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Relationship Skills & Relationship  Ecology

Telephone and Skype Coaching with Martyn Carruthers

Do you want private sessions, interactive workshops on relationship coaching, relationship problems, resolving family chaos and relationship bonds? Contact us.

Relationship Skills & Relationship Ecology

There are no limits to the happiness of good relationships ...
... nor to the suffering of bad relationships.

Relationship skills deficiencies can make any relationship difficult. We communicate to improve our relationships, to resolve conflicts and discuss sensitive issues peacefully. Soulwork relationship skills training follows years of research and practice.

Relationship skills form a hierarchy related to "emotional" maturity. If you stop developing - at any age - then your relationship skills remain stuck at that age. In a crisis, you may act like a child. We help you untangle whatever delayed your progress - and catch up on the years in between.

Put ELATION into your RelationSHIPS

Our systemic coaching can help you find solutions for all relationships - from friendship to dating to marriage; from making friends to creating community, from groups to focused communities.

We encourages your health and your passion. Learn how to change singles to Soulmates - groups to top teams - and lonely families to dynamic community members.

Our relationship coaching includes solving problems for partners, friends, teams, parents and communities. Arrogance can lead to destruction. Check relationship ecology before making decisions!

Emotional Maturity . Meaning of Life . Referrals

Good Intentions are Not Enough!

But they are a good start! We can coach you to resolve relationship problems, and to prepare for future challenges. Systemic coach training offers you real-life relationship skills.

  1. Define relationship goals
  2. Resolve existing crises
  3. Clarify past and present relationships
  4. Dissolve inner conflicts
  5. Adjust relationship beliefs
  6. Resolve relationship trauma
  7. Find appropriate mentors

The absence of integrity leads to suffering, loneliness and depression. Systemic relationship coaching helps people end suffering and take steps towards the long-term happiness of healthy relationships.

Effective communication skills are a top contributor to success.

Friendship Skills

Your friends range from casual acquaintance to close friends. Good friends are life blessings - but maintaining good friends is not luck. Friendship requires skill.

Relationship coaching can help you develop and improve your friendship skills and solve problems with friends, which are pre-requisites for effective teamwork, happy partnership and parenthood.

Many adults were never taught how to be friendly ... and they can be very lonely. Some important friendship skills are:

  • Showing "I'm interested in you"
  • Joining conversations
  • Giving and receiving suggestions
  • Giving and receiving compliments
  • Offering to help

Partnership Skills

Good Couple Coaching can save you years of trial-and-error and suffering. Relationship coaching simultaneously helps you and your partner to build or improve double vision. We coach couples to evaluate partnership, to resolve relationship problems, and to prepare for future challenges.

Integrity coaching helps couples:

  • rebuild a joyous relationship
  • resolve guilt and the consequences of affairs
  • share values
  • clean up past partnerships and previous romances
  • change toxic relationship habits
  • separate peacefully and with dignity, if all hope has faded

Systemic coaching includes resolving abandonment, betrayal, crisis and trauma.

Couple Coaching may include Premarital Coaching to prepare for long-term commitment - or Separation Coaching - to peacefully disconnect and rebuild separate lives. A partner can be your greatest good - but maintaining a happy partnership is not luck. Happy partnership needs many skills.

Relationship coaching helps couples:

  1. Define relationship goals
  2. Compare values and requirements
  3. Clarify past and present relationships
  4. Provide individual changework as required
  5. Dissolve relationship conflicts
  6. Prepare a couple to handle challenges
  7. Assist couple to find own solutions

Family Skills for Happy Families

Families are intimate teams! Families feed and shelter the young and the old, and provide morals and values that shape individual lives. Family coaching is integrated throughout our systemic coaching.

Systemic family coaching helps families to resolve internal and external challenges. Family coaching simultaneously coaches your family members to resolve challenges in ways that increase family harmony and resourcefulness.

Family members can receive integrity coaching to present their needs and fears. Each member can be coached to "try" other member's perspectives. Each member can be coached to examine family conflict as a mutual problem - and find mutual solutions. Systemic Family Coaching helps all family members.

Parent Skills for Fulfilled Parenthood

Raising children to independent adulthood demands years of loving patience and strength. Many parents are not prepared for parenthood - Systemic Parent Coaching can support to parents who need help or additional resources. See Learning Disabilities, Parental Alienation and Children of Divorce.

Team Skills for Team Spirit

Systemic team coaching can helps you work together to achieve goals that you cannot achieve alone. We coach team members support and protect each other! We coach team leaders to identify and organize relationship resources, and get appropriate feedback and information.

Systemic team coaching simultaneously coaches all team members to work together effectively. Team coaching includes coaching the formation of new teams, maintaining and enhancing existing teams and training team leaders. We also assist team members to separate without stress.

Team Leader Skills build on team skills - we coach a leader to lead before and during interactions with team members with an increasing scale of challenges and complexity.

Systemic team coaching helps people work together:

  1. Define team objectives
  2. Define team leader's role and tasks
  3. Select and coach team leaders
  4. Define task content and priorities
  5. Select new team members
  6. Define team rules in four categories
  7. Dissolve hidden agendas and other objections

We can help parents develop and improve children's self-control and social skills.



 

 

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America: Dragonfly, PO Box 675, Honaunau, Hawaii, 96726 USA
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Systemic Coach Training

Systems 1 How to evaluate relationships and recognize common entanglements
Systems 2 How to define life goals, and identify blocks, objections & conflicts
Systems 3 How to continue goalwork using interactive metaphors and Dreamwork
Systems 4 How to dissolve the consequences of abuse and trauma and rebuild motivation
Systems 5 How to change limiting beliefs and codependence for emotional freedom
Systems 6 How to recognize and resolve identity loss: recover lost qualities and lost skills
Systems 7 How to heal therapist or spiritual damage and provide inspirational mentorship
Systems 8 How to coach partners to build lasting happiness (and to separate peacefully)
Systems 9 How to coach parents to resolve family problems
Systems 10 How to coach team leaders and teams ... together
Systems 11 How to coach community leaders and communities
Specialty Advanced workshops and specialty training tailored to your goals

Copyright © Martyn Carruthers 1996-2010 All rights reserved. Soulwork Systemic Coaching was primarily developed by Martyn Carruthers. We coach and train people to define and achieve goals, to resolve emotional blocks and to improve relationships. This information is for your general knowledge only. Please consult a physician about medical conditions and before changing any medical treatment. You must get Martyn's written permission to post or publish his work.