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Relationship Coaching & Mentorship
by Martyn Carruthers

Would you like to benefit from our experience?

We offer coaching, training and workshops on family harmony,
happiness, resolving family chaos and relationship bonds.

Relationships Under Attack

Have you been besieged by conflicting, contradictory and useless relationship advice since your early childhood? In many countries, family mentorship is being replaced by television. Poor relationship advice can seriously harm your relationships and your chances of long-term happiness.

Most advice is actually criticism. Good relationship coaching and quality mentorship can change your relationship habits; in your partnership, your family, your teams and your community. Quality coaching can help you dissolve trauma, entanglements and codependence.

Space for Love . Entanglements . Codependence

Important Relationship Coaching Questions

  1. Can systemic coaching really improve your relationships?
  2. How can we coach your relationships?
  3. Who provides relationship coaching?
  4. Is one relationship coach as good as another?
  5. How can good relationship coaching benefit you?
  6. Should you guess about your relationship problems?
  7. Is relationship coaching a wise investment?
  8. What problems can you dissolve with a good relationship coach?

Relationship Coaching Answers

1. Can systemic coaching really improve your relationships?
Yes. Good coaching focuses on goals and results, rather than just talking about problems. Effective telephone coaching supports you to evaluate and change your everyday life. Your decisions and subsequent actions are needed for your success.

Your results depend on you. No tricks will automatically improve your relationships. A coach will not solve your problems for you, or stop you feeling depressed about depressing situations. A good coach can help you define your goals and find steps to fulfill them. Happiness requires participation!

2. How can we coach your relationships?
A good relationship coach provides results. You can learn how to change your relationship behavior to build long-term happiness. While some conditions change with each relationship, people who use proven relationship skills can improve the quality and quantity of their relationships.

3. Who provides relationship coaching?
Many people offer relationship coaching, marital counseling, couple therapy etc. Your decisions about your relationship coaching may depend on:

  • How are your current relationships?
  • What are your relationship goals?
  • What is your relationship history?
  • How important is relationship happiness to you?
  • How are your finances?
  • Do you look at coaching as a luxury or as an investment?

4. Is one relationship coach as good as another?
No. The quality of relationship coaches vary. Check a coach's age, experience and proven results. Many young, single people call themselves "partnership coaches" etc, with minimal experience in commitment, parenthood or dedicated teamwork.

Find coaches who walk their talk - many just mumble their stumble!

5. How can good relationship coaching benefit you?
A good coach can help you diagnose and clarify your problems, clarify your goals, improve your skills, change your beliefs, dissolve your conflicts, resolve your transferences, dissolve your entanglements, encourage your decisions, ...

6. Should you guess about solving your relationship problems?
Poor coaching focuses only on symptoms. Good coaching can show you how to identify the underlying causes of your problems and how to resolve or control them.

7. Is quality relationship coaching a wise investment?
Much relationship coaching appears to lack value, yet may be better than nothing. Many coaches over-use simple questions and avoid complex relationship issues. Many coaches are young and single people who do not appreciate the challenges of long-term relationships.

You can best benefit best from coaches and mentors who are trained and experienced in many forms of relationships - including at least family, team, couple, parenthood and community coaching.

8. What problems can a relationship coach dissolve?
Besides personality evaluation and relationship diagnosis, a good relationship coach or mentor can coach responsible, motivated people to sort out:

  • Family entanglements, transferences, projections and guilt issues
  • Relationship diagnosis: planning and skill deficiencies
  • Relationship decisions; simple and complex conflicts
  • Issues about morals, ethics and integrity
  • Family and societal influences (limitations on happiness)
  • Past and present relationships (confusion of relationship types)
  • Emotional trauma (often a source of anger, sadness and fear)
  • Poor quality advice (from parents, friends, teachers, etc)
  • Codependence and emotional incest with relatives
  • Dealing with past partners

Emotional Incest . Predictable Partnership

Systemic Relationship Coaching

Our relationship coaching can help you create and maintain happy relationships. After listening carefully to your complaints, your coach can help you turn your life around. Do you want an experienced coach to help you achieve your dreams?

  • Time-limited coaching for relationship issues
  • We can provide you with a helping hand - or a helping foot!
  • Long-term relationship coaching and mentorship for life issues
  • We can help you master difficult situations such as birth, sickness, death and divorce

Would you like to benefit from our experience?

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Systemic Coach Training

Systems 1 How to evaluate relationships and recognize common entanglements
Systems 2 How to define life goals, and identify blocks, objections & conflicts
Systems 3 How to continue goalwork using interactive metaphors and Dreamwork
Systems 4 How to dissolve the consequences of abuse and trauma and rebuild motivation
Systems 5 How to change limiting beliefs and codependence for emotional freedom
Systems 6 How to recognize and resolve identity loss: recover lost qualities and lost skills
Systems 7 How to heal therapist or spiritual damage and provide inspirational mentorship
Systems 8 How to coach partners to build lasting happiness (and to separate peacefully)
Systems 9 How to coach parents to resolve family problems
Systems 10 How to coach team leaders and teams ... together
Systems 11 How to coach community leaders and communities
Specialty Advanced workshops and specialty training tailored to your goals

Copyright © Martyn Carruthers 1996-2010 All rights reserved. Soulwork Systemic Coaching was primarily developed by Martyn Carruthers. We coach and train people to define and achieve goals, to resolve emotional blocks and to improve relationships. This information is for your general knowledge only. Please consult a physician about medical conditions and before changing any medical treatment. You must get Martyn's written permission to post or publish his work.