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Quantum Thinking, Human Systems & Human Potential

By Martyn Carruthers

Quantum thinking hypotheses are fun to consider but are not practically testable. However, quantum thinking offers wonderful ways to explore the human potential inherent in relationship systems.

Archaic, Classical & Quantum Thinking

The differences between archaic, classical and quantum thinking centre on beliefs - on assumptions about reality. Archaic perspectives assume that reality is governed by spirits, demons and gods. Classical perspectives assume that reality is governed by natural laws. Quantum perspectives assume that reality is not governed, rather it behaves as an emergent complex system.

In archaic thinking, reality can be controlled by appeasing esoteric agencies. In classical thinking, reality can be controlled by applying natural laws. In quantum thinking, reality is chaotic and ultimately unpredictable, yet reality can be influenced by applying systemic rules.

Quantum thinking does not replace archaic or classical thinking. Archaic thinking is useful when making decisions about esoteric or spiritual principles. Classical thinking is useful when making simple decisions in controllable environments. Quantum thinking is useful when making complex decisions in situations with relationship pressures and ambiguous objectives.

Research in quantum physics shows that much of our visible reality is illusion. Our cosmos is composed of invisible, unpredictable and paradoxical energy. At a macroscopic (classical) level, we can predict how accumulations of this energy will behave over time. But at a microscopic (quantum) level we cannot predict the behavior of a single electron for a single moment. (See chaos & coaching)

Consider quantum tunneling; electrons can pass through impenetrable barriers by already existing on the other side. Can this be real? This paradox is used in superconductivity. Quantum tunneling may become a feature of super-fast computers and other practical applications. But what do you believe?

Consider superstring theory; that everything in the universe - all particles, forces and even space-time itself - consists of minute strings that vibrate and spin in a multi-dimensional superspace. Can this be real? Are you a composite of sub-atomic, multi-dimensional energy fields? But what do you believe?

Consider the simultaneous existence of parallel universes. If reality is quantum-mechanical, then our universe should have much more structure than a collection of classical entities. The universe should be called a multiverse. But what do you believe?

Quantum Thinking, Beliefs & Reality

... the structure of the multiverse is determined by information flow, and the universality of computation ensures that by studying quantum computational networks it is possible to obtain results about information flow that must also hold for quantum systems in general.

David Deutsch, Centre for Quantum Computation, Clarendon Laboratory, University of Oxford

Why is the amount of antimatter in the universe so very small? Research at Brookhaven in 1965 revealed a slight violation of symmetry in the decay of neutral kaons (sub-atomic particles). As a result of this violation, a slight excess of matter survived the Big Bang. This world and your body exists because of a quantum violation that few people have ever heard of. Can you believe in kaon decay?

Soul is said to be an immaterial essence of every individual. Soul is an inner spiritual principle, a source of bodily functions and mental activities. All human cultures include beliefs in a soul that exists apart from the physical body. Can you believe in Soul? (See Psychobiology of Soul)

Beliefs are not facts. Your reality is what you assume to be true, based on what you believe. Your beliefs are either summaries of your experience, or (more likely) pre-digested summaries that you accepted from people you trusted. Your beliefs will support your happiness ... or your depression.

Common consequences of clinging to obsolete beliefs include:

  • Age Regression: You demand that the world follow your childish expectations
  • Emotional Stress: You experience overwhelming anger, sadness or fear
  • Relationship Chaos: You use toxic relationship and communication skills
  • Addictions, Compulsions & Obsessions: You attempt distraction and escape
  • Depression: You retreat from a life that does not make sense

Probably, you accepted most of your beliefs about the world from your early authorities - your parents, relatives and teachers. Hence many of your assumptions about reality may be based on obsolete concepts and are in urgent need of revision. Quantum thinking can help you update your beliefs.

Quantum Thinking & Human Potential

The great law of culture is: Let each become all that he was created capable of becoming.
Thomas Carlyle (1795-1881)
Create yourself out of nothing! Make up your mind! ... Martyn Carruthers (still here)

For millennia, your ancestors pondered the creation of order. They told simple stories that described the emergence of order from primordial chaos. These archaic chaos theories are rejected by classical science, yet provide interesting metaphors for understanding modern systems theories, quantum thinking and chaos coaching.

Can you, for a moment, end a classical obsession of trying to understand the world by statistical evaluation? Instead, consider evaluating dynamic relationships between members of complex systems. The principles of quantum thinking can both challenge and assist you to update your view of reality.

Do you want to discover and express your human potential? Do you want to explore and extend your limits? Quantum thinking and systemic coaching offer you tools for finding innovative solutions. How can you let complex problems teach you how to solve them?

Quantum Thinking & Leadership

If you want to evaluate or change a system, you may first need to update your beliefs about reality, the system and yourself. Instead of statistical analysis you can use systemic leadership.

The principles of quantum entanglements offer you radical insights into how the world works. If observing a system affects the system, your observations are forever out of date. If when evaluating a system you become entangled in a system, your evaluations will be biased. If by predicting a system's future behavior, you affect that system's behavior - your predictions may be self-fulfilling.

When you plan, direct, or control human systems, are you using tools derived from archaic (esoteric) thinking, classical (Newtonian) thinking - or from modern (quantum) thinking? Quantum thinking helps you create effective management solutions for unexpected problems.

Quantum Thinking & Systemic Coaching

Are you attempting to change or transform human systems such as families, teams or organizations? Are you trying to use logical, linear plans to affect change? Are the results of your initiatives somehow uninspiring and shallow? Do you know why?

A systemic toolkit helps you update your paradigm of yourself on this planet. You are a member of many relationship systems. You are a member of your past, current and even future relationships: your friendships, teams, partnerships, political parties, and of your regional and national cultures.

Systemic diagnosis can help you perceive organizations as interactive human systems, rather than as esoteric or classical machines. Systemic coaching can help you manage and change human systems ... for example you might join a system and then change yourself.

Quantum Thinking & Systemic Entanglements

Quantum entanglements allow simultaneous action at a distance, at speeds in excess of light. Human entanglements often show up as compulsions and inappropriate behavior. Systemic entanglements are often experienced as chronic inappropriate emotions ... see Identity Loss. Some entanglements are:

  • I am entangled with people I have hurt (I experience chronic guilt)
  • I am entangled with an ignored dead person (I experience chronic sadness)
  • I am entangled with an ignored victim (I experience chronic anger)
  • I am entangled with an ignored hero (I experience chronic anxiety)
  • I am entangled with two people in conflict (I experience chronic conflict)
  • I lose access to my own identity (I experience chronic dissociation)

Systemic entanglements can ruin individual lives and harm entire relationship systems. Systemic coaching offers effective and timely solutions for these and other relationship problems.

Quantum Thinking & Systemic Rules

Members of human systems follow systemic, not classical, rules. Some rules are explicit yet it may be against the rules to discuss certain rules. Perhaps consider a military unit, a hippy commune and your family as you read these examples of systemic rules...  (also see Morphogenetic Fields)

  • Boundaries: Which boundaries can be flexible and which must be rigid?
  • Coalitions: Who can align with whom for what benefits? Who cannot align with whom?
  • Communication: How may communication rules and meta-rules be used?
  • Culture: How does the system identity itself? (religion, status, ethnicity, ...)
  • Development: At what developmental stage is the system frozen?
  • Entanglement: Is there differentiation or are members entangled with each other.
  • Hierarchy: How must authority be displayed? Who is really in control?
  • History: What traditions and history must remain in active memory?
  • Maturity: What emotional ages (emotional maturity) must members express?
  • Metaphors: What symbolic interactions can occur between members?
  • Power: Who makes important decisions for the system and for each sub-system?
  • Roles: Who must make trouble? Who must rescue? Who must distract?
  • Values: What regulates the systemic values of the system and each sub-system?

Quantum thinking and systemic coaching offer you ways to assess and change human reality.

Martyn Carruthers worked in health physics and nuclear physics for 18 years before founding Soulwork systemic coaching - a practical synthesis of quantum thinking and relationship coaching.

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Copyright © Martyn Carruthers 1996 - 2008 All rights reserved. Soulwork systemic coaching was primarily developed by Martyn Carruthers. We train people to coach others to manage emotions and improve relationships. This information is for your general knowledge only. Please consult a physician about medical conditions and before changing any medical treatment. Link to our pages, but get Martyn's written permission to post or publish his work.