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Emotional Maturity & Relationship Ecology
Healthy Relationships © Martyn Carruthers 1999-2012

Online Coaching & Mentorship


Coaching, mentorship and interactive workshops on emotional maturity,
solving relationship problems and resolving family chaos.

Emotional Coaching & Relationship Ecology

There are no limits to the happiness of healthy relationships
nor to the suffering of unhealthy relationships.

Although most people want to improve their relationships, to resolve conflicts and discuss difficult issues peacefully, deficiencies in relationship skills can make any relationship difficult. Our coaching and training follows years of research and experience.

Relationship skills reflect your maturity. If you stop developing - at any age - then your relationship skills remain stuck at that age. In a crisis, you may act like a child. We help you change whatever delayed your development - and catch up on any wasted time. Our specialties are:

Put ELATION into your RelationSHIPS

We can help you improve most relationships - from friendship to dating to marriage; from making friends to creating community, from groups to focused communities.

We encourage your health and your passion. Learn how to change singles to Soulmates - groups to top teams - and lonely families to dynamic community members. We help partners, friends, teams, parents and communities solve problems.

Emotional Maturity . Meaning of Life . Referrals

Good Intentions are Not Enough!

But good intentions are a good start! We help people resolve relationship problems, and prepare for future challenges.

  1. Define relationship goals
  2. Resolve existing crises
  3. Clarify past and present relationships
  4. Dissolve inner conflicts
  5. Adjust relationship beliefs
  6. Resolve relationship trauma
  7. Find appropriate mentors
  8. Focus on life purpose or mission

The absence of integrity leads to suffering, loneliness and depression. We help people end suffering and take steps towards the long-term happiness of healthy relationships.

Effective, mature communication skills can greatly contribute to your success.

Friendship Skills

Your friends range from casual acquaintances to intimate partners. Good friends are life blessings - but enjoying good friends is not luck. Quality friendship requires skill.

We can help you develop and improve your friendship skills and solve problems with friends, which are pre-requisites for effective teamwork, happy partnership and parenthood.

Many adults were never taught how to be friendly ... and they can be very lonely, often surrounding themselves with other lonely people. Some important friendship skills are:

  • Offering help
  • Sharing emotions
  • Joining conversations
  • Showing "I'm interested in you"
  • Giving and receiving complaints
  • Giving and receiving compliments

Partnership Skills

Good Couple Coaching can save you years of trial-and-error and suffering. Relationship coaching simultaneously helps you and your partner to build or improve double vision. We coach couples to evaluate partnership, to resolve relationship problems, and to prepare for future challenges.

We help couples resolve issues of abandonment, betrayal, crisis and trauma; and to:

  • share emotions & values
  • build a joyous relationship
  • dissolve toxic relationship habits
  • resolve guilt and the consequences of affairs
  • clean up past partnerships and previous romances
  • separate peacefully and with dignity, if all hope has faded

A partner can be your greatest good - but maintaining a happy partnership is not luck. Healthy partnership requires healthy relationship skills. Our couple coaching includes Premarital Coaching to prepare for lasting partnership and Separation Coaching to peacefully disconnect and rebuild separate lives apart. We help couples:

  1. Define relationship goals
  2. Dissolve relationship conflicts
  3. Prepare for unknown challenges
  4. Individual changework as required
  5. Compare values, goals and needs
  6. Clarify past and present relationships

Family Skills for Happy Families

Families are intimate teams! Families feed and shelter the young and the old, and provide morals and values that shape individual lives. Family coaching is integrated throughout our systemic coaching.

Systemic family coaching helps families to resolve emotional and behavioral challenges. Our family coaching simultaneously coaches family members to resolve challenges in ways that increase family harmony and resourcefulness.

Family members can receive integrity coaching to present their needs and fears. Each member can be coached to "try" other member's perspectives. Each member can be coached to examine family conflict as a mutual problem - and find mutual solutions. Our Family Coaching helps all family members.

Raising children to independent adulthood demands years of loving patience and strength. Many parents are not prepared for parenthood - our Parent Coaching offers support parents who need help or additional resources.

Team Skills for Team Spirit

Our team coaching can helps you work together to achieve goals that you cannot achieve alone. We coach team members support and protect each other! We coach team leaders to manage team emotions, identify and organize relationship resources, and get appropriate feedback and information.

Our team coaching can simultaneously coach all team members to dissolve blocks and work together effectively. Team coaching includes coaching the formation of new teams, maintaining and enhancing existing teams and training team leaders. We also assist team members to separate without stress.

Team leadership skills build on team skills - we coach leaders to lead before and during interactions with team members with an increasing scale of challenges and complexity.

Our team coaching includes:

  1. Define team objectives
  2. Select new team members
  3. Select and coach team leaders
  4. Define task content and priorities
  5. Define team leader's role and tasks
  6. Dissolve hidden agendas and other objections

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Soulwork systemic coaching in America & Hawaii

 

Soulwork systemic coaching in England, Wales & Scotland

 
Soulwork systemic coaching in Croatia & Serbia
 

Soulwork systemic coaching in Poland

 

Systemic Coaching & Coach Training
What will you accomplish when you recover your resources?
Summer Rates: US $80 / session or US $300 / month

 

Have You Suffered Enough?

 Where are you now? Assess your fixations, bonds and enmeshments
What do you want? Know your life goals ... and your blocks to success
Do you have the resources? Find your hidden resources by dreaming together
Which emotions block you? End relationship disappointments and mentor damage
Do your beliefs limit you? Change your limiting beliefs and end dependence
Do you sometimes feel empty? Resolve identity loss to recover your lost resources
Is your partnership happy? Build healthy partnership (or separate peacefully)
Are your children healthy? Happy parents can better manage family problems
Do you want team success? Team leaders and top teams can develop together
Do you enjoy community? Communities and leaders can develop together
Do you have unusual goals? Specialty coaching & training

Plagiarism is theft. Copyright © Martyn Carruthers 1996-2012 All rights reserved. Soulwork Systemic Coaching was primarily developed by Martyn Carruthers
to help people dissolve emotional blocks and improve relationships to achieve their goals. These concepts and strategies are for general knowledge only. Consult a physician about medical conditions and before changing medical treatment. Don't steal intellectual property ... get permission to post, publish or teach Martyn's work.