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We offer coaching and training on systems coaching,
family constellations
and
resolving family problems.
Systemic Family Coaching
Every family must cope with problems. Premature
deaths, lost family members, accidents and other injustices will happen.
These and similar events can not only impact the daily life of all
family members, if handled poorly they can adversely influence a family for generations.
Families are not only people - families include feelings and emotions,
pleasures and pains. Families are strongly affected by behaviors and perceptions of justice.
The exclusion of one or more family members may not only hurt and humiliate
those being rejected - other members of a family, perhaps in the next
generation, will respond and try to bring back the missing family members,
either by adoption or marriage, or by expressing the emotions and feelings
of the missing members.
We help people explore how
unjust events affect their health, susceptibility to
disease, and deaths, accidents or loss that seem to be repeated in each
generation. The profound perspective offers many opportunities for motivated
adults to
understand themselves as well as their relationship dynamics.
You can help prevent unpleasant events and tragedies of your
ancestors being
repeated by your children - and by their children. You can end and prevent
cross-generational family entanglements.
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Our Offer
Our coaching is not just for people with problems. Most human behavior is influenced and maintained by
relationships - by the way people interact. We help individual members
or a whole families - exploring and finding ways to change how people
behave in families and how families behave in communities. Optimistic and
dynamic, our systemic coaching fits your changing world.
- Couple Coaching: achieve
partnership goals and resolve complaints that do not require the
acceptance, approval or permission of other people.
- Individual Coaching learn skills for Success, Health Coaching
and Therapeutic Coaching, etc.
- Family Coaching learn skills for Parenthood,
Family Disease, Learning Disabilities, etc
- Corporate Coaching skills for management and negotiations; Team Leadership
coaching.
- Community Coaching
and Trainer Training are also available.
Partnership .
Predictable Partnership .
Evaluating Partnership
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Most remedial approaches deal only with symptoms, and not with
systemic roots. Following such interventions, the system renews the
symptom or creates another, continuing to express the dysfunction.
People can be ill from the same illness repetitively, or from
successive similar diseases. Systemic coaching resolves the
fundamental imbalance; until the symptom spontaneously disappears.
Rooted in relationships are: physical illnesses,
compulsive-addictive behavior, mental blocks and repetitive life
crises. Ana Pejcinova, PhD, Soulwork Coach |
Some of our Family Coaching Resources
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Family Coaching
Some questions we often ask during our family coaching are:
- How close are your family members now?
- What do you want your family to do together?
- How do you want to improve family happiness?
- What would empower all of you?
- What could stop you being happy together?
Exploring and answering these questions allows you and your
family to re-evaluate the situation. The questions may seem
one-dimensional and simple ... yet your answers to these questions will likely be
multi-dimensional and profound.
If one partner wants to change the other partner's perspectives,
habits, beliefs or values - our coaching can help the partners integrate both of
their goals, while learning how to exist independent of external manipulation or coercion. Partners can reach their goals - together.
Helping professionals can help families
resolve family chaos ... we offer appropriate solutions for
systemic problems in our systemic coach training and home-study courses.
Systemic Coach Training .
Home-Study
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'The
family system is an idea that may have taken us all off track. It
is far better to do away with the concept of the family system to which
the treating professional is as active a contributor as anyone else. We
would then not say the system creates the problem, but that the problem
creates the system. In other words, a problem does
not exist independently of the "observing systems" that are reciprocally
and collectively defining the problem.'
Boscolo et al,1987
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Changing Families
We help families change relationship habits. We perceive most family problems and
resources to be aspects of family relationships. We don't blame anybody. We create
opportunities for shared responsibility. We help members develop self-esteem and
responsibility, and consequently, healthy relationship habits.
How to promote family health:
- Dissolve family trauma
- Dissolve toxic relationship bonds
- Provide or find healthy role models
- Listen, respect and clarify communications
- Build acceptance, trust, empathy and compassion
- Respond appropriately to perceptions and
feedback
- Dissolve conflicts and find family integrity
(family spirit)
Members of families, teams, organizations and
communities are connected with each other, both with those present and those who
have left. The healing effects of systemic coaching continue to unfold as you
honor those who have belonged to your family or team, respecting their fates and
their burdens.
We help people improve family relationships. We offer
ongoing coaching, evaluation and feedback to motivated adults. The effects are immediate - and
unfold over generations.
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