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We help motivated adults improve their relationships, their personal and professional development and their quality of life.

Tell us about your goals, what stops you reaching them and what you have already tried.

Please mention your town and country, your motivation and your age - and whether you can travel or if you prefer Skype or telephone sessions.

Systemic Solutions FAQ

We refer clients to professionals whom we have trained, and to others who can resolve relationship entanglements and issues of identity loss

Are you a helping professional? Do you want us to refer clients to you? Email us and tell us about your work, your specialties and your experience.

We will not refer clients to you if you cannot resolve relationship entanglements, or if you only offer dissociation, NLP or New Age techniques.


Skype Sessions, Private Visits or Professional Training?

If any of the following apply to you - please find local help first:

  • You want free coaching
  • You cannot cope with change or stress
  • You are suicidal or you may harm yourself
  • You need psychiatric medication or drugs to function
  • You have no pleasant relationships or you generally avoid people
  • You are generally dysfunctional and/or you cannot cope with daily tasks

If you pass that ... you can probably focus on what makes sense in your life ...

Do you intend to improve your health, happiness and success? YES - SOMETIMES - NO
Are you generally mature and responsible? YES - SOMETIMES - NO
Are you friendly? Do you have many friends? YES - SOMETIMES - NO
Are you truthful? Do you generally avoid deception? YES - SOMETIMES - NO
Are you usually proactive to solving life challenges? YES - SOMETIMES - NO
Are you ready to examine and change any self-sabotage? YES - SOMETIMES - NO
Can you enjoy trying new ways and new behaviors? YES - SOMETIMES - NO
Have you suffered enough? Do you want to change? YES - SOMETIMES - NO
Are you financially prepared to invest in your own future? YES - SOMETIMES - NO
Are you reliable? Do you finish what you start? YES - SOMETIMES - NO
  • For each YES - give yourself 3 points

  • For each SOMETIMES - only 1 point

  • Count your points ...

0 - 10 You are unlikely to change anything soon - email us when you are ready
Over 10 You want to change slowly. Skype coaching may be right for you
Over 20 You are ready to take off. Our private sessions may be perfect for you
Over 25 You could be a great coach. Consider attending our professional training

During our private sessions, you can discuss and explore your goals and plans, as we together search for appropriate solutions that honor and empower your relationships, your work and your life.

  • We mostly confine email support to existing clients.
  • Private coaching is fast and intense; we can help you make arrangements that suit you.
  • Skype coaching is less intense. You pay us through PayPal before you call us, and we will expect your call at the agreed time.
  • Some people prefer to bring one of us to their location - would you prefer this luxury?

Skype coaching . Private Sessions . Couple Coaching . Advanced Training

  • For more on costs - see Investment
  • Perhaps print this page for easy reference
  • One of us will respond your first email freely
  • We follow well-defined ethics - see Code of Conduct
  • Your personal details are private - see Privacy Policy
  • The more accurately you answer - the better we can respond
  • Aggressive emails and victim-like demands are deleted on impact
  • This is not an online form - please answer these questions by email

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Please mention your motivation, your time frame for your success and whether you can travel. If relevant, mention your education, profession and special skills; also any disease, disabilities, and whether you are taking psychoactive drugs or are attending psychotherapy or psychiatric treatment etc. (We will ask you to talk to your health care provider about whether or not to include our coaching.)

Our coaching sessions are not a substitute for medical care, nor for legal or financial advice.
We help motivated adults resolve emotional blocks and improve relationships.

Guidelines for our Coaching

Skype Coaching Private Sessions Professional Training
You want to learn new skills; or you want to apply existing skills in different contexts.

You want better relationships. You want to dissolve entanglements. You want to be happier. Organizational coaching, for community / international projects.

You want new perspectives on life, or you want sense-of-life.

You want to change or control your habits or compulsions.

You want in-house training for an organization.

You want better relationships; you want quality partnership, parenthood or leadership. You want to resolve relationship issues (Couple Coaching; Family Coaching; or Team Coaching). You want contingency planning or disaster relief.
You want success. You want to achieve personal or relationship goals at home or at work. You want to resolve codependent relationships or end long term abuse or manipulation. You want refugee management for people who are lost or disconnected.

We will not help people achieve goals which, in our opinion,
are criminal, unethical or which hurt children.

Your email address is safe with us.
We despise spammers as much as you do.
We will NEVER send you spam or sell your information.

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1. Where are you now? Assess relationship bonds and entanglements Systems 1
2. What are your life goals?  Identify your life goals ... and what blocks you Systems 2
3. How to reach your goals?  Use your conscious and unconscious resources Systems 3
4. What stops you?  Dissolve abuse and trauma to rebuild motivation Systems 4
5. What else stops you? Change your limiting beliefs to end dependence Systems 5
6. What else stops you? Resolve identity loss to recover qualities and skills Systems 6
7. What else stops you? Heal mentor damage and find quality mentorship Systems 7
8. What about your partnership? Build happy partnership (or separate peacefully) Systems 8
9. What about your children? We coach parents to resolve family problems Systems 9
10. What about your success? We coach team leaders and teams ... together Systems 10
11. What about your community? We coach community leaders and communities Systems 11
12. What about complex goals? Specialty coaching & training for unusual goals Specialty

Plagiarism is theft. Copyright © Martyn Carruthers 1996-2010 All rights reserved. Soulwork Systemic Coaching was primarily developed by Martyn Carruthers. We help people define and achieve goals, resolve emotional blocks and improve relationships. This information is for general knowledge only. Consult a physician about medical conditions and before changing any medical treatment. Don't steal ... ask Martyn for permission to post or publish his work.