. Do not deliberately expose yourself to allergens – continue to avoid them, and simply notice what happens if you are accidentally exposed. If your allergies have been life threatening, please continue to take appropriate precautions against exposure.

Not ALL in the Mind

A woman in mid-thirties was allergic to cigarette smoke since childhood. Being shy, she would not ask people not to smoke, but she would cough and wheeze until people around her stopped smoking. The allergy disappeared shortly after the woman dissolved an emotional bond to her father and learned to assert herself. (See Daddy's Princess)

If an allergy is due in part to relationship, family or workplace stress, or to depression (and toxic ways by which many people try to avoid depression), then systemic coaching may provide speedy relief.

An aggressive man was allergic to milk and milk products, which had caused mental confusion for many years before the allergy was recognized. (Many people diagnosed with mental illness may suffer from allergies to common foods such as wheat, potatoes etc). The allergy seemed to compensate for the man’s arrogance. As the man learned to be gentle with his friends and relatives; both his aggression and his allergy disappeared.

We can coach you to evaluate the response of your allergy to your conditions, and help you find safe ways to control allergic symptoms. We can coach you to explore which lifestyle and relationship behavior are most likely to control your allergy.

Please consult a physician about any allergies or medical conditions.

We welcome friendly people who are emotionally stable. Do you want to coach people to gain clarity, dissolve emotional and relationship blocks to success, and find their own sense of life? Do you want to help people build and maintain quality relationships? Contact us.

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Systemic 1 How to evaluate relationship dynamics and resolve entanglements
Systemic 2 How to define life goals, identify blocks, resolve objections & plan for success
Systemic 3 How to do or continue goalwork using metaphors and dream coaching
Systemic 4 How to recognize and dissolve abuse and trauma, and rebuild motivation
Systemic 5 How to change limiting beliefs and toxic relationship bonds for emotional freedom
Systemic 6 How to recognize and resolve identity loss: recover lost qualities and lost skills
Systemic 7 How to end mentor or therapist damage, and provide inspirational mentorship
Systemic 8 How to coach couples and partners to remedy partnership issues
Systemic 9 How to coach whole or parts of families to solve family blocks
Systemic 10 How to coach teams and team leaders to resolve team problems

Copyright © Martyn Carruthers 1996 - 2008 All rights reserved. Soulwork systemic coaching was primarily developed by Martyn Carruthers. We train people to coach others to manage emotions and improve relationships. This information is for your general knowledge only. Please consult a physician about medical conditions and before changing any medical treatment. Link to our pages, but get Martyn's written permission to post or publish his work.