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Are you entangled in difficult
relationships or painful emotions? Do you suffer from childhood trauma?
Do you suffer from your parents' drama, your partner's moods, your
children's demands? Our Systemic Solutions can help you untangle
your life ... and you can help people reclaim their freedom.
Do you enjoy solving problems?
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Personal Development |
Specialty Training |
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Do you want to do something truly worthwhile?
You can help people solve emotional and relationship blocks to
happiness and success - and build a second income.
This is especially appropriate
for therapists, counselors, etc
You can learn systemic coaching in
eight 5-day workshops.
Overview of Coach Training |
Do you want to improve your communication and
relationship skills at home and at work?
We can help you increase your freedom from
entanglements and relationship habits.
We can help you sort out some personal issues during demonstrations and exercises.
For rapid personal development ...
Relationship Skills
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Do you want to help people
in special situations?
Do you want to help people deal with issues such as
abortion,
adoption,
compulsions etc.
Or you perhaps you want to be a
coach supervisor or trainer?
Most specialty coaching workshops are 2 to 5-days.
Specialty
Training |
[ What does this cost? ]
Our systemic coach training is based on integrity and competence.
We train you to coach people to re-evaluate their goals, relationships and relationship
goals. Our systemic relationship coaching helps people provide effective coaching while
avoiding codependence and other entanglements.
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Is this you? |
- Do you want to help people - or to help yourself?
- Do you want to enjoy building success?
- Do you want to enjoy your own development?
- Are you friendly, and motivated to help people?
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Your next steps |
- Get systemic coaching - experience the benefits of coaching
- Compare Soulwork training to other coach training schools
- Consider organizing systemic coach training in your area
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And then |
- Attend systemic coach training
- Find simple and cost effective ways to share your skills
- Learn how to set up, market and provide systemic coaching
- Improve your communication and your relationships
- Add systemic coaching to your professional skills
- Consider offering an essential coaching service
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Learn each step and how it fits into the overall model.
Watch demonstrations and practice those skills. Discuss what happened and what could have
happened. You can learn very quickly this way.
Solve what stops people solving
problems
Do you want practical training? Learn how to help
people plan
coaching sessions, how to make coaching contracts,
how to clarify difficult relationships; how to resolve guilt and conflicts; how to control
obsessions and end compulsions; how to change toxic relationships and limiting beliefs;
how to deal with trauma and how to provide appropriate mentorship.
Advanced & Specialty Training is available.
In systemic coaching, your real clients are often
relationship systems such as partnerships, families and teams. Coaching individuals
is about individual success. Coaching human systems is about systemic success
- about increasing the adaptability and survival potential of relationship systems.
We show you how you can embed individual coaching within systemic coaching
in your chosen specialty.
- Grow, learn and evolve - identify your vocation and
resolve your blocks and issues
- Discover who you are - better define your life purpose
and occupational goals
- Become the best that you can be - get the best training
and mentors
- Honor your goals and the needs of our world - choose your
specialties
- Specialize in your chosen fields - develop yourself, your
products and services
- Continue to grow, learn and evolve as you create a life
worth living
Our systemic coach training can help you
develop your skills in planning,
assessing and implementing systemic changework with individuals, couples,
families and groups. Develop your skills in courses of increasing depth,
that follow the sequence of our systemic coaching.
- How success, health and relationships are interconnected
- How relationships evolve in a hierarchy of relationship types
- How to quickly assess relationship health and habits
- How to make fast relationship diagnosis as part of a coaching plan
- How to create and interpret a relationship matrix (family map)
Learn how to recognize relationship chaos and clarify transferences. How to stay
resourceful in chaos. How to recognize
emotional incest and
codependence. How to
dissolve entanglements
and damaged relationships with parents, partners and children.
How to select exercise partners and choose clients.
Few people know what they want.
More people know what they don't want, or what they should want, or have
an abstract goal direction. Most people object to and sabotage their own goals.
Many people
have inner conflicts about their own success.
Learn how to recognize and respond to verbal and non-verbal objections.
Learn goal diagnosis and whole-brain planning. Learn how to dissolve
"Yes-No" and "Yes-but" objections in ordinary conversation.
Explore proven ways to coach people to use both conscious and unconscious
resources to make effective plans for action plans.
Learn to recognize and utilize spontaneous trance; changing
reality using isomorphic and interactive metaphors
(dreaming together). Learn how to
rapidly identify and dissolve conflicts and how to
coach people to make decisions. This also helps you coach people to end
nightmares or recurring dreams.
Recognize and dissolve common blocks to coaching and identify which
clients cannot benefit from coaching. Learn advanced coaching - how people can
use transcendental states, and experience integrity. Learn how to stabilize an experience
of integrity as a basis for dissolving
emotional incest,
relationship bonds and
trauma, etc.
Systemic 4: Abuse, Trauma & PTSD
Many people who do not achieve their goals carry unresolved and often
forgotten trauma. Until these trauma are resolved, these people may act
childishly in situations requiring maturity. They will likely sabotage
themselves, damage their relationships and continually fail in important tasks.
The consequences of trauma and
PTSD may be contextual, (e.g. a phobia) or existential (all
of life). Trauma may create the identity issues of
Systemic 4 and
relationship bonds (see Systemic 5).
Attempts to resolve trauma without resolving
identity issues and relationship beliefs provide only short-term
benefits at best. Our systemic coach training provides effective skills.
- recognize and dissolve the consequences of emotional trauma
- recover lost or hidden resources - for the long-term
- transform limiting emotions into profound motivation
- dissolve trauma about disease and health issues
Many people feel "bonded" to repeat actions that they would
prefer to avoid. Compulsions and obsessions often reflect
relationship bonds
- deep limiting beliefs that pervade all parts of life. Explore
their deep structure as you learn
how to end relationship damage and help people improve their lives.
In Systemic 5 you can learn how to:
- recognize seven types of relationship bonds
- coach people to identify bonded relationships
- limit the consequences of relationship bonds
- replace toxic bonds with peaceful self-esteem, freedom and love
Many people suffer existential (all life) blocks against happiness;
and endless goal coaching cannot help them find meaningful goals. This includes
people who have lost themselves (identity
loss), and people who have identified with others
(identification).
In Systemic 6 you can
learn how to explore the varieties of identity
loss and effective ways for restoring personal integrity with systemic
relationship coaching and interactive metaphors. You will witness many
demonstrations with real issues, and you will practice to
build your experience:
- Lost Identity (person lives in endless dissociation)
- Identity Conflict (person lives in endless conflict)
- Dead Person Identification (person lives in endless sadness or melancholy)
- Victim Identification (person lives in endless anger or rage)
- Hero Identification (person lives in endless fear or anxiety)
Extreme identity loss maybe diagnosed as a mental disorder. Our coach
training addresses
relationship bonds and emotional trauma. Together, Systemic 4, 5
and 6, are a basis for resolving complex relationship entanglements
that can cause depression,
bipolar disorder and
anxiety disorders.
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Systemic Coach Training 6 |
Another fine piece of the complex and
comprehensive system called Soulwork. I hope that Soulwork develops and spreads,
so that it can help people to fulfill their lives.
Professor Martin mid, (PhD, Prague)
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Systemic 7:
Inspiration & Mentorship
Learn how to evaluate and replace toxic role models and mentors.
Help people choose inspirational mentors in all parts of life. Learn
how to model and duplicate expert behavior, focusing on problem solving
techniques. Learn how to mentor people to build and fine-tune life-fulfilling goals.
Systemic 7 coach training includes ways to dissolve the consequences of inappropriate
mentorship from cults and cult-like organizations (see
Exit Coaching), incompetent
therapists and well-meaning friends. (The consequences of such relationship
damage can pervade all parts of people's lives.)
- coach people to recognize and dissolve therapy damage
- expert modeling of conscious and
unconscious strategies
- compare and fine tune unconscious strategies
- find coaching solutions for many sexual issues
- how to start a systemic coaching practice
Learn how to coach couples or partners to solve emotional issues (often
involving parents or past partners) that prevent them from solving their
day-to-day problems and challenges.
Coach partners to coach each other! Coach couples to increase love and resolve
complaints. Dissolve transferences (mistaking a partner for someone else) and
projections (pretending to be someone else).
Coach couples to prepare for committed partnership,
end relationship damage and, sometimes, coach couples to separate peacefully.
Conjoint (simultaneous) coaching is the start of true systemic coaching.
Do you know how to build trust and intimacy? Can you improve your
friendships? Coach people to balance acceptance and change, as they decrease
reactivity, withdrawal and defensiveness.
How to repair relationship damage and heal wounds.
How to fight fair and avoid destructive ways of handling conflict.
- how to prepare for couple coaching & divorce coaching
- how to quickly uncover partnership issues
- how and when to provide individual coaching to one partner
- how to resolve transferences and core transference loops
- how to set homework for couples
[ Systemic
9 - Family Coaching . Systemic 10 - Team
Coaching . What does it cost? ]
After graduation, you can do what you choose with your time
and your skills. Do you enjoy coaching and you offer effective skills and you
gain valuable life experience providing it? Perhaps start private coaching, or
perhaps use your coaching skills in your current occupation. Most of us want to
develop ourselves while being of service - helping people as we align our life
skills with our passions.
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2000, 2008 All rights reserved.
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