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Develop quality coaching skills
through demonstrations, practical exercises and role-playing. Use these
advanced coaching skills with clients, friends or at work; or add these
skills to your coaching, counseling or therapeutic practice. Focus on
maturity and long-term happiness!
Lasting Happiness
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Are you in pursuit of happiness? You have probably tried
many things. And you may have been unhappy anyway. Few people seem to understand
that long term happiness is real - and needs real work. You have to set
long-term happiness goals. You have to plan. And you have to remember to be
happy.
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Lasting happiness requires that you are
comfortable with yourself and with the consequences of your decisions. Your
relationship with yourself determines how you respond to life and how you relate
or connect to everyone else. Long-term happiness is real and enduring ... fun is
a short-term distraction. Both are wonderful in their place, yet an obsession
with fun can damage chances for happiness.
If you have a good relationship with yourself,
you will see your world in a warm and positive way. If you carry guilt or avoid
solving problems, you may see your world as cold and unpleasant. Until you
change, lasting happiness may forever elude you. You may instead lose yourself
in a search for distractions.
Unhappiness is easy. Simply avoid planning and
expect others to help or entertain you. Your long-term happiness requires your
active participation. You can choose to make happiness a central part of your
life. And part of your lasting happiness may be to help other people increase
their joy of living.
Each segment of our training provides tools
and skills to dissolve or control specific blocks to happiness. Each segment is
both a stand-alone course and is fully integrated into the larger frame of a
systemic coaching diploma.
Segments of our Systemic Coaching Diploma Course
are 5 days (6 days if translation required). Each segment of this Diploma Course
is repeated every 2 years in many countries. While we recommend attending the
segments in the sequence 1 to 10, you can attend them in any sequence you
choose..
Course
Calendar
Most of our courses are 2 or 5
consecutive days, or over 2 weekends
Relationship Coaching
Here are some
tools to explore relationships:
- Note emotionally sensitive topics and habits.
- Reveal and describe your underlying emotions.
- Share feedback calmly, not in heated discussions.
- Recognize complaints, criticism, justifications and
blame.
- Separate the content of your messages from how they were
communicated.
- Put yourselves into each other's places, and try to
understand each others' viewpoints.
- Interpret what each other has communicated. Identify what
may be missing or inferred.
- Try to identify your underlying values and find how each
of you benefit from the problem.
- Check if you're more interested in blaming, punishing, or
winning than in communicating.
- Stay with a problem, watch its dynamics and follow the
fears, without trying to change it.
Loving relationships are the path and the goal of love;
and lasting love requires unusual clarity. Our Systemic Solutions help people
build bridges across forever - bridges to integrity.
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