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We offer coaching and training on improving family relationships,
family constellations
and resolving family problems.
We coach motivated adults to create healthier and
happier homes. We do this by coaching people to improve communication, solve
emotional problems and cope with family situations such as births, illnesses,
marriages and deaths.
We perceive families as living systems of
people rather than as groups of individuals. We use systems theories to evaluate
family relationships in terms of responsibilities. We help families solve
problems by changing how the family members can work together rather than trying to fix
specific members.
Families who do not resolve their
problematic traditions or habits can expect their fixations, obsessions and
habits - and the consequences of their behaviors to
be duplicated by their children and grandchildren. We sometimes call this
family karma ... people who leave home take their baggage.
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When I told you about my miscarriage you
asked me if my mother had a miscarriage ... she had. You said that the same number of babies
often die in each generation. Later I
remembered that my mother also had an abortion and so did my sister.
Berlin, Germany
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Systemic Family Coaching
Your family must cope with many predictable problems. Premature
deaths, illnesses, missing family members, accidents, a suicide or other events
sometimes happen. These events do not only impact the daily life of family
members - if handled poorly they can upset family harmony for generations.
Families are not only people - families
include feelings, beliefs,
responsibilities and goals. Family behavior is strongly affected by their perceptions of behaviors, beliefs, values and justice.
Often, the meaning given to an event is more important than the event
itself.
The exclusion of family members may not only
hurt and humiliate the rejected members - other family members, perhaps in
subsequent generations, may try to bring back the excluded family
members, either by adoption or marriage, or by identification - by
expressing the emotions and feelings of the missing people.
We help motivated adults explore how unjust events affect
their health, susceptibility to disease, and patterns of deaths, accidents
or loss which may be repeated in each generation. Our profound perspective offers
many opportunities for people to understand themselves as well as their
relationships.
You can help prevent the unpleasant events and tragedies
of your ancestors being repeated by your children - and your grandchildren.
You can choose to end and decide to prevent cross-generational family
enmeshment and intergenerational fixations. We can show you how.
Medical Doctor's Perspective
. Identifications
Assess Common Interests and Identify Differences
Our coaching is not only for people with problems - it
is for adults who are motivated for more or better. Most human behavior
is influenced and maintained by relationships - by the way people interact.
We help individual people or whole families to explore
and find ways to change how they behave in families and how families behave
in communities. Our optimistic and dynamic coaching can help you and your
family cope with a changing world.
- Individual Coaching - skills for success,
health and happiness.
- Couple Coaching: learn skills and dissolve
emotional blocks for happy partnership.
- Family Coaching: skills for parents -
child-raising, family habits, learning disabilities, etc
- Corporate Coaching skills for managers and
negotiations; Team Leadership coaching.
- Community Coaching and Trainer Training are also
available.
Partnership .
Predictable Partnership .
Evaluating Partnership
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Most remedial approaches deal only with symptoms, and not with
systemic roots. Following such interventions, the system renews the
symptom or creates another, continuing to express the dysfunction.
People can be ill from the same illness repetitively, or from
successive similar diseases. Systemic coaching resolves the
fundamental imbalance; until the symptom spontaneously disappears.
Rooted in relationships are: physical illnesses,
compulsive-addictive behavior, mental blocks and repetitive life
crises. Ana Pejcinova, PhD |
We cannot help everybody. Our coaching may be too
difficult for family members with psychological disorders, or for children and
adolescents who suffer from their parents' communication habits. Families that
are generally unsuitable for our family coaching include:
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families with members who cannot or will not
participate
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families with members who risk an emotional or
psychological crisis
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families whose cultural or religious values are
opposed to outside counseling
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families in which a parent has been diagnosed
with a major personality disorder
Some of our Family Coaching Resources
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