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Systemic Solutions: Coaching Procedures
© Martyn Carruthers

Online Coaching & Mentorship

Systemic Coaching & Coach Training

We coach and train people to offer many ways to help other people resolve emotional and relationship blocks. A coach, counselor or therapist can use this methodology to quickly evaluate and select individual potential clients, identify coaching goals and help people rapidly identify and dissolve objections and blocks to their goals with systems coaching.

Systemic Coaching: Review by a Medical Doctor

Our coaching methodology can be readily assimilated into marriage counseling, psychotherapy, family therapy and systemic family therapy, to provide a deep structure and underlying models that offer spontaneous self-healing.

  • Clarification includes assessing current relationship dynamics
  • Goalwork includes relationship ecology and conflict resolution
  • Changework includes resolving relationship entanglements
  • Bondwork includes resolving abuse, trauma and poor mentorship
  • Coaching may continue with couple, team or family systemic coaching

Couple Coaching Flowchart . Family Coaching Flowchart

Coaching & Therapy

Although many coaches and therapists seem to go to great lengths to explain why they are not the other, the overlap is enormous and, given the wide ranges of application claimed by both therapists and coaches, the differences seem to be mostly semantic, often based on "We were here first!"

As people diagnosed with mental disorders may not have a right to refuse treatment, treatment of people diagnosed with mental ill health can involve force. This violates Articles 3 and/ or 8 and/ or 14 of the Europe Commission of Human Rights (ECHR) and is contrary to international human rights.

Therapy is supposed to help people avoid abstract complaints, for example, while coaching helps people achieve specific goals. Therapy is supposed to restore function while coaching plans success. Often, therapy seems preoccupied with past history, while coaching is concerned with future goals.

We coach people to get what they want. That's what we do best. And whether a person wants to build a business or to change an unpleasant emotion associated with a difficult relationship, we have a lot to offer.

With so many applications for our skills, for example, we can help businesses do effective strategic planning, help a CEO change a pattern of self-sabotage, improve the work relationship between Technical and Marketing directors who dislike each other, sort out a finance manager's workaholism and demonstrate to team leaders how to solve team problems.

During our coaching, people can discuss and explore their goals and plans, as we together search for appropriate solutions that honor and empower relationships, work and family happiness.

  • If you want personal sessions, we can help make arrangements that suit you. Or do you prefer to bring one of us to your city?
  • Telephone / Online coaching is less intense and more convenient. You pay for our time and experience (by PayPal) before you call us, and we will expect your call at the agreed time.

Our coaching is not a substitute for medical care, or for legal or financial advice

Guidelines for Systemic Coaching

Telephone / Online Coaching Private Sessions Professional Teamwork
You want to learn new skills; or you want to apply existing skills in different contexts.

You want new perspectives on life, or you want sense-of-life.

You want better relationships. You want to dissolve entanglements and bonds. You want to be happy.

You want to change or control your habits or compulsions.

Organizational coaching, for community / international projects.

You want in-house training for an organization.

You want good relationships; you want quality partnership, parenthood or leadership. You want to resolve relationship issues (Couple Coaching; Family Coaching; or Team Coaching). You want contingency planning or disaster relief.
You want success. You want to achieve personal or relationship goals at home or at work. You want to resolve codependent relationships or end long term abuse or manipulation. You want refugee management for people who are lost or disconnected.

We do not coach people to achieve goals which, in our opinion,
are criminal, unethical or that hurt children.


Coaching Manual: Flowcharts

Changework sequence <Image: Flowchart SC1>

Following systemic diagnosis, the client and coach have a complete plan for reaching the client's congruent goals. This includes reclaiming relevant identity loss, dissolving relationship bonds and limiting beliefs, reconciling unpleasant emotions and repairing damage by previous mentors / therapists / etc. This counter-intuitive flow is summarized in the next flowchart ...

 
Changework sequence <Image: Flowchart SC2>

As individual change so strongly affects partnership, teamwork and family relationships; complete individual coaching may require couple, team or family coaching. Individual coaching is often an essential part of effective couple, team or family coaching and is embedded into systemic coaching.

Some people who want individual coaching are referred to specialists, for example in law, medicine or finance. Systemic goal coaching indicates for which steps the client requires extra assistance.
 

Couple Coaching Flowchart . Family Coaching Flowchart

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We help people resolve emotional and relationship challenges.

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1. Where are you now? Assess fixations, bonds and enmeshments Systems 1
2. What do you want?  Define life goals ... and blocks to success Systems 2
3. Do you have a plan?  Use conscious and unconscious resources Systems 3
4. Do your emotions limit you?  Dissolve abuse, trauma and mentor damage Systems 4
5. Do your beliefs block you? Change limiting beliefs and end dependence Systems 5
6. Do you feel empty? Resolve identity loss to recover lost qualities Systems 6
7. Is your partner happy? Build healthy partnership (or separate peacefully) Systems 7
8. Are your children happy? Parents can resolve family problems Systems 8
9. Do you want team success? Develop team leaders and top teams together Systems 9
10. Do you want community? Coach community leaders and communities Systems 10
**   Do you have unusual goals? Specialty coaching & training Specialty

Plagiarism is theft. Copyright © Martyn Carruthers 1996-2012 All rights reserved. Soulwork Systemic Coaching was primarily developed by Martyn Carruthers
to help people dissolve emotional blocks, improve relationships and achieve goals. These concepts and strategies are for general knowledge only. Consult a physician about medical conditions and before changing medical treatment. Don't steal intellectual property ... ask for permission to post, publish or teach this work.