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What is
Systemic Coaching?

Telephone and Skype Coaching

Classical coaching is useful when individuals make decisions in controllable environments with simple objectives. Systemic coaching is useful when making relationship decisions, especially in complex environments or with ambiguous objectives.

Systemic coaching can help you solve complex relationship problems. Managers, executives and professionals can get measurable performance and productivity increases using systemic coaching.

What is Systemic Coaching?

A human relationship system is an organization of people, such as friends, families, teams, businesses, communities and governments. Human systems are empowered and limited by systemic rules, which are rarely obvious or intuitive. Systems theory and systemic rules can be confusing. In some systems it is against the rules to discuss the rules ... or even to know the rules!

Like consulting, systemic coaching is outcome oriented, dealing in visions, action plans, inspiration and feedback. Unlike consulting, systemic coaching provides structure, support and feedback as we help you remove blocks, attain goals and realize visions. Systemic coaching provides process expertise, rather than content knowledge. We coach people in human systems to identify, create, locate and acquire missing knowledge and skills. We coach human systems to change.

Systems Theory . Chaos Theory

A human system finds knowledge and produces skills for use by members of that system. Members can also use skills developed or acquired by the system during an earlier time. However, members may be unable to use or even consider skills developed by more complex systems.

Members of a trade union may not understand nor appreciate the more complex skills used by upper management. Even within a simple system, relationship management is a necessity. Get coaching!

Knowledge Management . Expert Modeling

How does Systemic Coaching work?

Systemic Coaching begins with diagnosis - we talk about your goals, your relationships and your history. Then we discuss your costs and benefits. Then we use meetings, e-mails and telephone calls to support your chosen goals. Subsequent steps focus on what works (not what's wrong) and on future solutions (not past problems). This leads to positive, pragmatic change strategies with minimal undesirable side-effects.

A systemic coach need not be in the same business, the same community or even the same country as you. A coach from outside the systems in which you live and work can provide better objectivity and perspective - and out of the box strategies.

Systemic coaching helps you clarify situations, strategies and goals. Systemic coaching helps you evaluate resources and find steps to achieve your goals. You develop your control and responsibility. You know your environment, the participants and the rules. A coach can help you articulate and challenge rules, while you gain clarity, make decisions and follow through.

What does Systemic Coaching offer?

  • improved communication and leadership skills
  • ways to evaluate reality, rules, opportunities and goals
  • ways to evaluate family, friends, colleagues and managers
  • space to identify and and dissolve blocks to happiness or success
  • accountability, expectations, deadlines, reality tests and feedback

Systemic coaching models

A model is only as useful as the accuracy of its predictions. Systemic coaching begins with needs assessment and outcome specification. Well-formed outcomes and goals help you create ideas for their fulfillment and motivates your actions to realize them.

A belief audit helps you examine your blocks or challenges. Some of your beliefs will change spontaneously as you align with your goals and values. Systemic coaching models that generate powerful choices include relationship matrices, timelines, organizational development, reframing, perceptual positions, relationship hierarchies and logical levels of abstraction.

Systemic Coach Training

Intensive programs are available if you want to learn professional systemic coaching. These programs provide practical coaching skills and multi-level coaching tools to help you gain clarity and control. Systemic coaching skills are a needed community resource.

Our Systemic Solutions integrate innovations in coaching, health sciences and consulting to help you enhance your profession, resolve your family's issues or build a coaching practice.

Sample Systemic Coaching Topics

  • Align goals with identity & vision
  • Avoid burnout and find inspiration
  • Change individual & organizational beliefs
  • Conflict resolution & conflict management
  • Difficult people and difficult situations
  • Develop appropriate communication skills
  • Develop coaching & assessment tools
  • Discovery, acknowledgment & permission
  • Conflict integration & decision making
  • Initiate and maintain motivation
  • Leadership skills and motivation
  • Master effective questioning
  • Model & replicate performance strategies
  • Solve individual, couple and team conflicts
  • Use provocation, requests & challenges
  • Use goal diagnosis and goal hypnosis

Are you ready for systemic coaching? Are you ready to walk your talk, to be effective and to do what works. You can benefit from our years of experience in teaching and using systemic coaching.

Do you want relationship coaching or systemic coach training? We can coach and train you to help individuals, couples and teams resolve a wide range of complex relationship challenges.

Plagiarism is theft. Copyright © Jan Sikorski 2003-2012 All rights reserved.


 

 
 

 

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1. Where are you now? Assess fixations, bonds and enmeshments Systems 1
2. What do you want?  Define life goals ... and blocks to success Systems 2
3. Do you have a plan?  Use conscious and unconscious resources Systems 3
4. Do your emotions limit you?  Dissolve abuse, trauma and mentor damage Systems 4
5. Do your beliefs block you? Change limiting beliefs and end dependence Systems 5
6. Do you feel empty? Resolve identity loss to recover lost qualities Systems 6
7. Is your partner happy? Build healthy partnership (or separate peacefully) Systems 7
8. Are your children happy? Parents can resolve family problems Systems 8
9. Do you want team success? Develop team leaders and top teams together Systems 9
10. Do you want community? Coach community leaders and communities Systems 10
**   Do you have unusual goals? Specialty coaching & training Specialty

Plagiarism is theft. Copyright © Martyn Carruthers 1996-2012 All rights reserved. Soulwork Systemic Coaching was primarily developed by Martyn Carruthers
to help people dissolve emotional blocks, improve relationships and achieve goals. These concepts and strategies are for general knowledge only. Consult a physician about medical conditions and before changing medical treatment. Don't steal intellectual property ... ask for permission to post, publish or teach this work.