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We present interactive seminars and
workshops on systemic coaching, systemic family coaching and
resolving family problems. Contact us.
Family Systemic Coaching
Every family must cope with problems. Premature
deaths, lost family members, accidents and other injustices will happen.
These and similar events can not only impact the daily life of all
family members, they can influence a family for generations.
Family systems include feelings and emotions,
and pleasure and pain, and are strongly affected by perceptions of justice.
The exclusion of one or more family members may not only hurt and humiliate
those being rejected. Other members of a family, perhaps in the next
generation, will respond and try to bring back the missing family members,
either by adoption or marriage, or by expressing the emotions and feelings
of the missing members.
Soulwork systemic coaching can help you explore how
these systemic events affect your physical and mental health, your susceptibility to
disease, and deaths, accidents or loss that seem to be repeated in each
generation. The profound Soulwork perspective offers you many opportunities to
understand yourself as well as your family relationship dynamics.
You can prevent unpleasant events and tragedies being
repeated by your children - and by their children. You can end and prevent
cross-generational family entanglements.
[ Soulwork: A
Medical Doctor's Perspective ] [
Identifications ]
Soulwork Systemic Coaching
Systemic coaching is not only for people with problems.
Human behavior is influenced and maintained by the way all members
of a system interact. Systemic coaching can help either individual members
or a whole family. It can diagnose and offer ways to change how people
behave in families and how families behave in communities. Optimistic and
dynamic, systemic coaching fits your changing world.
- Couple Coaching: achieve
partnership goals and resolve complaints that do not require the
acceptance, approval or permission of other people.
- Individual Coaching learn skills for Success, Health Coaching
and Therapeutic Coaching, etc.
- Family Coaching learn skills for Parenthood,
Family Disease, Learning Disabilities, etc
- Corporate Coaching skills for management;
sales and negotiations; Team Leadership and Team Coaching.
- Community Coaching
and Soulwork Trainer Training are also available.
[ Partnership ] [
Predictable Partnership ] [
Evaluating Partnership ]
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Most remedial approaches deal only with symptoms, and not with
systemic roots. Following such interventions, the system renews the
symptom or creates another, continuing to express the dysfunction.
People can be ill from the same illness repetitively, or from
successive similar diseases. Systemic coaching resolves the
fundamental imbalance; until the symptom spontaneously disappears.
Rooted in relationships are: physical illnesses,
compulsive-addictive behavior, mental blocks and repetitive life
crises. Ana Pejcinova, PhD, Soulwork Coach |
Family Coaching Resources
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Systemic Family Coaching
Some questions throughout Family Systemic Coaching are:
- How close are your family members now?
- What do you want your family to do together?
- How do you want to improve family happiness?
- What would empower all of you?
- What could stop you being happy together?
Exploring and answering these questions allows you and your
family to re-evaluate the situation. The questions may seem
one-dimensional and simple ... yet your answers to these questions will likely be
multi-dimensional and profound.
If one partner wants to change the other partner's perspectives,
habits, beliefs or values - coaching helps the partners integrate both partner's goals,
while learning how to exist independent of external manipulative or coercive
behavior. Partners can reach their goals - together.
Helping professionals can help families prevent and
resolve family chaos using systemic coaching. Appropriate solutions for
systemic problems are found in systemic coach training and Soulwork
home-study courses.
[ Systemic Coach Training ]
[ Soulwork Home-Study ]
| Systemic Food for Thought |
'The
family system is an idea that may have taken us all off track. It
is far better to do away with the concept of the family system to which
the treating professional is as active a contributor as anyone else. We
would then not say the system creates the problem, but that the problem
creates the system. In other words, a problem does
not exist independently of the "observing systems" that are reciprocally
and collectively defining the problem.'
Boscolo et al,1987
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Changing Families
To change your family behavior, first perceive all family problems and
resources as aspects of family relationships. Avoid blaming anybody. Create
opportunities for shared responsibility in all relationships. Develop self-esteem and
healthy behavior, and consequently, healthy relating.
You can promote family health:
- Build acceptance, trust, empathy and compassion
- Listen, respect and clarify communications
- Respond appropriately to perceptions and
feedback
- Dissolve conflicts and find family integrity
(family spirit)
- Dissolve toxic relationship bonds
- Dissolve family trauma
- Provide or find healthy role models
Members of families, teams, organizations and
communities are connected with each other, both with those present and those
who have left. The healing effects of systemic coaching continue to
unfold as you honor those who have belonged to your family or team, respecting
their fates and their burdens. Suffering is replaced with acknowledgment.
[ Coaching Teenagers ] [
Coaching Young Adults ] [
Coaching Older Clients ]
Systemic coaching helps you heal relationship
patterns within family members and within a family system. We can provide
ongoing coaching, evaluation and feedback. The effects of Soulwork systemic coaching are immediate - and
unfold over generations.
Relationship Coaching ...
Systemic Coach Training ...
Your Next Step
Do you want relationship coaching or systemic
coach training? You can coach people to gain clarity, dissolve complex relationship
problems. Do you want to help people fulfill their dreams? Contact us.
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