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Systemic Family Therapy & Coaching
by Martyn Carruthers

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We offer coaching and training on systems coaching, family constellations
and resolving family problems.

Family Systemic Coaching

Every family must cope with problems. Premature deaths, lost family members, accidents and other injustices will happen. These and similar events can not only impact the daily life of all family members, they can influence a family for generations.

Family systems include feelings and emotions, and pleasure and pain, and are strongly affected by perceptions of justice. The exclusion of one or more family members may not only hurt and humiliate those being rejected. Other members of a family, perhaps in the next generation, will respond and try to bring back the missing family members, either by adoption or marriage, or by expressing the emotions and feelings of the missing members.

Soulwork systemic coaching can help you explore how these systemic events affect your physical and mental health, your susceptibility to disease, and deaths, accidents or loss that seem to be repeated in each generation. The profound Soulwork perspective offers you many opportunities to understand yourself as well as your family relationship dynamics.

You can prevent unpleasant events and tragedies being repeated by your children - and by their children. You can end and prevent cross-generational family entanglements.

A Medical Doctor's Perspective . Identifications

Soulwork Systemic Coaching

Systems coaching is not only for people with problems. Most human behavior is influenced and maintained by the way members of a system interact. Systems coaching can help individual members or a whole family. It can diagnose and offer ways to change how people behave in families and how families behave in communities. Optimistic and dynamic, systemic coaching fits your changing world.

  • Couple Coaching: achieve partnership goals and resolve complaints that do not require the acceptance, approval or permission of other people.
  • Individual Coaching learn skills for Success, Health Coaching and Therapeutic Coaching, etc.
  • Family Coaching learn skills for Parenthood, Family Disease, Learning Disabilities, etc
  • Corporate Coaching skills for management and negotiations; Team Leadership coaching.
  • Community Coaching and Trainer Training are also available.

Partnership . Predictable Partnership . Evaluating Partnership

Most remedial approaches deal only with symptoms, and not with systemic roots. Following such interventions, the system renews the symptom or creates another, continuing to express the dysfunction. People can be ill from the same illness repetitively, or from successive similar diseases. Systemic coaching resolves the fundamental imbalance; until the symptom spontaneously disappears. Rooted in relationships are: physical illnesses, compulsive-addictive behavior, mental blocks and repetitive life crises. Ana Pejcinova, PhD, Soulwork Coach

Family Coaching Resources

Learning Disabilities Emotional Incest

Family Spirit

Children of Divorce Post-Abortion Coaching

Dependencies

Parental Alienation

Ending Addictions

Stress Disorders

Mother's Little Prince

Daddy's Little Princess

Relationship Bonds

 Enjoying Partnership

Evaluating Partnership

Predictable Partnership


Systemic Family Coaching

Some questions throughout Family Systemic Coaching are:

  1. How close are your family members now?
  2. What do you want your family to do together?
  3. How do you want to improve family happiness?
  4. What would empower all of you?
  5. What could stop you being happy together?

Exploring and answering these questions allows you and your family to re-evaluate the situation. The questions may seem one-dimensional and simple ... yet your answers to these questions will likely be multi-dimensional and profound.

If one partner wants to change the other partner's perspectives, habits, beliefs or values - coaching helps the partners integrate both partner's goals, while learning how to exist independent of external manipulative or coercive behavior. Partners can reach their goals - together.

Helping professionals can help families resolve family chaos using systemic coaching. Appropriate solutions for systemic problems are found in our systemic coach training and home-study courses.

Systemic Coach Training . Home-Study

Systemic Food for Thought

'The family system is an idea that may have taken us all off track. It is far better to do away with the concept of the family system to which the treating professional is as active a contributor as anyone else. We would then not say the system creates the problem, but that the problem creates the system. In other words, a problem does not exist independently of the "observing systems" that are reciprocally and collectively defining the problem.'

Boscolo et al,1987

Changing Families

To change your family behavior, first perceive all family problems and resources as aspects of family relationships. Avoid blaming anybody. Create opportunities for shared responsibility in all relationships. Develop self-esteem and healthy behavior, and consequently, healthy relating.

You can promote family health:

  • Build acceptance, trust, empathy and compassion
  • Listen, respect and clarify communications
  • Respond appropriately to perceptions and feedback
  • Dissolve conflicts and find family integrity (family spirit)
  • Dissolve toxic relationship bonds
  • Dissolve family trauma
  • Provide or find healthy role models

Members of families, teams, organizations and communities are connected with each other, both with those present and those who have left. The healing effects of systemic coaching continue to unfold as you honor those who have belonged to your family or team, respecting their fates and their burdens.

Coaching Teenagers . Coaching Young Adults . Coaching Older Clients

We help people heal relationship habits of family members within a family system. We can provide ongoing coaching, evaluation and feedback. The effects are immediate - and unfold over generations.

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America: Dragonfly, PO Box 675, Honaunau, Hawaii, 96726 USA
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Systemic Coach Training

Systems 1 How to evaluate relationships and recognize common entanglements
Systems 2 How to define life goals, and identify blocks, objections & conflicts
Systems 3 How to continue goalwork using interactive metaphors and Dreamwork
Systems 4 How to dissolve the consequences of abuse and trauma and rebuild motivation
Systems 5 How to change limiting beliefs and codependence for emotional freedom
Systems 6 How to recognize and resolve identity loss: recover lost qualities and lost skills
Systems 7 How to heal therapist or spiritual damage and provide inspirational mentorship
Systems 8 How to coach partners to build lasting happiness (and to separate peacefully)
Systems 9 How to coach parents to resolve family problems
Systems 10 How to coach team leaders and teams ... together
Systems 11 How to coach community leaders and communities
Specialty Advanced workshops and specialty training tailored to your goals

Copyright © Martyn Carruthers 1996-2010 All rights reserved. Soulwork Systemic Coaching was primarily developed by Martyn Carruthers. We coach and train people to define and achieve goals, to resolve emotional blocks and to improve relationships. This information is for your general knowledge only. Please consult a physician about medical conditions and before changing any medical treatment. You must get Martyn's written permission to post or publish his work.