Are you entangled in difficult
relationships or painful emotions? Do you suffer from old abuse?
Do you suffer from your parents' drama, your partner's demands, your
boss's moods? We can help you untangle
your life ... and you can help other people reclaim their freedom. Contact us.
From Grief & Loss To Hope & Renewal
Grief is a reaction to loss that can damage your
sense of life.
Sooner or later you will lose important things and important
people. Bad things can happen to good people and bad things can happen to you.
Insurance doesn't cover everything. You probably don't love people and forget them. A serious
illness, an unfortunate accident, a poor investment - stuff happens.
A significant loss may trigger overwhelming unpleasant
emotions, disrupt your everyday life and cause long term problems. You may
experience loss as you age. You will lose some of your mental and physical
resources and maybe some body parts. Before you die physically, you may die emotionally.
But death isn't the only thing that can kill you. Maybe
you will seek oblivion in alcohol or with a needle. Maybe you will consider
suicide. We hope that you will recover, while we know
that many don't.
A heavy sense of loss often follow the loss of a precious
person, the loss of a pet or an
abortion. If an important person dies or leaves
you, you grief may be intense. But despite any loss, you can recover hope
and you can regain your
sense of life. Systemic coaching can help you, at your own speed, reclaim your
sense of life after a major loss.
Silent Conspiracy
Can you talk about your loss with your family
and friends? Or do you all avoid talking about losses? Do you also avoid
talking about your feelings? Do you try to medicate them away? Do you try to endlessly
distract yourself? What do you do? Does hope seems like a distant mirage?
Each loss brings a potential for
growth, insights, understanding and hope. Can you see see that far ahead
when you're experiencing grief? Can you focus on renewal? See
emotional outbursts
Grieving Loss
Although you may grieve the loss of a home or a car or a boat,
your greatest grief will usually concern the loss of important people with
whom you shared life experience. This shared life may
be more important than whether or not you liked this person.
- Loss of a family member - a parent or sibling ... or a
mentor
- Loss of a friend - someone you could share
life experiences with
- Loss of a colleague or team member - someone
you worked with
- Loss of a partner - someone you shared life
happiness with
- Loss of a child - someone you created or adopted ... or a
pet animal
- Loss of a community - a neighborhood or a workplace
that you left ... or that left you
Coaching, Grief & Recovery
After the acute stage of grief, listening ears, caring hearts
and support may disappear. You may feel alone with your loss. Our unique
systemic coaching offers you a safe space for understanding your life.
Coping with a death in the family is one of the
most difficult challenges that you and your children will ever undertake. A
parent coach and grief coach can help you take care of yourself while
simultaneously providing support and caring for your children following a death
in the family.
Systemic coaching CAN help you:
we can listen to your story objectively and
without judgment
- we can help you choose changes you may want
to make
- we can support you through the changes you
choose
we can help you make sense of your experience
- we can help you manage
emotional outbursts
- we can help you find additional resources
we can help you regain perspective
we can help you rebuild your life
Your next steps?
Your next steps depend on your desires and goals, and may
depend on what you have lost. Do you want another child, another partner,
another workplace? How can we help you? Do you want to:
- Explore and select the next steps of your life path?
- Find and focus on a meaningful life project?
- Find a hopeful, future-oriented perspective?
- Learn how to manage your emotions?
- Or maybe you have a better idea?
Please consult
a physician about any opinions or recommendations about
medical conditions.
Relationship Coaching ...
Systemic Coach Training ...
Your Next Step
Do you want relationship coaching or systemic coach training?
Do you want to coach people to resolve relationship challenges?
Do you want to coach people to fulfill their dreams? Contact us.
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Health Coaching and
Relationship Management