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Do you want happy partnership - intelligent children growing to independence - wise parents - supportive friends - a comfortable home - fulfilling work - a sense of being where you should be?

We explore and model traditional healing techniques, and combine them with systems thinking to create effective alternatives to therapy. This is becoming popular in Europe and will spread to America.

Soulwork Chicago . Soulwork Canada . Soulwork Hawaii

Emotional Intelligence & Emotional Freedom

Does it sound simple? ... If only it were easy. Many people sabotage their own lives - do you? Are you entangled in old trauma or other people's problems? Do you live in other people's confusion? Do you want solutions for your own life ... or do you want to help other people?

While most Americans are descended from Europeans, the relationship habits and relationship problems of both continents are not the same. In our experience, most Americans have more complex relationships - and more complex relationship problems - than their European cousins.

Family roles in America seem to be often blurred by a fascination with media, multiculturalism, multiple relocations, multiple partnerships, homosexual and bisexual relationships, fundamental religious behavior, parental alienation, public prudery, incest, combined families and ... a litigious mind set.

Much relationship coaching in America seems to specialize in helping single people find partners and in helping partners and parents solve minor problems ... in the country with the world's highest rate of family breakdown. What's missing from this picture?

We focus on helping people gain the emotional maturity to resolve most relationship issues - including dissolving bonds to past partners, fixations to parents, resolving sexual affairs and the consequences of abortion. As we consider emotions to be relationship consequences, we are not surprised that during our coaching, many emotional issues seem to disappear.

We have presented and tested our Systemic Solutions training in Europe, Asia, Africa and Australia. We enjoy adapting to different cultural and ethnic backgrounds to offer the best in relationship coaching.

Coaching & Training

Our coach training combines theory, demonstration, exercises and feedback. Learn about people and success and how to help people achieve success. Our demonstrations show you how to help people achieve their success. Our exercises give you space to practice what you learn and our feedback offers you the information you need to improve your skills so as to better help others.

What have you already tried that failed? Have you already tried therapy, counseling or coaching and all you got was active listening or useless advice?

Systemic Solutions

Problems with Self Problems with Family Problems with Partner
  1. Burnt Out

  2. Immaturity

  3. Obsessions

  4. Compulsions

  5. Identity Loss

  6. Self-Criticism

  7. Self-Sabotage

  8. Low Self-Esteem

  9. Chronic Emotions

  10. Mental Disorders

  1. Incest

  2. Abuse

  3. Lack of support

  4. Lack of love

  5. Breakdown

  6. Immature Partner

  7. Little Appreciation

  8. Emotional Neglect

  9. Compulsive Behavior

  10. Death of family member

  1. Abuse

  2. Affairs

  3. Silence

  4. Boredom

  5. Breakdown

  6. Immature Partner

  7. Little Appreciation

  8. Emotional Neglect

  9. Compulsions

  10. Little or No Affection

You are not alone. We can help you!

Soulwork Systemic Solutions - Training Objectives

I am told that most people can easily identify with either sharks, tuna or dolphins. Sharks get energy from killing, tuna get energy from victimhood, and dolphins get energy from play and collaboration. If this gross simplification has a grain of truth - which would you identify with? Do you want to change this?

Following successful completion of our training, participants will be able to:

  1. Evaluate human systems and clarify relationship entanglements
  2. Define goals, dissolve objections & plan for success
  3. How to end self-criticism & inner conflict to recover integrity
  4. Recover lost and missing qualities, expertise and skills
  5. How to dissolve relationship bonds for healthy relationships
  6. How to dissolve abuse and trauma, and rebuild motivation
  7. How to end mentor damage & find inspirational mentorship
  8. Coach couples and partners simultaneously
  9. Coach whole families or parts of families simultaneously
  10. Coach teams and develop team leaders simultaneously

Founder: Martyn Carruthers

Martyn Carruthers founded a revolutionary integration of emotional and relationship coaching based in part on his integration of systems thinking with traditional healing methods. Martyn is acknowledged for creating effective methods for evaluating and changing relationship systems, dissolving cross-generational bonds and resolving unwanted relationship habits.

More people stay together bonded by unhappy entanglements than bonded by love. Poor relationships with parents and ex-partners often cause conflict, stress and ill health. We help people move on.

Do you want to benefit from our experience?

Copyright © Martyn Carruthers  2005-2010 All rights reserved.



 

 

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America: Dragonfly, PO Box 675, Honaunau, Hawaii, 96726 USA
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: Centar Angel, Trnsko 13A, 10020 Zagreb, Croatia
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Systemic Coach Training

Systems 1 How to evaluate relationships and recognize common entanglements
Systems 2 How to define life goals, and identify blocks, objections & conflicts
Systems 3 How to continue goalwork using interactive metaphors and Dreamwork
Systems 4 How to dissolve the consequences of abuse and trauma and rebuild motivation
Systems 5 How to change limiting beliefs and codependence for emotional freedom
Systems 6 How to recognize and resolve identity loss: recover lost qualities and lost skills
Systems 7 How to heal therapist or spiritual damage and provide inspirational mentorship
Systems 8 How to coach partners to build lasting happiness (and to separate peacefully)
Systems 9 How to coach parents to resolve family problems
Systems 10 How to coach team leaders and teams ... together
Systems 11 How to coach community leaders and communities
Specialty Advanced workshops and specialty training tailored to your goals

Copyright © Martyn Carruthers 1996-2010 All rights reserved. Soulwork Systemic Coaching was primarily developed by Martyn Carruthers. We coach and train people to define and achieve goals, to resolve emotional blocks and to improve relationships. This information is for your general knowledge only. Please consult a physician about medical conditions and before changing any medical treatment. You must get Martyn's written permission to post or publish his work.