You Must Be Dreaming!
Dreaming Together & Dreamwork
Martyn Carruthers developed Dreamwork as part of
his systemic coaching. His Dreaming
Together was inspired by native Hawaiian healers (ho'omoe) and
Martyn's research into stable resource states and interactive isomorphic metaphors.
He used these methods to provide innovative and rapid solutions for common
problems such as post-traumatic stress
and mid-life crisis.
In traditional hypnosis, a therapist uses authority and
suggestions to change a person's perceptions and beliefs, while
that person is physically and mentally relaxed. These suggestions may be
remembered unconsciously (often called post-hypnotic suggestions) as
relationship bonds - as compulsive
behaviors and beliefs needed to sustain the relationship with the hypnotist.
In systemic coaching, we treat authority, sincerity,
suggestion and advice with a little suspicion. If a person's objections
are ignored, unhealthy consequences can follow a hypnotist's or therapist's
well-meaning suggestions.
We consider unconscious objections to be a form
of body wisdom; and we help people voice, understand and befriend their
objections. And much advice is actually criticism. Together, a systemic
coach and client can find ways to incorporate objections into healthy
decisions.
Goal Hypnosis & Spontaneous Trance
If you consider what you REALLY want - you may become
dreamy. If asked for details - you may become ... ummm ... a bit ... ahhh
... foggy. This is an example of spontaneous trance. Spontaneous
trance is so common during Goalwork that Martyn sometimes refers to it as goal hypnosis.
We utilize spontaneous trance to help people clarify steps,
untangle emotions and relationships, and to resolve unwanted behavior.
Our Dreamwork also offers help for people with
psychosomatic conditions.
Our systemic solutions increase success and
reduce suffering. As we increase success -
we increase the adaptability and survival potential of
a relationship system. Our systemic coaching includes
- Resolving guilt
- Ending fixations
- Resolving trauma
- Resolving mentor damage
- Changing relationship bonds
- Finding lost resources and abilities
We also provide training on building a successful practice
- Networking with professional peers
- Coach/client relationship and ethics
- Promoting and marketing your practice
- Every training day includes demonstrations and exercises
Overview of Dreamwork
Benefits of Dreaming Together
With our systemic coaching and coach training you can:
- Improve concentration
- Make better decisions
- Sleep and relax better
- Reduce conflict and stress
- Find a worthwhile life-mission
- Procrastinate procrastination
- Better express your emotions
- Promote health and well-being
- Quickly adapt to difficult situations
- Select life goals and plan their realization
- Dissolve conflicts, anxiety and melancholy
- Attract and maintain worthwhile relationships
- Build relationships based on long-term happiness
Dreaming Together can assist your:
- creativity
- success
- education
- mental health
- physical health
- emotional health
- business interests
Dreaming Together can help you
Shared dreams are a strong bonding force and
- strengthen self-control
- control unpleasant feelings
- intensify supportive feelings
- develop better, healthy habits
- integrate split-off parts of yourself
- gain insight into emotions and relationships
- create innovative solutions for relationships
When to Avoid Dreaming Together
We refer some people to helping professionals
who can diagnose and treat clinical issues; or you can seek a referral
from a medical doctor or psychiatrist before proceeding.
- People dealing with life-threatening diseases
- People likely to have repressed abusive memories
- People who have no friends or quality relationships
- People who appear dangerous to themselves or others
- People diagnosed with psychiatric or neurological disorders
We use the word Dreamwork to refer
to the way
we coach people during dreams and interactive metaphors, although Sigmund
Freud used the word to mean the way the unconscious mind works and
plays with us during our sleeping dreams.
Some of our goals for Dreamwork are that you develop
flexibility, responsibility and independence, and that you can ...
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delay gratification
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respond, not react
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clean up your own mess
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learn from your mistakes
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be curious and excited about life
-
respect knowledge and communication skills
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realize that people create many of their own
problems
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relax and let people find their ways of
thinking or doing things
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understand the consequences of your reactions
on other people
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realize that your emotions, thoughts and
relationships dictate your life
Dreamwork is helping
people solve complex emotional and
relationship problems during shared dreams that we dream together.
Do you want to dissolve success and
relationship issues?
Online Dreamwork Coaching & Mentorship
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