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Abuse
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Addictions

Anxiety
Beliefs

Dependence
Depression
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Eating Disorders
Emotional Maturity
Fixations
Grief & Loss
Hypertension
Identity Loss
Inner Child
Mental Illness

Pain Control
Passive Aggressive
Psychosomatic

Stress Relief
Trauma & Stress
Weight Loss

 

Relationships
Age Difference

Emotional Baggage
Emotional Blackmail
Entanglements
Healthy Relationships

Long-Distance Love
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Yoga of Relationship

 

Couples
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Age Difference
Codependence
Couple Coaching
Cross-Cultural
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Enjoy Partnership
Evaluate Partners
Partnership
Premarital
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Sexual Issues
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Family
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Coaching Children
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Parental Alienation
Past Partners

 

Life Lessons
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Patterns in Love
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A client may be an individual or a partnership, family or team. Most individual coaching is to increase individual happiness and reduces suffering. Most systems coaching increases the adaptability and survival potential of relationship systems. We embed individual coaching within systems coaching.

We help people do things better ...

By now you have probably read a lot about coaching.
You may feel confused or even irritated by all the advertisements.
Coaching is described in many different ways, often with jargon and words not in any dictionary.

To clarify, we coach people to dissolve emotional and relationship blocks.
We help people stop sabotaging themselves ... and their families.

Each of our workshops is both a stand-alone training and a part of a greater whole. Each workshop provides professional education and enjoyable learning. Each segment is full of demonstrations, exercises and useful feedback. We help people improve their coaching skills, and we coach each person to develop and progress at your own pace. See our Coaching Philosophy

Relationship coaching is more than technique and more than skill. Emotional and relationship coaching reflects who you are ... especially your maturity and integrity. We help you be your best - so that you can coach other people be their best.


It's easier for health professionals and their patients to use drugs as a substitute for change. Self-medication with alcohol or nicotine, or prescription anti-depressants and stimulants are easier than applying intelligence, focus and analytical skills to complex emotional and relationship situations. Drugs are cheaper for patients (in the short term) and more profitable for most health professionals.

But the long-term consequences of avoiding relationship problems and the side-effects of drugs are unacceptable to increasing numbers of professionals and patients.


Relationship Systems Coaching - Basics

While many of these skills are integrated into our systemic coach training, they are also available as stand-alone workshops - if you only want or need basic coaching skills.

Coaching Basics provide success coaching skills to aid people with specialized knowledge to coach, assist and train employees, colleagues, clients and customers. These are effective coaching skills for providing specialized advice or encouragement. Coaching Basics supplement systemic coach training.


Coach Training Basics I (5 days)

What is life coaching? Types of coaching. Who can be coached? Professional skills. Selecting clients. The first session. Transferences. Client records. Telephone and internet coaching. Resolving victim, helper and savior games. Getting and giving referrals. Observation tasks. Avoiding entanglements with clients. Predictable coaching challenges. Inter-session homework. Systemic coaching overview.


Coach Training Basics II (5 days)

Professional Code, Ethics, Guidelines and Standards. Coaching Agreements. Building Trust. Coaching Presence. Effective questioning and active listening. Direct and indirect communication. Creating awareness. Designing action plans. Planning and goal setting. Monitoring progress. Coaching the four major personality styles. Promoting and marketing yourself as a coach. Getting paid.

Basic Systemic Coaching Skills
Self Definition Identify and define who you are
Self Expression Identify and use your qualities
Self Expansion Expand your perspectives and recognize opportunities
Self Control Take responsibility for your future consequences
Trust Discuss difficult topics with most people
Empathy Understand other people's emotions and perspectives
Analysis Explore and integrate information from many sources
Logic Use objective and subjective data to make decisions

Peaceful, loving relationships need mature relationship skills. Many people wait and seek coaching or therapy as a last desperate attempt – after they can no longer ignore their suffering. Many people delay seeking professional help until alienation or betrayal has damaged their intimacy.

If you want to learn the most advanced coaching, our professional training offers you unique coaching skills for many applications. Develop your relationship intelligence.

Our relationship systems coaching can be integrated with executive coaching, leadership coaching, educational coaching, business coaching, cross-cultural coaching, sales coaching or life coaching.

Our systemic coaching builds upon the skills needed for individual coaching - systemic coaching requires intelligence and analytical skills including pattern recognition. (People with technical backgrounds often quickly understand, integrate and use our systemic skills.)

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Training Centers & Programs
We offer systemic coach training to helping professionals
and to people who want healthy relationships and happy families.

Good Questions

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Good Training

1. Where are you now in your life? Assess fixations, bonds and enmeshments Systems 1
2. What do you want?  Define life goals ... and blocks to success Systems 2
3. How can you reach your goals?  Use conscious and unconscious resources Systems 3
4. Do your emotions limit you?  Dissolve abuse, trauma and mentor damage Systems 4
5. Do your beliefs block you? Change limiting beliefs to end dependence Systems 5
6. Does inner emptiness limit you? Resolve identity loss to recover qualities and skills Systems 6
7. Do you want happy partnership? Build healthy partnership (or separate peacefully) Systems 7
8. Do you want healthy children? Coach parents to resolve family problems Systems 8
9. Do you want team success? Coach team leaders and top teams ... together Systems 9
10. Do you want community? Coach community leaders and communities Systems 10
**   Do you have unusual goals? Specialty coaching & training for unusual goals Specialty

What is Hawaiian Shamanism?

One root of our systemic magic Huna 1-6

Plagiarism is theft. Copyright © Martyn Carruthers 1996-2011 All rights reserved. Soulwork Systemic Coaching was primarily developed by Martyn Carruthers
to help people dissolve emotional blocks, improve relationships and achieve goals. These concepts and strategies are for general knowledge only. Consult a physician about medical conditions and before changing medical treatment. Don't steal intellectual property ... ask for permission to post, publish or teach this work.