A common symptom of dead person identification (spirit possession) is
may appear to have psychic sensitivity. Although Carruthers seems to
dismiss this as high sensitivity to body language, I have frequently
observed people with DPI symptoms accurately describe secret past
events, current events elsewhere, and accurately predict future events
of previously unknown people.
Protection against Undead Spirits
Some people attempting to play games with ghosts or spirits of dead people
later find themselves obsessed or disturbed in ways that psychotherapy does not
recognize and cannot heal. Magical stories are full of warnings about entities
that expect to be paid for their services. (An inexperienced therapist or healer
may be wise to refer clients with DPI symptoms to people with experience.)
Never Strike a Happy Medium
Talk to self-proclaimed mediums at a psychic fair. Many mediums seem to have
exactly the symptoms and sensitivity that Carruthers describes as typical of
identified people. This haunted archetype seems common. I can guess that
perhaps 5% of people may be emotionally entangled with dead people.
Many mediums not only show symptoms of dead person identification -
they boast about spirit helpers - about dead people who aid or protect them.
Perhaps it's wise to consider the consequences before entangling with dead people.
These consequences seem to include identification (possession),
early death, death of a child and dysfunctional relationships. Stories of magical
powers include the payments expected by the entities enlisted. Carruthers says
that the principle payment is happiness.
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Ouija Board |
My boyfriend recently died in an accident ... my friends and I
bought a Ouija board to see if he would come through and he did. We talk to him
almost every night and he is always with us. He said he would never leave me and
he will always wait for me ... January 2006
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Comment: An
entanglement with a dead partner will likely influence a future partnership.
Also, a future child may identify with the dead
boyfriend ... to bring him back into this woman's life.
Systemic coaching can prevent
and resolve such consequences. January 2006 |
Which Witch is Which?
My studies into "Can the dead communicate?" brought me to
spiritualism, parapsychology and psychic research. Most people were
well-meaning with good intentions. For a few groups and cults, however, you are prey.
(If you have difficulty leaving an occult group - read
Exit Coaching.)
Shamans of many cultures claim to use the spirits of dead people to harm the living.
Solving these attacks can be wild rides, mostly because of a client's fears and
beliefs.
Cross Cultural Horror Show
All over this planet, people use similar ways
to honor and communicate with the quiet dead - and have similar unpleasant stories
about the unquiet dead - the undead. Central European vampires, werewolves and Egyptian
mummies may reflect Hollywood films, but my talks with native Canadians and with
immigrants from Cuba, Africa, Vietnam and Afghanistan included eerily similar
stories.
While Carruthers says "Preoccupation with death and dying"
is a common symptom of dead person identification, there are other,
less scientific, explanations. What is the difference between a dead person
and a ghost? Or between dead person identification and possession?
Between dissociating a dead person and exorcism?
Or between a systemic coach and an exorcist?
Here are a few of my cases ...
Haunted House . Curses
. Black Magic
. Ghosts . Demon
Death and Dying
As I investigated the lives and family histories of people with symptoms
of dead person identification, a deep concern arose. These unpleasant
symptoms provide doors between the world of the living and the world of the dead.
Some of these doors can be easily opened, and not so easily closed.
The symptoms of dead person identification may predispose people towards
unusual behavior and suicidal depression. I met people with these recognizable
symptoms who tried psychiatry, spiritualism, psychotherapy and religion, but
found long-term solutions in Carruthers' systemic coaching.
Ghosts, Ghosts & More Ghosts
Since I retired, I collect and research ghost
stories. I have many first-hand descriptions of ghosts - and my memories of
the people who told me the ghost stories. A "haunted person" archetype
might include wide-open eyes,
a fixed stare, dark skin under the eyes, slack facial skin, lowered shoulders
and down-turned mouths. Interestingly, these are non-verbal signals that
Carruthers associates with dead-person identification.
To go beyond second-hand stories into first hand experience, I needed
a bridge; and I found it in lucid dreaming. With that I can do
more than listen to ghost stories. Carruthers teaches ways to join people
in their dreams that he learned while living in Hawaii (see
Hawaiian Spirituality).
It seems that shared dreams can overlap onto objective reality!
Changes made in the dreams seemed to cause, or at least be related to,
rapid changes in the reality in which we live. My question became,
"Where does a dream stop and reality begin?"
Entertaining Demons
Dead Person Identification concerns dead people. Yet our human world includes
many never-living entities that were once worshipped by people. Can something die
that was never born? How would a dead deity be different to a dead person?
And how can we recognize a group or organization of people who are identified with
a dead person or an undead entity?"
It is often said that man creates gods in his own image. If so, the
gods of identified people might appear to demand, or at least request,
that symptoms of dead person identification be perceived as normal.
Could Carruthers' systemic symptoms (of DPI) be transformed into a
recognizable belief system?