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Training Employees & Trainer Damage
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Coaches, consultants, trainers and motivational speakers can help your organization ... or they can damage your organization. While some coaching and training offers little more than temporary disturbance, Systemic Solutions can help turn your company around.

Performance, Credibility & Leadership

Do you want to improve your organization's products or services? Your choices may include:

  • train internal coaches
  • hire external consultants
  • improve existing coaching / mentor programs

Maintaining your performance and credibility is an ongoing challenge. Your employees need to see you keeping your promises. This is part of building trust and long-term loyalty.

If you promise and don't deliver, you will get into trouble. If you say that your new concept / program / layout or management fad will save time or effort, your employees will want to believe you - the first time. If your concept fails, your employees will blame you, and may question your judgment and distrust your leadership.

If you are considering bringing in a coach, trainer or motivational speaker ... ask yourself:

  1. What do you really want?
  2. What do your employees really want?
  3. What do your boss / shareholders really want?
  4. Can you clean up any mess you create?

What do you hope for?

If you present a coach, trainer, consultant or motivational speaker to employees as a valued expert, your credibility is on the line. You create expectations ... and some people may be disappointed. Perhaps the expert offers little practical content, just the latest buzz-words and some theoretical abstractions. Or perhaps some of your employees feel manipulated, or pressured.

Read Dilbert cartoons for more about this problem. Do your staff have Dilbert cartoons on their notice boards? Do you want to be another "pointy-haired manager"? If you lose credibility - immediately work to rebuild it. We offer solutions.

You may get into trouble if you arrange coaching that does not reflect your organizational culture. For example, do you REALLY want innovative and motivated employees? Does your company REALLY want assertive and creative staff? Do your managers know how to attract, cultivate and inspire such people? Many managers want quiet, obedient, long-term employees.

Jack W. was a quiet computer programmer. His boss arranged assertiveness coaching for him and told him to attend it. Jack became not assertive but aggressive. His co-workers complained that he had become "difficult to work with". Further coaching did not undo the damage and Jack was fired.

Damage by Therapists . Damage by Mentors

Assessment & Intervention

Following coaching, training or consulting, assess the impact. Evaluate change in your employees behavior. Do their new behaviors lead to profit or loss? While you can give space for employees to learn ... you are responsible for company assets as well as human assets.

  1. Is their new behavior effective?
  2. Does their new behavior encourage teamwork?
  3. Is their new behavior safe to themselves and others?
  4. Does their new behavior have acceptable ethical or legal consequences?

1 Is their new behavior effective - or problematic?
You are wise to evaluate and to intervene before anybody is hurt. You can't always let people "learn from mistakes". Explain the potential consequences of their behavior and suggest alternatives. If possible, let your employees decide which alternative is best.

2 Does their new behavior encourage or damage teamwork?
You are wise to intervene if a team member is doing something that may cause other team members to exclude him or her from the team. Is a team member trying to take credit for a teams' work, or making other members to do their own work, or generally disturbing other team members? You can suggest alternatives and require appropriate teamwork behavior.

3 Are they using safe or unsafe solutions?
You are wise to intervene if employees are trying to solve problems, but their solutions are unsafe or are not working. Arrange coaching that works.

4 Does their new behavior have positive or negative ethical or legal consequences?
You are wise to intervene before someone does something that is illegal or unethical. Explain why the behavior is a poor choice and suggest alternatives. Let them decide which is best.

Coaching Coaches

Do you want to be a successful coach? We can coach you to add systemic coaching to your skills.

  • Show concrete results
  • Demonstrate your coaching
  • Offer experiences of coaching
  • Offer proof that you can deliver
  • Show that you understand needs
  • Show that your goals are aligned with their lives
  • Offer flexible, cost-effective and convenient steps
  • Show where people are now, and where they can be

Do you want effective internet coaching or training? Do you want to solve complex relationship problems? Do you want to coach organizations to get results?

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1. Where are you now in your life? Assess fixations, bonds and enmeshments Systems 1
2. What do you want?  Define life goals ... and blocks to success Systems 2
3. How can you reach your goals?  Use conscious and unconscious resources Systems 3
4. Do your emotions limit you?  Dissolve abuse, trauma and mentor damage Systems 4
5. Do your beliefs block you? Change limiting beliefs to end dependence Systems 5
6. Does inner emptiness limit you? Resolve identity loss to recover qualities and skills Systems 6
7. Do you want happy partnership? Build healthy partnership (or separate peacefully) Systems 7
8. Do you want healthy children? Coach parents to resolve family problems Systems 8
9. Do you want team success? Coach team leaders and top teams ... together Systems 9
10. Do you want community? Coach community leaders and communities Systems 10
**   Do you have unusual goals? Specialty coaching & training for unusual goals Specialty

What is Hawaiian Shamanism?

One root of our systemic magic Huna 1-6

Plagiarism is theft. Copyright © Martyn Carruthers 1996-2011 All rights reserved. Soulwork Systemic Coaching was primarily developed by Martyn Carruthers
to help people dissolve emotional blocks, improve relationships and achieve goals. These concepts and strategies are for general knowledge only. Consult a physician about medical conditions and before changing medical treatment. Don't steal intellectual property ... ask for permission to post, publish or teach this work.