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Relationship Intelligence involves understanding yourself and others
and applying that understanding to build better relationships.
Are
getting what you need in your relationships?
Relationship Intelligence and Systemic Coaching
Through our coaching, we help people understand their
motivations, their behaviors and their impact on other people. Then they can
make better choices towards fulfilling their relationship goals.
As people gain skill at making relationship choices and
achieving relationship goals, they increase their relationship intelligence. Two
applications of relationship intelligence are happiness and success. Other applications are:
- Recognize identity loss
- Identify relationship strengths
- Identify behaviors that indicate conflict
- Set partnership, team and family goals
- Recognize what really motivates people
- Identify the basis and consequences of conflict
- Find long-term solutions for interpersonal
conflict
- Check if your behavior is achieving your
relationship goals
Relationship Intelligence
Relationship intelligence is much more than being polite.
Relationship intelligence requires observation and focus. Relationships are
contact sports ... and sometimes contact sports include injuries.
Some relationships require mental, emotional or physical diseases. Without these symptoms,
balance would be lost and the relationships would
dramatically change. If the conscious awareness of a need for a disease would threaten
important relationships, that awareness is hidden - it becomes taboo.
To avoid such
awareness, many people distract themselves from acknowledging their
relationship constraints or deliberately avoid healthy relationships. Two common causes (but not the only causes) may be to avoid being
happier than a parent or to symbolically bring a rejected person back
into the family.
Each member of a human system has a role and purpose. As a system establishes balance
(homeostasis) and harmony, each member finds roles and purposes. As each member fulfills their individual
roles and systemic purposes, their paths can blossom into happiness and satisfaction.
We train people to:
- evaluate and clarify relationships and
entanglements
- define goals, resolve objections and plan for
success
- end self-criticism and inner conflict to recover
integrity
- recover identity loss; missing qualities,
expertise and skills
- dissolve relationship bonds for healthy
relationships
- dissolve emotional trauma and rebuild motivation
- end mentor damage and find inspirational mentorship
- coach couples and partners
- coach teams and team leaders
- coach whole families
Our coach training can be used as a basis for executive coaching,
leadership coaching, educational coaching, business coaching, cross-cultural coaching,
refugee coaching, sales coaching, therapeutic coaching or personal coaching.
Coaching Teenagers
. Coaching Young Adults
. Coaching Older Clients
Systems Coaching for Partnership
Key ingredients of good partnership include understanding, love, acceptance,
gratitude, responsibility and teamwork. Our individual coaching
can help you solve individual issues and prepare for happy partnership. Systemic
couple coaching can help you resolve partnership problems, while systemic
family coaching can help you solve problems with children,
in-laws, and other family challenges.
Do you stay in a partnership out of despair and depression?
Do you feel trapped? Do you pray for your partner to change? Do you consider
or try sexual affairs? Do you hope to be rescued? Or do you want to change your
relationship habits and build your partnership on
integrity for lasting happiness?
Couple
Coaching Flowchart & Testimonial .
Couple Communication Exercises
Your good intentions may not survive your partnership challenges.
We can coach you to evaluate and change your relationships - and your
relationship habits. We can help you and your partner express your love,
build your commitment and share your partnership skills.
We can help you understand and validate each other's history,
perspectives, beliefs and values, as a basis for a caring relationship
which supports you both. We coach partners to coach each other.
Enjoying
Partnership .
Systemic Couple Coaching .
Death of a Partnership
Relationship Coaching & Relationship Intelligence
Do you need special training to provide systemic coaching? Yes; our training builds on the skills of individual coaching.
The keys are intelligence, analytical skills and an ability to recognize patterns.
My entire family died in an accident.
I lived my life on their graves, guilty I was still alive.
You helped me respect and thank my family ... and move on.
Our coach training offers you relationship insights and skills for many applications.
Develop
your relationship intelligence and your ability to fulfill relationship goals.
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