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Emotional Maturity & Relationship  Ecology
Better Relationships without Side Effects © Martyn Carruthers

Are you Willing to Change?

Coaching, seminars and interactive workshops on emotional maturity,
solving relationship problems and resolving family chaos.

Relationship Skills & Relationship Ecology

There are no limits to the happiness of good relationships ...
... nor to the suffering of bad relationships.

Although most people communicate to improve their relationships, to resolve conflicts and discuss sensitive issues peacefully, deficiencies of mature relationship skills can make any relationship difficult. Our relationship skills coaching and training follows years of research and practice.

Here I put relationship skills into a hierarchy related to "emotional" maturity. If you stop developing - at any age - then your relationship skills remain stuck at that age. In a crisis, you may act like a child. We help you untangle whatever delayed your progress - and catch up on the years in between.

Put ELATION into your RelationSHIPS

Our systemic coaching can help you find solutions for all relationships - from friendship to dating to marriage; from making friends to creating community, from groups to focused communities.

We encourages your health and your passion. Learn how to change singles to Soulmates - groups to top teams - and lonely families to dynamic community members.

Our relationship coaching includes solving problems for partners, friends, teams, parents and communities. Arrogance can lead to destruction. Check relationship ecology before making decisions!

Emotional Maturity . Meaning of Life . Referrals

Good Intentions are Not Enough!

But good intentions are a good start! We help motivated adults resolve relationship problems, and prepare for future challenges. Our coaching and training offers you quality relationship skills.

  1. Define relationship goals
  2. Resolve existing crises
  3. Clarify past and present relationships
  4. Dissolve inner conflicts
  5. Adjust relationship beliefs
  6. Resolve relationship trauma
  7. Find appropriate mentors
  8. Focus on life purpose or mission

The absence of integrity leads to suffering, loneliness and depression. Systemic relationship coaching helps people end suffering and take steps towards the long-term happiness of healthy relationships.

Effective, mature communication skills can greatly contribute to your success.

Friendship Skills

Your friends range from casual acquaintance to close friends. Good friends are life blessings - but maintaining good friends is not luck. Friendship requires skill.

Relationship coaching can help you develop and improve your friendship skills and solve problems with friends, which are pre-requisites for effective teamwork, happy partnership and parenthood.

Many adults were never taught how to be friendly ... and they can be very lonely, perhaps surrounded by other lonely people. Some important friendship skills are:

  • Offering to help
  • Joining conversations
  • Showing "I'm interested in you"
  • Giving and receiving suggestions
  • Giving and receiving compliments

Partnership Skills

Good Couple Coaching can save you years of trial-and-error and suffering. Relationship coaching simultaneously helps you and your partner to build or improve double vision. We coach couples to evaluate partnership, to resolve relationship problems, and to prepare for future challenges.

We help couples:

  • share values
  • rebuild a joyous relationship
  • change toxic relationship habits
  • resolve guilt and the consequences of affairs
  • clean up past partnerships and previous romances
  • separate peacefully and with dignity, if all hope has faded

We help people resolve issues of abandonment, betrayal, crisis and trauma.

Couple Coaching may include Premarital Coaching to prepare for long-term commitment - or Separation Coaching - to peacefully disconnect and rebuild separate lives. A partner can be your greatest good - but maintaining a happy partnership is not luck. Happy partnership needs mature relationship skills.

We help couples:

  1. Define relationship goals
  2. Compare values and requirements
  3. Clarify past and present relationships
  4. Provide individual changework as required
  5. Dissolve relationship conflicts
  6. Prepare a couple to handle challenges
  7. Assist couple to find own solutions

Family Skills for Happy Families

Families are intimate teams! Families feed and shelter the young and the old, and provide morals and values that shape individual lives. Family coaching is integrated throughout our systemic coaching.

Systemic family coaching helps families to resolve internal and external challenges. Family coaching simultaneously coaches your family members to resolve challenges in ways that increase family harmony and resourcefulness.

Family members can receive integrity coaching to present their needs and fears. Each member can be coached to "try" other member's perspectives. Each member can be coached to examine family conflict as a mutual problem - and find mutual solutions. Our Family Coaching helps all family members.

Parent Skills for Fulfilled Parenthood

Raising children to independent adulthood demands years of loving patience and strength. Many parents are not prepared for parenthood - our Parent Coaching offers support parents who need help or additional resources.

Team Skills for Team Spirit

Our team coaching can helps you work together to achieve goals that you cannot achieve alone. We coach team members support and protect each other! We coach team leaders to identify and organize relationship resources, and get appropriate feedback and information.

Our team coaching simultaneously coaches all team members to work together effectively. Team coaching includes coaching the formation of new teams, maintaining and enhancing existing teams and training team leaders. We also assist team members to separate without stress.

Team Leader Skills build on team skills - we coach a leader to lead before and during interactions with team members with an increasing scale of challenges and complexity.

Our team coaching helps team members work together. It includes:

  1. Define team objectives
  2. Select new team members
  3. Select and coach team leaders
  4. Define task content and priorities
  5. Define team leader's role and tasks
  6. Define team rules in four categories
  7. Dissolve hidden agendas and other objections

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We can help parents develop and improve children's self-control and social skills.


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1. Where are you now? Assess relationship bonds and entanglements Systems 1
2. What are your life goals?  Identify your life goals ... and what blocks you Systems 2
3. How to reach your goals?  Use your conscious and unconscious resources Systems 3
4. What stops you?  Dissolve abuse and trauma to rebuild motivation Systems 4
5. What else stops you? Change your limiting beliefs to end dependence Systems 5
6. What else stops you? Resolve identity loss to recover qualities and skills Systems 6
7. What else stops you? Heal mentor damage and find quality mentorship Systems 7
8. What about your partnership? Build happy partnership (or separate peacefully) Systems 8
9. What about your children? We coach parents to resolve family problems Systems 9
10. What about your success? We coach team leaders and teams ... together Systems 10
11. What about your community? We coach community leaders and communities Systems 11
12. What about complex goals? Specialty coaching & training for unusual goals Specialty

Plagiarism is theft. Copyright © Martyn Carruthers 1996-2010 All rights reserved. Soulwork Systemic Coaching was primarily developed by Martyn Carruthers. We help people define and achieve goals, resolve emotional blocks and improve relationships. This information is for general knowledge only. Consult a physician about medical conditions and before changing any medical treatment. Don't steal ... ask Martyn for permission to post or publish his work.