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We offer coaching and training on systems coaching,
family constellations
and
resolving family problems.
Family Systemic Coaching
Every family must cope with problems. Premature
deaths, lost family members, accidents and other injustices will happen.
These and similar events can not only impact the daily life of all
family members, they can influence a family for generations.
Family systems include feelings and emotions,
and pleasure and pain, and are strongly affected by perceptions of justice.
The exclusion of one or more family members may not only hurt and humiliate
those being rejected. Other members of a family, perhaps in the next
generation, will respond and try to bring back the missing family members,
either by adoption or marriage, or by expressing the emotions and feelings
of the missing members.
Soulwork systemic coaching can help you explore how
these systemic events affect your physical and mental health, your susceptibility to
disease, and deaths, accidents or loss that seem to be repeated in each
generation. The profound Soulwork perspective offers you many opportunities to
understand yourself as well as your family relationship dynamics.
You can prevent unpleasant events and tragedies being
repeated by your children - and by their children. You can end and prevent
cross-generational family entanglements.
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Medical Doctor's Perspective .
Identifications
Soulwork Systemic Coaching
Systems coaching is not only for people with problems. Most human behavior is influenced and maintained by the way members
of a system interact. Systems coaching can help individual members
or a whole family. It can diagnose and offer ways to change how people
behave in families and how families behave in communities. Optimistic and
dynamic, systemic coaching fits your changing world.
- Couple Coaching: achieve
partnership goals and resolve complaints that do not require the
acceptance, approval or permission of other people.
- Individual Coaching learn skills for Success, Health Coaching
and Therapeutic Coaching, etc.
- Family Coaching learn skills for Parenthood,
Family Disease, Learning Disabilities, etc
- Corporate Coaching skills for management and negotiations; Team Leadership
coaching.
- Community Coaching
and Trainer Training are also available.
Partnership .
Predictable Partnership .
Evaluating Partnership
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Most remedial approaches deal only with symptoms, and not with
systemic roots. Following such interventions, the system renews the
symptom or creates another, continuing to express the dysfunction.
People can be ill from the same illness repetitively, or from
successive similar diseases. Systemic coaching resolves the
fundamental imbalance; until the symptom spontaneously disappears.
Rooted in relationships are: physical illnesses,
compulsive-addictive behavior, mental blocks and repetitive life
crises. Ana Pejcinova, PhD, Soulwork Coach |
Family Coaching Resources
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Systemic Family Coaching
Some questions throughout Family Systemic Coaching are:
- How close are your family members now?
- What do you want your family to do together?
- How do you want to improve family happiness?
- What would empower all of you?
- What could stop you being happy together?
Exploring and answering these questions allows you and your
family to re-evaluate the situation. The questions may seem
one-dimensional and simple ... yet your answers to these questions will likely be
multi-dimensional and profound.
If one partner wants to change the other partner's perspectives,
habits, beliefs or values - coaching helps the partners integrate both partner's goals,
while learning how to exist independent of external manipulative or coercive
behavior. Partners can reach their goals - together.
Helping professionals can help families
resolve family chaos using systemic coaching. Appropriate solutions for
systemic problems are found in our systemic coach training and home-study courses.
Systemic Coach Training .
Home-Study
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Systemic Food for Thought |
'The
family system is an idea that may have taken us all off track. It
is far better to do away with the concept of the family system to which
the treating professional is as active a contributor as anyone else. We
would then not say the system creates the problem, but that the problem
creates the system. In other words, a problem does
not exist independently of the "observing systems" that are reciprocally
and collectively defining the problem.'
Boscolo et al,1987
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Changing Families
To change your family behavior, first perceive all family problems and
resources as aspects of family relationships. Avoid blaming anybody. Create
opportunities for shared responsibility in all relationships. Develop self-esteem and
healthy behavior, and consequently, healthy relating.
You can promote family health:
- Build acceptance, trust, empathy and compassion
- Listen, respect and clarify communications
- Respond appropriately to perceptions and
feedback
- Dissolve conflicts and find family integrity
(family spirit)
- Dissolve toxic relationship bonds
- Dissolve family trauma
- Provide or find healthy role models
Members of families, teams, organizations and
communities are connected with each other, both with those present and those who
have left. The healing effects of systemic coaching continue to unfold as you
honor those who have belonged to your family or team, respecting their fates and
their burdens.
Coaching Teenagers .
Coaching Young Adults .
Coaching Older Clients
We help people heal relationship
habits of family members within a family system. We can provide
ongoing coaching, evaluation and feedback. The effects are immediate - and
unfold over generations.
Would you like to
benefit from our experience?
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