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My colleagues and I help people resolve 'relationship entanglements'.
Entanglements reflect family disturbances, such as abortion, suicide, murder,
infidelity, premature death, incest, etc. Entanglements disturb family harmony -
they may manifest as individual illnesses, chronic emotions,
limiting beliefs and destructive relationship habits.
We help people change emotional
blocks and relationship entanglements,
develop
emotional maturity
and create healthy relationships.
Are you Ready for a New Chapter in your Life?
I assume that all members of a family seek wholeness and
justice; and that family members are enmeshed with each other's lives and
destinies. I assume that family members may identify with other family
member's pain and suffering ... especially an ancestor, a sibling, a partner
or a child ... and take on their suffering as acts of love.
People who take on other family member's suffering experience
illogical symptoms, and usually try to heal themselves. But attempted solutions
are often applied at the wrong logical level. For example, many people try to use drugs to
repair relationship problems! We work at a different level - we help people
develop and use mature relationship skills to change family habits.
Many people have entangled their lives with other people,
living or dead. Although such entanglements can manifest in many ways, we
help people develop
emotional maturity in the following steps:
- Explore and identify family goals
- Recognize and dissolve toxic mentorship
- Understand and clarify basic relationships
- Recover sense of self
- Resolve
emotional incest
- Change
toxic bonds and limiting beliefs
- Resolve consequences of unresolved abuse
- Find suitable mentors for happy families
Spirituality and Family Coaching
Spirituality can be a family resource - or a source of
family conflict. Within a family, shared spirituality can shine like a lighthouse
- helping people to grow emotionally as they grow as a family. Each family member
can be a resource for each other's development. Yet sometimes, conflicts about
spiritual dogma can tear families apart.
We help families develop a practical spirituality:
- Experience real compassion
- Feel connected to each other
- Guide younger members with integrity
- Find and clarify vision and personal mission
- Build foundations for success and leadership
- Experience connection to life and the universe
- Support community harmony and social justice
- Heal or manage emotional and physical symptoms
While most spiritual growth seems to take place
through introspection, study, prayer, meditation, compassion and service
... we help people create shifts in emotions, relationships and consciousness.
People who honor all family members seem to better
reconnect with their own lives, and clear their entanglements. By exploring and
healing the family soul they heal themselves. The Bible talks about the sins of
the fathers are visited upon the sons. Most cultures seem to have developed
traditions of honoring and propitiating dead ancestors ... to avoid
entanglements between the living and the dead.
Happiness for Couples
. Is
Soulwork "New
Age"?
Your Family is Unique!
We find that each member of a family has a role and a
purpose that no one else can fill. And as a family establishes balance
and harmony, they find the roles and purposes of each member. As they
step towards their individual and family visions, their life paths can
open in ways beyond imagination.
Ancestral entanglements often pass down through many
generations. They become family habits and beliefs, and can motivate unwanted
compulsions, beliefs, behaviors and obsessions. Many people cannot even imagine
such entanglements (I call these taboo entanglements) ... few
people can heal emotional blocks or relationship issues that they cannot
recognize.
When people realize that they're not locked into their own
obsessions and compulsions, etc, then miracles become possible. People can then
perceive family members as unique human beings who were also caught up in nets
of entanglements.
Irritation can turn into compassion as family members
understand entanglements. And, having understood the roots of their pain and
struggle it is easier to lovingly connect with them.
Temporary Family Members
If you invite us, and we agree, we can help you identify
family habits - both healthy and toxic. We can provide skills and perspective.
Results come as you and your family move toward integration and connectedness.
Sometimes, a simple relationship problem evolves into a complex maze of multiple
entanglements, offering surprising perspectives on the family and its history.
To better guide this exploration, we can become temporary family members to help
people interpret and understand how their entanglements affected their lives ...
and to find lasting solutions.
I was
skeptical about your work, but two trusted friends, who are also therapists,
suggested that I visit you, even though your underlying premises seem off-base
to me.
My experience was profound ... I still do
not agree with your beliefs but I feel incredible relief that I cannot explain.
Even stranger - my family seems to have changed. My wife is more peaceful and my
children are more playful ... it is a pleasure to go home now. |
You can guide us to guide you. Together we
can explore and strive to understand the emotional logic underlying your life
patterns ... and your relationship habits.
Integrity & Sense of Life
We help people explore and change the conscious
beliefs and unconscious bonds that produce unwanted limitations.
We help people replace limiting beliefs with beliefs that support balance
and harmony - moving towards a liberating experience of "Finally
... my family makes sense"!
Meaning of Life
. Soul Mentorship
Transformation
Few people can fully disconnect from their families or
from their family legacy - their lives are tied to the well-being of other
family members ... the living, the missing and the dead. We help
people explore their individual goals and individual suffering in the
context of their relationship entanglements.
Again and again we find that the pain and suffering of
family members affect other family members, even across generations. We help
people resolve the consequences - the beliefs, attitudes and
habits - of these bonds and entanglements
Some of these changes may be subtle and some dramatic,
although each provides opportunities for personal responsibility, family
integrity and community development.
Do you seek lasting peace from
emotional blocks and relationship issues?
We help people enjoy practical applications of spiritual principals
in everyday life.
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