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Are you entangled in difficult
relationships or painful emotions? Do you suffer from old trauma?
Do you suffer from your parents' drama, your partner's demands, your
boss's moods? We can help you untangle your life ... and you can help
other people reclaim their freedom. Contact us.
Soulwork Approach to Systemic Family Therapy
Our approach integrates many
approaches while stepping onto new ground. We
offer the convenience of an overall sequence that is both simple and
profoundly deep. Utilizing a psychodynamic model of rapid relationship
diagnosis, it combines experiential mini-interventions reminiscent of the
Gestalt approach. Our work reflects elements of Virginia Satir's questioning,
Gregory Bateson's work with schizophrenia, Bert Hellinger's Family
Constellations, Frank Farelly's Provocative Therapy
and Victor Frankl's Logotherapy - within
a solution-focused frame.
We differ to other approaches by our focus
on integrity. This focus is supported by our unique
systemic diagnosis and ways to quickly dissolve unwanted
transferences, identity loss, bonds and trauma. With
integrity, we can can quickly defuse many toxic
relationship situations.
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Relationship Diagnosis ] [
Emotional Maturity ] [ Family
Coaching ]
Integrity
Integrity, in our systemic coaching, is described as an
transcendent experience of integration and connectedness. Experiences of integrity are a
primary systemic coaching goal, as these experiences will enable a rapid dissolution
of transferences, bonds and trauma.
- The phenomena of transference is
applied to dissolve six forms of mistaken
identity that lead to unjustified irritation and anger
- Relationship bonds represent
beliefs that compel compliant behavior
- Brief
trauma resolution may
precipitate relationship problems.
Our Systemic Coaching is primarily for motivated and
responsible adults who can consider the benefits and consequences of actions
or lack of action - and then make decisions. It is not for brain damaged,
dysfunctional or immature people.
[ Therapeutic
Coaching> ] [ Coaching
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Individual Flowchart ]
Systemic Family Coaching in Therapy: Flowcharts
We
offer people a series of choices; with estimates of time and the likely
consequences of those choices. Each client can choose solutions from the
available coaching contracts. The flowchart
offers an overview of the evaluation phase of systemic family coaching applied
to family therapy.
| Phase 1 Family Coaching Flowchart image_1.jpg |
During phase 2 of our systemic coaching, each member of the family is offered
choices for how to continue. The resulting discussion allows a family
to formulate their unique solutions to resolve their problems and to
reach their goals.
| Phase 2 Family Coaching Flowchart
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Phase 3 of our systemic coaching allows each member of a family system to evaluate and change
the structure of family and external relationships.
| Phase 3 Family Coaching Flowchart
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Relationship Coaching ...
Systemic Coach Training ...
Your Next Step
Do you want relationship coaching or systemic coach training?
We can train you to coach individuals, couples and teams to
resolve a wide range of complex relationship challenges.
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